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Why did the other boy work better and not this one?

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Question - (27 November 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey. so me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times. we went out in the summer time and started having sex. it never felt good for me. one time it almost felt good but not really. we did it like 10 times while we went out btw. then we broke up and i went out with this other kid and we had sex. his penis was smaller and it felt good. i don't get why.. and he didn't even have to do much. it would feel good like right away almost.. and we broke up and i'm back to the other boy.. we've had sex a couple times and he's got it to feel good but it takes a lot of time and a lot of effort. he has to go so fast for it to feel good and it takes a while and he get so tired out. i don't get it.. why did the other boy work better and not this one? and btw i really think i'm starting to love my bf now and i didn't like the other boy much.. it's weird but why is this possible?

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2008):

i remember being your age. i thought i knew everyone and was right the whole time. but i can tell you from experience, your not! you obviously are not mature enough for sex, because you are on here asking this question about why one guy was better then the other. the truth is, is that, that is life! there's nothing you can do. apart from wait untill you are actually old enough and legal to have sex.

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A male reader, Jack_McVeigh South Africa +, writes (28 November 2008):

Jack_McVeigh agony auntrite ok darlin.. u say u wanna b treated like an adult, well u shouldnt kick off the way u did in ur feedback! i mean yer u are still very young. maybe the 7 answers u've recieved arent all wrong? i mean yer i mean it's only our opinion which we gave and 7 people cannot be wrong! think about that.

JPMcVeigh

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008):

have some respect and brains girl

dont be whorey

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008):

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why do i gotta get treated like a little kid. i'm mature for my age and trust me, I KNOW WHAT I'M DOING. it doesn't matter about my age. i'm not like every other little girl. i'm actually wise and i know exactly what i'm doing. all i wanted was an answer to my question, not some bs telling me i'm too young. kthanks.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2008):

i'm sorry but why are you even having sex at such a young immature age?!

you are both far too young to be having a sexual realtionship. wait till you are older and mature enough for sex

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A male reader, Jack_McVeigh South Africa +, writes (27 November 2008):

Jack_McVeigh agony auntWell I mean I think the old cliche "it's not how big, it's what you do with it". I mean you dont have better sex because his cock is bigger or whatever. the size of it, in most cases, is the last thing which makes it good. i mean yer im gay so I see what u mean lol and yer i agree with what you are saying. But what you said at the end about you falling for you bf.. well you cant explain love. i mean you love people for what they're like outside of the bedroom.. da?! I've also got to ask.. you're 13-15 years of age and you into your 2nd sexual partner?? how old are you?? and that's VERY young!!

JPMcVeigh

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2008):

petina1 agony auntI hope you arent going to be another statistic of a teen mum. It is against the law to have underage sex. You need to concentrate on your school work and try and better your self for your future. Believe me, these boys will be talking about you and your reputation will be ruined. Have some respect for yourself and hold your head up high. hope this helps.

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