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female
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*hristibeth
writes:I am a 30 year old woman and I have been in a relationship for 8 years now. My boyfriend and I use to have a wonderful and exciting sex life. We currently just got back together after being seperated for almost a year and my sex drive has vanished and his has increased to the maxium. I am very attracted to him and he s also attracted to me, though there is another small problem I have, I've gained almost 15 lbs. since returning home. He seems to be very supportive of my weight gain but it has affected me a lot in the bedroom. I am just not sexually motivated at all. My question is,"what is wrong with me?" I am wondering if I am just used to the fact of going without sex or is my body going through something I cant diagnose? Is my weight gain the actual problem and has become a self esteem issue thats causing me to not want to be intimate?
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