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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: when my boyfriend and i have sex its great i love it but i wish he would show me more moves and get in to it more he said he is in to it but sometimes i dont think he is and i like to talk to dirty but he has a hard time doin that and i dont know how to make things better
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reader, Fukkthemainstream +, writes (25 August 2009):
Change your positions try every one you possibly can.
Try doing it standing up that's a turn on for some guys and if you do do it standing up tell him you want him to pick you up and do it. It is the most amazing feeling in the world.
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reader, rcn +, writes (24 August 2009):
I use to be not as experimental. Guys, as being who we are, look at a girl and it may cross our minds how we'd like to do XXXX, XXXXXX, and XXXXX to her. But we don't say it. Cause to say it = what we want + reation from who we tell = possible rejection. You need to get him comfortable. Instead of talking dirty. Tell him what you want to do to him where an answer is required. This more he opens up the more your sex life will improve.
I was someone who was in the bottle he's in now. Use to not be open, and it wasn't just about the rejection, it was embarassment about talking about these things. Opening up more took me feeling a little awkward at first, and uncomfortable, but the more i did it with a positive reation, the more enjoyable it became.
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