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writes: I saw my sister's boyfriend cheating on her (she's 14 and he's 17 and he's also is in my grade) at a party and I think he was drunk. I always had a bad vibe around him but I thought I being paranoid so I ignore it (plus my sis wouldn't’t have listen anyway). My sister would be hurt. What should I do?
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reader, mykidsmommy  +, writes (26 January 2009):
I have a younger sister and her boyfriend is a creep. He has started problems with my family with lies and now two relatives have seen him with other girls. My sister thinks that he loves her and she loves him. She has chosen him and does not believe that he has done anything wrong. As far as him being with other girls she excuses him by telling everyone that those are his friends. But she is not allowed to go and hang out with her male friends because of his jealousy. My point to this story is that if your sister is anything like mine then you can tell her of her boyfriends' infidelities but she will only get upset with you. The only way she is going to believe it is if she sees it for herself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy sister's boyfriend came up to me and he begged me not tell his gf about what he did. And I used that opportunity to give him hell. Im still telling my sister.
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reader, vikkicutie  +, writes (5 December 2008):
 even though he was drunk he shouldnt have cheated on your sister. there is obviously something wrong in the relationship for him to do this.
i think that you should tell your sister. she is your flesh and blood she may not believe you but at least you have told her. if she doesnt believe you the thought will still be in her mind.
you cant replace flesh and blood but you can replace a man. she needs to be treated with love and this guy is not!!
good luck hun!
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (5 December 2008):
 She will only get more hurt in the future if she catches him herself.May i add thats what camera phones are for ;)Speak to him, say what you saw and that he has to tell her or you will!Shes your siser, and you need to do the right thing by looking out for her. If it was the other way around you would want to know wouldnt you?
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reader, tux +, writes (5 December 2008):
 Well, i'd say.. mmm I'd say you should inform her.. but be cautious on the way you approach it, because she might not believe you or she might accuse you of trying to break them up for yourself.. BUt I think she should know about it... or if you can bring it up when he is with her.. which is probably better than having her confront him by herself. That is my take on it.
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