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writes:While I was with my ex we had sex quite a bit, but that relationship ended pretty badly. Now I'm with another guy and we've gotten pretty close to having sex a few times. I've done other stuff with him and found that his dick is noticeably smaller than my ex's. Will this change what it's going to feel like when we do eventually have sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008): Well, sexual performance is a combination of things for a male. Size is a big factor, but so is ability and 'lasting' power. For example, if guy 'A' is 6 inches, has good technique, and lasts 10 minutes, then guy 'B' is 7 inches, has good technique, and lasts 10 minutes, then a woman is going to get more pleasure and be happier with guy 'B'. Other scenario, guy 'C' has 5 inches, REALLY good technique/foreplay, and lasts 15 minutes, guy 'D' has 8 inches, is a selfish lover, and lasts only 3 minutes, guess what, guy 'C' is going to win.I would say, just let yourself go for it, and see what kind of lover he is. If he is a great lover, then dick size doesn't matter, if not, well, then you have to decide if you want to stay with him, having had a 'bigger' one. My wife had 2 lovers before me, one who was about 4 1/2 inches, but very attentive to her, and one who was about 8 inches who lasted about 30 seconds. I'm about 7 inches, and I am very attentive and last a long time. If you were to ask her who was sex the best with, I'm #1, the 4 1/2 incher is #2, and the 'BIG' guy comes in way last. She did admit to being very turned on by his big dick, but the sex sucked (her words). Go for it, and then see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008): Hi, I must say that the guys who I have had 'contact' with who are on the 'smaller' size have mastered the art of foreplay and kiss like a dream. I can get off on both. It's different but equally satisfying. Just try not to think about it and enjoy it. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Getting involved with a guy, you don't know what you going to get in his underpants, no it is more like getting a "lucky packet" and you don't know what is inside the packet untill you open it...then surprise, surprise!!!!!!!!! Fortunately there are ways to accommodate most sizes and with the correct inisiative sexual pleasure can be enjoyed irrelavant of the sizes and the shapes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Yes it will physically feel different, obviously. Because they are different! If you are anything like me: It won't be quite as easy for him to hit your spots, the advantage of a larger penis being that it takes up more space and therefore has a greater chance of hitting one of those spots. Plus I won't deny, a large (not obscenely big, but 8 inches or so and pretty thick) feels very satisfying, it makes you feel full and you can really feel every bit of it going in and out, very erotic. I have been with smaller men and noticed a difference in the way it feels, almost as if something is missing? After having bigger men it doesnt feel quite right. I admit to being a bit of a size queen however I found that if I taught the smaller men some good tricks with their hands and tongues, they were still able to get me off. It just takes a bit more effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): It isn't the size of the weapon, it's the man who wields it.
After all a woman's hair clip can be deadly when aimed at the right body part.
Similarly penis size means some positions are going to be better then others.
Flynn 24
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reader, FromMars  +, writes (28 November 2008):
Yes it does matters, when it comes to appearance, but definitely not psychologically. If you have a feel good experience after you have active sex, there is no problem to talk here. If you feel that something is missing when compared to your ex’s, try something exiting. Discuss with you partner about your excitement and try various position you are comfortable in.
If the desire and thrust is not there, even having a monster size does not excite you. Add passion while love making. Have a good foreplay and if you like dirty talks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): I agree with the previous answer...don't judge a book by it's cover! Read a few chapters and see if it catches you interest!
Reading is fundamental!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): I agree with the previous answer...don't judge a book by it's cover! Read a few chapters and see if it catches you interest!
Reading is fundamental!
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reader, cockainis +, writes (28 November 2008):
 However lucky or unlucky you will be because of size and or performance, remember that there are some things better left unsaid. Don't answer him if he asks the size of your ex. Say you've forgotten or something to that "insignificant" effect. Perhaps you can tell him if he'll be insistent, but it may be wise not to glorify it. Most all dicks are connected to the ego like flashy cars and big motorcycles.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (28 November 2008):
Honey, it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean. There is just SO SO SO much more to sex than what size the guy's package is. There is also the issue of this guy may not be fully "front and center" just fooling around if you know what I mean. In my experience, there's a satisfactory range and it has to be pretty darn small to be a big deal. I've had well endowed lovers who weren't all that much to write home about ... and some who might not look like much out of the box, but... "hello sailor!" when we leave the dock. ;-)
Does his kiss make you delirious? If so, then go with it and see what happens. Hope that helps.
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