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Archived questions from: 1 November, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My man wants to do my backdoor/butt? Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - The guy that I am seeing has been asking me for anal lately and I have never ever done it. I heard it really hurts, but it is ok if you use lots of lube. I am kind of interested in trying it as he is always poking around back there with his cock...

I'm in love with my boy best friend, were both 17 I wanted to tell him how I feel, but hes going out with some other girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Im in love with my boy best friend, were both 17. Weve been friends for about 4 months and i recentley started liking him so much. and ive always knew he thought i was pretty. But i wanted to make sure i did have feelings for him and i finally de...

Does sperm cause problems by swallowing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - right quite a wierd question, can you get an upset stomach from swallowing the sperm?...

Could he have passed this STD to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - My regular partner has informed me he thinks he may have an STD - if he has will it definately have been passed on to me when we last had unprotected sex?...

I wonder if he prefers shaved pubic area...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for three months, i think we're ready to take the next step. We've touched each other through our cloths, but never actually 'touched' each other. I'm slightly worried though, would he prefer me to be ...

To women who have cheated: Are these behaviour patterns true? Can she be excited to go out with me again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - Hello, I'm a 47 year old probably boring husband who is faithful and yet I think my wife is having an affair. I'm trying to get my hands around what's going on in her psyche so I can figure out what to do if anything. I've read some articles on...

I couldn't move my hands after sex! What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I was having sex with my boyfriend today and it was great, but just before I got to climax we stopped for no particular reason and I found that I couldn't move my hands. They sort of clammed up and the muscles wouldn't move at all for at least 5 ...

First time sex jitters! How do I get past this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now. I really want him to be my first sexual partner (he is not a virgin). He never pressures me to do anything; he always ask. When we attempts of having sex, I always get nervousness. How can I get ...

I am desperate for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - I am 27 year old, I desperately want sex - for fun. However my socioeconomic status is not good enough to get married and have 'legal sex'. On the other hand i do not want to 'buy' sex as it is inhuman, i think. what should I do for my desire? ...

Torn between my husband whose dirty sexual fantasies disgust me and another man with whom I am emotionally involved!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Im in a real, emotional mess at the moment and i could do with some good advice. Im 40 and married with 3 children,now while i care about my husband i dont like his sexual needs because they are very bizarre and i find them totally disgusting. We ...

Ex bf wanted me to stay over last night... What does this mean? He said he wanted to be single

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Hi all at dear cupid, Im really stressing out at the moment, im still really in love with my ex bf,we split about 3 weeks ago now, and i use to ring him every other day when we split, but this week, we've spoken every single day this week, and i al...

Had sex with ex bf. My fiancee is now excited to be a dad but I don't even know whether I'm pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - I have a question - Me and my ex-boyfriend were having sex and it was 2 days after my period and he might have precumed inside of me. Is there any way that i might become preg.? I dont know i have been feelin weird after we had sex.We never used a ...

My boyfriend, his colleague and I had a threesome, now I'm hyperworried about the time he spends at work!...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - hi,went on a business trip with my boyfriend of 2 years,he always talked about the young girl at work and it bothered me,this was the second time i met her ,her and i became drunk and began kissing which later ended up in bed,we did nothing more ...

Alternatives to sex to fulfill our sexual desires, any suggestions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - hi. i'm 18 and my bf is also 18.. well, we dont want to lose virginity before marriage...we are gonna marry after 6 years,but right now we wanna try new stuff out..so what are the things apart from kissing that we can do so as to not cross the limit ...

I think my friends have stolen the sex tape I recorded with my girlfriend, I'm freaked out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me made a sex tape (we mainly just make out in it with our clothes off) for my birthday. Well my friends came over randomly when I was watching. They (I didn't let them watch it with me cause I promise her it would between us) ask ...

I don't want just sex !!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - Okay maybe someone can help me with my dillema, I'm 21 and gay, open about it. Now whenever it comes to relationships I always hit a wall. Most guys approach me and compliment me on my good looks and appearance and then immediately ask me for a ...

When he is sober he is fine and he loves me. He gets drunk(alot) then he hates me. I can't stand this anymore !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Ok, I am not happy in my relationship. My husband is a drunk. Binge drinker to be exact. He may go 4-5 days sober, and that's if im extremely lucky. Then a week or more streight drinking. He's been drunk by noon at times. Sometimes 4, sometimes ...

Why didnt he just do it? I really wanted him to !!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half now. and the other night while fooling around we started talking about our first night together.. i told him i was ready but i just wasnt sure. so the next day we both we knew we were gonna be ...

I'm disgusted with this problem I have, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Hello every ; ), I have a really personal problem that I'm disgusted by. I have white vaginal discharge everyday and sometimes I get really smelly down there. Also. I've been to the gynocologist numerous times and they always say I'm fine. Its em...

My boyfriend, porn habit, no sex, being told I'm manipulative

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Okay..my boyfriend of about a year has always used porn as an outlet. He's upfront and honest about it, how he spends hours browsing and downloading it. He's even shared some of it with me, etc. I DO enjoy some of it. Although deep down I feel ...

I may have an opportunity to get back in a relationship with an ex/best friend. My friends say I should move on. Should I pursue her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5747 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - I may have an opportunity to get back in a relationship with an ex/best friend. There are a couple of things holding me back...I'm not absolutely positive about the future of the relationship and she wants someone she can build a future with. My ...