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writes:it will be my first sexual relationship with my boyfriend but just by precaution...what position is less painful for the first time?- girl on top?- boy on top?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): I feel that if you want to be in control... you need to be on top. If you are on top, you can take as much of him as possible. He can also be on top it doesn't matter too much. He'll put as much into as he thinks u can take. If its too much than let him know. Don't think about it, you will be fine. If you overthink things like this than you won't be able to enjoy it. good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): man on top is the best position, first time doesnt have to hurt...it may hurt a little but just relax and try to enjoy it. also try not to worry to much about what your partner is thinking or feeling because that paranoia will dampen the whole experience and you wont enjoy it much as you should do
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Dear Poster
The first time is something you will always remember; making sure it is special and you are doing it with love as the driving force and not lust or curiosity.
It will help if you the right setting and complete privacy, with no fear of interruptions.
Allow yourselves plenty of time so that your lovemaking can proceed unhurried. With the first time this is very important, as there is a lot of nervousness; make sure your partner is not in a hurry either.
Make sure you a reliable form of contraception. Bear in mind that AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases can be caught or spread the first time intercourse takes place. I suggest the man should wear a condom.
Your partner must know you are a virgin and be very gentle.
He should make sure you are aroused, by caressing, stimulating you before penetration.
Have a lubricant available if needed.
Choose a man on top position; penetration should be gentle and he should not thrust to deep at first.
Try to RELAX!
Enjoy!
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