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writes:What do men think of women that sleep with them on the first date? Are they considered a slut and not girlfriend material or is there a chance that it can work? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): If you like this guy then wait at least 3-4 dates. I would wonder how easy she had been for other fellas, and that path is very rocky.
Its always nicer with someone you have gotten to know. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): It really depends upon how the girl projects herself. An older, experienced guy will usually detect if she's a slut or not. If the girl isn't, then the guy's ego goes sky-high because he will assume that his irresistible charm/ good looks got her to bed! I personally would not be disrespectful of such a girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): My ex and I slept together on the first date. He told me that women that he sleeps with on the first date he never talks to them after that but with me it was different so anything is possible.
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reader, Myprince  +, writes (28 November 2008):
If I was looking for a genuine relationship, I wouldnt rush to sleep with her on the first date. I would take my time to at least get to know her and establish a relationship.There is no rush really. I think a relationship that starts out with sex or rather based on sex may not really last when the passion subdues.Again, be wary of men that rush to sleep with women during dates. It breaks my heart when they do that and leave the lady for another one. Don't fall prey to such. Just take your time.However, some relationships have worked.... but my advice would be... take your time...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): JACKPOT! Giggity, Giggity!
Nah, just playing.
I see no problems, if the feelings and desires are there for the both of you, then bonk away.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): still can work..
but i wouldnt be too easy..
guys like sleeping with easy girls
but they love being with a girl that really respects herself
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 November 2008):
 Well I married a woman (about 20 years) with whom I slept on the first date, although I did not marry many others of similar experience. Anything can happen, but times have changed since I was a much younger man.
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