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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Is this amount of sex bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hi there. Me and my bf really really enjoy sex, and when he's back from uni we do it every opportunity we get. He satisfies me every time but I get worried that this amount of sex is bad. I think about sex a lot during the day and i'm always q...

What is female masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I was just wondering what female masterbation is??...

My husband won't touch me, what should I do?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I would like if anybody who has some good points would give me a few min.What should I do with this totally awkward\ situation? My husband lost interest in sex, and literally ,he won't even touch me, yet, he says ,he loves me , wants to spend hi...

I love him but I'm tired of feeling unsatisfied....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. Before we got married, the sex was great, but now I'm lucky if we make love once or twice a month. I've tried talking to him about this, but he always wants it to be all on his terms. ...

On a scale of 1-10 how important is sexual compatibility?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - How important on a scale of 1 to 10 is sexual compatibility in a relationship? How devastating can sexual differences be to a relationship? Are there ways to overcome these differences and make things work? Or is it a case by case thing. I'm looki...

How do I ask a woman to have sex with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I'm in my forties and have not had sex for nearly 17 years. How do I get a woman into my bed? Females only answer please. Thank you....

He doesn't want me to have sex with him if I don't really want to, but he also complains if he doesn't get any at all! I can't win! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My question is whether you should have sex (in a relationship) when you don't really want to? In all my relationships, after the first few months my sex drive has gone down quite a bit (I hear this is fairly common), but my partner's hasn't. ...

I thought the sperm was meant to go upwards, not back out??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - heya just a quick question - the other day i had sex without a condom (its ok im on the pill and i was my bf's first so he doesnt have anything)and afterwards i found that sperm was leaking out of me- is this normal? cos i thought it was kinda meant ...

Sperm worries!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I'm guy of 18. I'm very much interested in sex. I don't have any girlfriends, but looking for! Whenever I got sexually aroused, I used to masturbate but the problem is, I haven't seen sperm coming out of my penis. One day in the morning I found ...

Masturbation problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I've got a question about girl masturbation... well actually clit stimulation.. Is it normal that it hurts after? Well I have been masturbating the last time in the shower and I had an orgasm but then it hurt a bit... I was wondering if something ...

BJ help

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - ok im 13 and im REALLY horny, i have a girlfriend and i really want her to give me a blowjob, help! and please dont answer tht im too young, i need help not parental lecturing, thanks...

I found and used my moms dildos.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - im a 15 year old female. recently i found my moms 4 dildos and used them. is that bad ? ...

He really made me feel used and like an object. Ever since, I've never been comfortable with intimacy, and especially not sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Okay, this is really embarrassing to talk about, but I need advice. This is a sex question. A few years ago, I went out with this guy who was completely into my body. I was only 14, and he was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first sexual ...

Should the fore-skin be back before you put the condom on your erect penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Should the fore-skin be back before you put the condom on your erect penis?...

Back with my ex after a year and my libido has vanished, what is wrong with me?

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29 November 2008 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman and I have been in a relationship for 8 years now. My boyfriend and I use to have a wonderful and exciting sex life. We currently just got back together after being seperated for almost a year and my sex drive has vanished ...

I'm on my 7 day break from the pill but still haven't come on! What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hey! This is sorta a relationship problem but im on the pill and stopped taking it last wednesday for my 7 day break but i still havent come on. Im thinking of going over to my boyfriends tomoro and if we will have sex will it make me come on? I ...

An advice to all teenage girls out there who are thinking of having pre-marital sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - This isn't a request for help, it's just some advice for a lot of these people asking questions out there. I feel for the questions about dealing with ex's. Ex-boyfriends and Ex-girlfriends are never good news. We all have them, but they should be ...

Guys: would a bj feel better with a warm or cold mouth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I'm thinking about giving my BF a surprise BJ when he comes home from class tomorrow, soon after he comes inside. My question is, do you think it would feel especially good if I gargled/drank hot or cold water right beforehand? Does one fee...

From 100 mph to 0 in 15 months....!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - So I started going out with my current girlfriend after meeting her at the bar, she was a rebound for me at the time so things didn't really start off intending to turn into a relationship but it did- and that made things tough. Anyways the sex was ...

I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex, although I haven't got a boyfriend, the thought of it just scares me. If I got into the situation, I wouldn't have a clue what to do, it's not like I ever have boyfriends or stuff because my ...

Is it okay to just not be that bothered about sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I'm a 26 year old woman, and I started having sexual relationships when I was sixteen. I've been in two or three serious long term relationships, and all have been loving, and relatively sucessful except for one thing. I'm really not that fussed a...

I didn't enjoy my first time, although I do love her, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - hi,i am feeling a little embaressed abt sharing this problem..well,here it goes.last year it was my first time with my girlfriend but not hers,and while undergoing physical attachment i didnt feel,u knw wht i mean?but seriously i love my girlfrie...

We have had a sexual relationship for 4 years now, what in the world could be his problem? Why don't we advance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - i have had a sexual relationship with a man for over 4 yrs now and in a recent conversation i made a coment to him stating that i feel i "scare him". not to say i am a scary type of woman but because of the type of person that i am. he kind sorta ...

Thick, white discharge during masturbation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - When I masturbate with a toy, I either end up squirting or I produce a thick, creamy white discharge, and lots of it. Is this white discharge normal? When I get turned on, the discharge is always slippery and clear, but during "intercourse" it...

Is it possible to squirt with NO g-spot/vaginal stimulation whatsoever, only clitoral ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I just want to make sure that this is possible: ~is it normal to, during a clitoral orgasm, squirt? A few times, on purpose, I didn't touch my urethrea/vagina/g-spot whatsoever, and I still squirted--I think. Is this possible? Normal? With NO g...

My boyfriend isn't interested in sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - So, I have a big sex issue. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and though I've always know he has a low sex drive, recently our sex life has really been lacking. For the past 3 weeks, we have rarely been having sex, he acts like he's not really ...

I'd love to try anal but it hurts!!! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - And it's not b/c my boyfriend wants it, either--I'm single anyway. Anyhow, since I was like 16 I have always had an interest in anal, but it's too painful whenever i try to do it with an average sized toy! Is there anything I can do? I've tried l...

Does it sound like I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hiya everyone, Im really worried for the past 3 days ive been off college sick with the stomach bug, but ive also having doubts that im pregnent since i saw somone else post about a stomach bug yesterday, Anyway ive been sleeping with my guy for ...

He insists on unprotected sex but I don't want to fall pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for about 10 months now. Everything's been going OK, we're socialising, and popular in our local neighborhood. However, our sex life is the only issue which is causing problems... my husband only ever wants ...

What position is less painful for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - it will be my first sexual relationship with my boyfriend but just by precaution...what position is less painful for the first time? - girl on top? - boy on top? ?????...

Is it possible that the combination of alcohol and the pill caused me to have a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hi recently I was having sex and the condom broke.... my husband immediately pulled out and he hadn't yet cum. I was also missed the pill around tht time for a few days as we had gona away and I left them at home. When I got home from our holiday I ...

I caught mydaughter masturbating with a balloon, is this some kind of fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I caught my 11 yo daughter masturbating with a balloon. I don't know what to do. STOP! Before I get a lot of hatful, prude comments, it's not that my daughter is masturbating. That is normal. No problem there. Should I stop her masturbating ...

How can I appeal to my girlfriend more?

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28 November 2008 (M) - Hello...My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months and we love eachother very much...I'm a little curious, we're both virgins and don't want to sex for a long time, and we're happy in the positions we're in, but, you know, what's something ...

Married man having sex with son's best friend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I am Joe, I have been married to my wife Hannah for 17 years and we have 2 great kids, I am also gay or bi. I had a few times had sex with men in high school and college, but when I met Hannah who is so beautiful we got married and the feelings for ...

What can I eat/do to be better for our first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I'll be with my GF this weekend and we might have sex for the first time can any one tell me what i can eat/do to be active enough since my pennis cannot erect/becomes weak after i have release,also should i use condom or not.i need to enjoy and ...

How can I tell him I'm not comfortable on top when he's just trying to protect me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - When I was younger I was sexually abused. I have had help to get past this and now I feel comfortable with the idea of having sex with my boyfriend. He has told me he wants to also, but is getting a bit over the top when it comes to his idea of ...

What do men think of women that sleep with them on the first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - What do men think of women that sleep with them on the first date? Are they considered a slut and not girlfriend material or is there a chance that it can work?...

How many men out there prefer pubic hair on a girl?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - How many men out there prefer pubic hair on a girl? I'm an Asian and I know by experience that most Asian men love pubic hair on a girl. What about the majority of men in the world? Are most men put off by that?...

Will a smaller penis change the way sex feels?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - While I was with my ex we had sex quite a bit, but that relationship ended pretty badly. Now I'm with another guy and we've gotten pretty close to having sex a few times. I've done other stuff with him and found that his dick is noticeably smaller ...

How do you know if you're ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Everyone always tells me that you need to be ready before you have sex, i get that. How exactly do you know if you're ready though. I feel comfortable with the idea of having sex with my boyfriend now but I get really embarrassed talking about it ...

He wants friends with benefits but not a relationship - should I go for it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - so about four months ago i met the absolutely perfect guy. perfect! and two weeks later he dumps me for some other chick that ended up being such an absolute female dog. anyways i flipped out on him and threw a fit cause before we even started ...

Do I need hymen removal surgery after so many years of being a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I am 38 years old and I am virgin. I have a boyfriend (he doesn't know yet that I am virgin) and I want to make sex with him. I am afraid that after so many years my hymen has become very thick and the penetration will be extremely difficult. Do I ...

How should I initiate things regarding sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's taking me out to dinner tonight and I want us to have our first time (we're both virgins). we've talked about it before and agreed to if we're in the right mood and lately if he says one thing dirty I get wet.. and I've always wanted ...

Why did the other boy work better and not this one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - hey. so me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times. we went out in the summer time and started having sex. it never felt good for me. one time it almost felt good but not really. we did it like 10 times while we went out btw. then we broke ...

How do I ask him without sounding dirty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - my bf and i have been haing sex using a condom and he cums inside of the condom its okayy with me but id much rather him cum on me ( i find it a big turn on..) but i dont wanna make myself sound dirty or anything.. should i just ask him? ...

He's not well endowed enough for me so he wants a divorce....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I'm 31, and married with a 5-year-old son and a 1-year-old daughter. I've been married for 4 years now. Last week my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I was shocked when I heard it. I asked him why, and he said "I'm not well-endowed eno...

Is this relationship over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I am 25 and have been with my gf for 5 years now, we are engaged and I feel as though our spark has gone. I love her more then anything else in the world and she is "in Love" with me. I don't think I'm in love with her any more, I take her for ...

Will I regret saving my viginity for marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Has anyone saved themselves for marriage and then regretted it and wished they had slept with their partner before or wished they'd had more than 1 sexual partner? Thanks...

My ex asked me to have sex with him! Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I've just split up with my boyfriend who i was with for 8 months and my ex before that has always been there for me. He's always come round when i needed him and gave me a shoulder to cry on, he's been like a big brother to me (: The other we...

He wanted me to stick my finger up his bum! Why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - my bf and i was having sex the other day when he wanted me to stick my finger up his bum, why did he want me to do this, he said he liked it mut my nails where to long, i was going to do it again last nite but he said no why did he want me to do it...