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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I have never had anyone really love me, I feel rejected and alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I am a gay female, I am not "super frilly or girly" but I am feminine and am attracted to the same in women. Im not the stereotypical gay female, I'm not into the gay scene due to not so good experiences in the past with nasty women. I...

She's upset because I didn't change my FB status, am I in the wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

26 February 2014 (M) - Thanks for reading - not sure who to ask so going to ask you lovely people :) I have been on a few dates with a girl - i am 26 and she is 24 and she is very pretty and when we had our first date, we hit it off. She gave me butterflies and ...

Tell me what I already know but don't wanna believe

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Hello! Heres the situation; I've been dating a guy for about a month, 'talking' for about two. In those two months we have been Facebook friends on and off, I have deleted him 3 times now, the first time was because a lady was putting comment ...

I want to be exclusive, he's not so sure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I met this guy online, we've been talking for about two months. We've had a few discussions about us being together, but of course we both feel it's best to be friends first before we date. Though, I have mentioned being exclusive. We've gotten into ...

I thought the date went well but I've been getting mixed signals since

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hi I've been talking to this guy for over a month now, we have skyped a lot, I feel like we know each other very well, we have met up once it was very good, everything went so well, we tried to meet up again and he pulled out at the last minute, ...

My confidence has really taken a hit, what can I do to bring myself up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi there, so not really sure what the question is, but I feel just awful. After trying online dating my confidence has hit rock bottom. I joined in the beginning of December 2013 and straight away hit it off with a bloke (somewhat older then mysel...

I found out my boyfriend has profiles on swingers' sites!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - I found out my boyfriend has a profile (or three!) up on swingers sex sites "looking for fun" and stating that he's single. Now he swears they are from years ago when he was single and in fairness to him, it was 2009 when the accounts were created. ...

Ewww!!! It became apparent pretty soon into our first telephone call that he was masturbating at the same time!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - I had been building a 'relationship' with a guy online for about 2 months which started with just messaging, then we emailed, then text...eventually when I felt confident enough we spoke on the mobile phone yesterday. It became apparent pretty soon ...

Does asking for pictures make him a bad guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - I can't believe it has come to this again. Last week a met this guy through Uni and instantly started messaging me on Facebook once he tracked me down. And has not stopped since. He was shaping into such a nice guy, even invited me out for ...

I want him as a friend on FB but I don't know what's up with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - A boy and me are friends on FB for last three years.he wanted to meet me five times in two years ...But I did not.after three years and after a huge gap of communication between us he wanted to meet me again...and this time i did...well after I met ...

Should I go to see my online friend even though we face distance and cultural differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (M) - Hi, I am new to this site. I am from India and I love a girl in Romania. She recently got out of a relationship. They were going out for 7-8 years; even though she loved him, he never loved her. I suggested her to break the relationship. I might ha...

How can I meet someone who is the average only?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I don't know what else to do with my life. I am at my wits end. I just came from a break-up from my 4 year relationship and I am trying to meet new people. I am in a location where it's really difficult to find a new partner. It's either peop...

Should I have talked to my Ex Husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

16 February 2014 (?) - My ex husband and I have been separated for 3 and half years, due to his constant online cheating. After the split, things got ugly and he turned into a very ugly person, calling me names and threats, our kids dont talk to him. I saw him this wee...

Should I make the move and give him my number or just ignore him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

13 February 2014 (?) - We've been in touch on Facebook for nearly 3 months. We've had loads of different conversations, some serious, emotional and fun. After so much talking we finally met up for the evening. And he was a lovely guy, although he is 34 and I am 25, he was ...

I'm panicked about our age difference!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - Just need your opinions and advice. I met an older man online 2yrs ago and we've hit it off. I was not ready for a relationship at the time due to fear of being hurt again mainly but I'm over that now. I felt like I'd led him on but was honest about ...

Is he joking and messing about? I don't understand what he wants!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 February 2014 (?) - I joined a website about 7 months ago (not a dating website, just penpals) and I met this guy on the site and we hit it off as friends straight away. He's in the military and I'm studying at university. While we was on tour in Afghan, we used ...

How to get this online guy to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

6 February 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been online dating for about 8 months now, have only met up with 3 people in that time and its never really gone past 1st or 2nd dates. I ended up talking to someone for about 5 weeks who seemed to match my sense of humour and ...

Is he playing hard to get?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

5 February 2014 (F) - Hey ! I broke up with my ex 3 months ago because he wasn't ready for dating. I know I made a mistake, but he really make me feel like we were in a competition : "You are successful, I'm not" "Your conversation is stimulating, which is no...

Dating a shy guy, or is he just not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (?) - Me and this guy have been in touch for nearly 2 months, from the first day we met. After spending loads of time talking to eachother online, we finally had our very first date the other night. He was very shy, considering him being 34 and me 25, I ...

Don't want to misrepresent myself but ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

3 February 2014 (M) - I am a 25 male and trying online dating I am short most of the woman are taller than me I have no problem dating taller women but I have heard that most women won't date a shorter men I don't know how true this is. I know complete honesty is ...

I met him on a dating app, we met up twice, had sex the scone time, and now it's been 2 days since I've heard from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

2 February 2014 (?) - A couple of weeks ago my friend got me to download a dating app, I'm only 18 so I wasn't sure if I really wanted to start 'online dating', but I downloaded it anyway. One of the first guys I matched with was an 18 year old guy who was also new to to ...

This guy has put his career first for years and wants to find someone, will he take the risk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

1 February 2014 (F) - Hi Eveyone, Been on numerous dates via online but last week I had a good first date with this guy. Not usually my type but quirky and attractive, he was open, lovely, clearly attracted to me. When it was time to say goodbye, I could see he wan...

He pulled away after sex? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

1 February 2014 (F) - I got chatting to this guy online but during that I was also dating another man, so the other man was still the focus of my attention, I ended up ignoring the online guy and he left me alone. Weeks later I regretted ignoring him and thought abou...