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writes:hey everyone :)quick question....about how long does it take to enjoy sex??i lost my virginity last month; the first time hurt a little so i tried to relax and that worked. so the next time i did the same thing....but it didnt feel "good" when he put it in.....is it me or him or is this normal or rare....?im so confused.thanks for your helpX
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (24 August 2009):
 I lost my virginity at the end of January with my ex-boyfriend and we were having sex over the space of four months. I never really enjoyed it or got anything out of it. I left him in June and started dating my new boyfriend, with whom I started having sex just over a month ago. And a couple of weeks ago I just started getting something out of it.For some girls it doesn't take as long, for others longer.And did you know only 25% of girls can orgasm through penetration? The majority of us rely on oral for orgasms =]
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reader, Hybrid  +, writes (24 August 2009):
You're both young and inexperienced. For you, obviously there is the pain factor, but its pretty safe to say he doesn't exactly know what he's doing either. Give it time, you'll be enjoying yourself before you know it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): Don't worry, For the first month it took me a long time for me to adjust to having it inside. I didn't enjoy it when he put it in for a very long time. It's normal. Don't worry about it. :) You will enjoy it later after you get use to it.
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