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writes:ok im 13 and im REALLY horny, i have a girlfriend and i really want her to give me a blowjob, help! and please dont answer tht im too young, i need help not parental lecturing, thanks
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reader, caterpillarchapstick  +, writes (3 February 2010):
persuading a girl to give a bj is sometimes challenging. just convincing her is an art in itself. it never stops. i'm 27 and i still have to work different angles to get bj's. persistance and patience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): just ask your girlfriend if she would feel comfortable doing it. and you could always return the favour. i'm your age and i would feel quite comfortable giving a bj, more people are these days, its a fact! good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): hey,
I'd say to just wait until she's ready. If she's uncomfortable about giving you a blow-job then it's not going to be a good experience for either of you. Try even talking about it and making sure that you really are ready before you go into anything. Every little bit of intimacy means a lot more to a girl than a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): hey. I'm having this same problem with my boyfriend right now. he is 17 and i am 15. we've had sex. i've given him a hand job. he's given me a hand job and oral sex. but im just not as into blowjobs as he is. and it disappoints him. so. since you are at the age where you're sex crazy, and i dont mean that badly, you should sit down and talk to her about it. if you cant talk to her about it in person, that usually means you neither of you are ready for it. if you notice she seems worried, nervous, or upset, that probably means she isnt ready either. dont try to force her into it with threats or anything. that will cause serious relationship problems. and also, dont straight up freakin as her. thats so obnoxious. like i said, sit down and talk about it calmly. but, if the only reason you're with her is for the sexual activities, you need to try taking a cold shower or something. because girls can become really emotionally attached to guys they are physical with. which will cause her alot more pain than your blowjob will be worth, promise. i hope things work out for you. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): When I was 13, I didn't even know what a bj was! How things have changed in 7 years. You should work on yourself, if this girl has any morals she shouldn't be doing anything sexual at that age, same with you.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (30 November 2008):
 I won't tell you you're too young, but I will say that you absolutely SHOULD NOT pressure your girlfriend into anything she doesn't want to do. If she is in an age range similar to yours, she may not be quite as horny as you are. When I was 13 I hadn't a clue what a blowjob WAS or how to give one, let alone any interest in doing so. Times have changed I'm sure, but she's still a young girl. And if she's not interested, stick to masturbation for the time being. Good luck.
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reader, Sir_Skrall +, writes (30 November 2008):
well, i am in that stage to. i'm 13 years old and i think like that. its a horror, isnt it!=). to be honest, i have had a BJ before... nothin'. its nothin' to me. it was good the first few times but now its so boring! just try to avoid thinking of it. if you cant well then just go to your room and... you know.=) and if your at school then just wait it out. do not, i repeat, do not go to the b-room and do it! it so gross!(I had a bad experience once!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): If you want a blowjob, don't just ask her straight up. You have to work for these things, and you have to take it slow, because girls don't just want to give a blowjob, especially for the first time, feeling awkward or used. So, get to first base and second and be comfortable with those before possibly moving on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): Dude, if you want to get a BJ then you should ask her if it is something she feels like doing. Never force the issue, if she is not up for it, then you need to find other means to "qunich" your need for oral sex. Your are at the age of sex overdrive, and it is not easy, but never be with someone only because you want sexual satisfaction, if they say noway, you should respect that and find another way. Also ask her if she would like anything sexually for herself that you can do, mutual gratification is the key point here. I hope it helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): Well you should ask your girlfriend if she would like to give you one or, you can just jackoff, or her give you a handjob.
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