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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Friends afraid I'll put boyfriend before them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - ok i am 15 and i've been dating my boyfriend 4 3 months now and he took my virginity about 4 days ago now that is not my problem my problem is now my friends think i am going to change and they say im not going 2 b around them as much they think ...

Is it love actually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - First i would like to say i have been looking at this site and i only chose it because the answers people give are always polite, not like some other sites where people are rude anyway. MY question is, i went on a date with my boyfriend yester...

Always horny but then feel guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - hi., ok well im always horny. i masterbate but its never enuf. touching myself anywhere else dusnt help, and it really bugs me. also, it helps when i look at porn but i always feel guilty after doing that. plz help me, thanks....

I love my g/f but I'm having phone sex! Do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - hi, i'm 17 years old and so is my girlfriend. i love her but i kept talking to other girls and saying they're my wife and girlfriend and another i was having phone sex with and my door wasn't closed and i was over the covers. and my mom walked in on ...

I'm being patient but he's still hesitant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Ok, so here is my problem. I hung out with this guy who we both connected on an unbelievable level. I know for absolute fact he is in to me so this is not a question of that. We where so in to each other that even though it was our first time out ...

How do I get over this guy I've been in love with 5 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - HEy you guys!!!its lotmoney13 Well i have this thought that it would be nice to start off the new year NOT being in a heart-ache! so yeah i'm still in love with HIM, but i'd really like to move on now! So i'm asking for advice on how to get...

What sort of physique do girls like in a boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Hi, happy new year. I want to know this from girls. Girls, what sort of physique u like in ur bf? Tall, short, fat, skinny, muscular, anything. Feel free to give me ideas on wot u actually look for. Thanks. Pls. ...

Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out? Like there are certain bras and tops I can wear that make my boobs look much bigger than they actually are. My bf knows my size of course but I'm just ...

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought...

Help! I'm stuck between 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My problem is very long, I apologise in advance. Basicaly I'm stuck between 2 guys. Guy A I met about a year and a half ago, when I was 14 (and so was he). After a while, about the end of august, we decided to go out. As most couples are at 14, thin...

I said I was having nothing more to do with men and now this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5779 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Got a bit of a problem and I really don't know what to do so really need advice. I'm originally from Scotland moved down to London about 2 years ago to go to university. I recently started dating a new guy I met at university and we've been going ...

Do best friends really have that cheesy happy ending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm nineteen and I've had my fair-share of boyfriends. Mostly bad, as I've only had one boyfriend that lasted more than a year. The other night, my most recent ex and I broke up and as usual, I went straight to my best friend of seven years ...

Teacher gives me longing glances...does it mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi! Guys. I just want to say thanks to all of those who answered my previous questions. Some of your answers were harsh and even a little bitchy, but i get why you were trying to show me the real life of my situation. I havent done anything crazy or ...

Love my boyfriend but texting other guy! Should I tell my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I need help. yu all probably seen my last post about havinqg sex with my boyfriend ( and I decided to wait by the way) but now I have a different problem. I love my boyfriend so much and we've been together for three months. yesterday while ...

My guy had incident 3 years ago now worried he's infertile but won't go to the doc!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I have a 24 year old Boyfriend who is forever worried that he is infertile because he was assaulted and hit in the testicles 3 years back. He somehow believes his balls got "crushed" during the whole thing, Apparently one guy took his balls in his ...

We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...

Is my cousin in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Im 14years old,and I have a 16year old cousin,a boy.When we were little as a usual bunch of kids he'd tease me,laugh at me,and make me cry.When I grew older,I've noticed he started acting different towards me.He began giving me hugs,and saying how ...

Big Social Complex: is there any hope for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Ok so here it is. I am 19 and I hav a big problem. I have a very big social complex. I have been to everything from therapists to the Bible. I have even been recently saved about three weeks ago, because the pastor says that it may be a fight for my ...

What did she mean by her message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Alright, so i like this girl alot. she's the same age as me and we have a damn near every thing there is in common. but idk if she likes me. ive got a hint i think, i said somthing to her on myspace about how a one of my girlfriends dumped me cus i ...

How can I make it up to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

31 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend, Sydney (of four years) is mad at me because I forgot her birthday (again I did it to her last year as well). This time she let me gave it and ended sleeping at a friend's house. To matters worse when I called her to apologize and ask ...

I'm so depressed in my marriage, I don't even want to wake up in the morning...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Im 18yrs old and i just got married about 3 months ago. I find myself becoming more and more depressed, i dont even wanna wake up in the morning. I started feeling this way about 2months ago, its makes me wonder if its bc i wasnt ready to get ...

Is my penis size big enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I'm not quite a virgin and my penis is about 8 or 9 inches long and about 2 or 3 in girth. I'm just wondering if my penis size is big enough. the girl that I've last slept with was a virgin and when we first had intercourse it was a littlel painful ...

A bit too close for comfort.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and h...

Should I expect a kiss? It's our first real date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - hey everyone. I'm going on my first real date with my boyfriend of one week on thursday, we are going to a movie. should I expect a kiss? I've never been kissed before so I don't really know how. any tips? and I aslo need advice on what...

Bleeding after sex/masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi all! Okay so I know I ask this question almost every time it happens, maybe its because I still question exactly why it happens. Anyways it seems everytime I masturbate by stimulating my clit or have sex, after I orgasm, wait a few hours until I ...

Should I stay with him and work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - ok well were do i start me and my ex was 2gther for seven months. we were also engaged for 5 of those months we have being having a few problems latley and all we seem to do is argue. then on christmas day he broke up with me. he said he didnt love ...

Can someone tell me how to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - i have a crush i hate him but i like everybody in my class thats a girl but ones a gossip and befor everybody ones how can i get over him he's nice but he "thinks" i'm evil but i just tease him and he terases me and he likes a girl i the class ...

Two 14 year olds + one ripped condom = one possible pregnancy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I am only 14yrs old me and my girlfriend had sex she is also 14 the condom ripped. So far she hasnt experienced any signs of pregnancy. my question is how long does it take her to start those signs if in fact she is pregnant? can anyone help me ...

Is this stain in my underwear me starting my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - its the second day now and i have brownish stains in my underwear and at first i thought it was crap but then it happened again and then i thought that i might be having my period. i do have pubic hair and ive noticed arm pit hair sooo yea.=/...

B/f no more sex he's afraid of pregnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - So, basically, I have been with my boyfriend for five months now, and we've been having sex for about 3 months. We have always been safe and responsible, using condoms as protection. However, recently, I considered going on the conraceptive pill as ...

How can I spend one night with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi! im new to this so sorry if it sounds wired. Iv a small problem.I really love my boyfriend of 7 months now and more than anything in the world I would so love to sleep with him for one night and wake up with him their. Not even for us to do ...

I don't trust her now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I'm Hurrycanger. I'm kind alike you, boy. A bit different : I knew her online. For some months, now I call her "wife" and she calls me "husband". Sound kinda happy. But, I'm jealous everytime, + I can't trust her that much. She said she had a best ...

He's not replying to my texts, am I wasting my time here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi all , I have been speaking to the same boy on the internet for like 3-4 months but haven't met him. I know he's not a perv or anything as I have spoken to him on the phone and I know his little cousin. I have strong feelings for him and I think ...

I never got to say goodbye to him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - On the 13th of November my dad past away with MS and we moved away from him when he was in the nursing home 3 years ago we went over to visit him and the day we went home the day after he died and I never got to say goodbye when he left and it's so ...

I'm stuck in the "what if" kind of situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi, to be honest i'm not really sure why i am writing this. I dont know if i want help or if i just want to get things off my chest. The thing is i met a boy when i was on holiday when i was nine, we clicked straight away. After the holiday we kept ...

Condom split and now I'm worried about pregnancy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i started taking the pill, i wasnt fully on the all clear so i used a condom too, it split. i thort i was pregnant so i stopped taking it i then started to bleed, but not like a period. i got a few symptoms of pregnancy, tired feel sick etc, then a ...

I think I messed up my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I constantly had a fight with my boyfriend recently and I was so mad at him yesterday that I texted him that we should end the relationship if things don't go accordingly. I didn't mean to do so seriously; I was just mad at him at that time and bl...

Taking pill, maybe I'm becoming anemic now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi!I'm completely new to this website, but I was wondering if someone could help set my mind at ease. I've recently started taking the pill, and I have been sure to take it everyday at the same time, and as instructed started to take it on the first ...

Dry humping..now pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i were dry humpping please i need a reply.am i pregnant but my period is delayed by 4 days im scared please help some one...

I want to date my best friend but she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I don't know if this is just a phase because of my raging hormones but I think I want to date my best friend (Who is a girl just like me) She has a boyfriend, and they have been dating for about a month basically. I've been fighting this fe...

In love with the geography teacher!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - okay, it's all common and stuff, but like. i think i am in love with my geography teacher. there's an age gap of 15 years, but i really don't care. he always looks at me in lessons, and everytime he says my name he smiles and says it in such an ...

Religion causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now. And so far everything's doing great - he's really sweet, nice and cares about me. And I really like him too, I may even be falling in love. I don't know. (We're both 18 by the way.) But th...

I'm hiding forbidden love from my mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - im in a relation that im 15, and he is 18. its a forbidden love, and even though i am really pretty, and he isnt, i really like him(which no one really gets why i hang out with him)i really like him, he is himself, and when we USE to talk we talked ...

Is my boyfriend gay and just not admitting it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - Is my Boyfriend Gay? Okay so my boyfriend and I have slept together (when I say slept togetehr I mean beside each other NOT sex). He's spent the night at my house about 3 times and we've been in the same bed. I dont wear a bra to sleep in. He'...

I have strong will power but around him, I just melt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay well, this is my first post on this site and I really need some advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I'm going to sound like a horrible person, and I guess I am on some level, but I can't stop. Here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for...

14 and worried about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...

Teen stuck at home, how to cope till college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I think I feel stuck or something. I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. Everything seems to be getting so old... My friends, how my days go, school, being a junior... I'm just sick of it all. I stay home all the time because the kind...

Sould I continue a relationship that is illigal and my parents wouldn't like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Im 15 and a freshmen and my boyfriend is 18 and a sinor, and illegal for me. We arent going out really cuz we are school only has a student body of 600 students the which 30 no my parents, and im not allowed to go out with anyone cuz of church so ...

How can I tell him to leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm 14, there's this boy i used to like in my primary school,(started all in year 5) he was nice one year, next year i guess hormones kicked in didn't like me much he done one of them hate things, were he totally hated my guts, swore and said many ...

What to do to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5804 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have told my dad that my crush and i are going out. He was happy for me. I convinced him to let me go to his house, thought he cant take the decision alone. My parents are separated and have different point of views.Im afraid my mom wont let me ...