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female
age
36-40,
*ada21
writes:Hi Eveyone,Been on numerous dates via online but last week I had a good first date with this guy. Not usually my type but quirky and attractive, he was open, lovely, clearly attracted to me. When it was time to say goodbye, I could see he wanted to kiss me but there were so many people, so I said not yet and he said next time then. Later I text him saying I enjoyed tonight with him quickly replying saying he had a great time. The next day he text back saying if I got home ok.Anyway we exchanged messages back and forth during the week and he asked when I was free, I said friday, then he said he's busy for a few days as his filming (not in city) and said if I can bear it, when he comes back will go out and he asked if that's ok. I replied something along the lines that that's ok. Plus he said he likes me etc. Hes an honest shy guy and we both felt a spark. Just really want to hear other peoples opinions really...Thank you
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reader, like I see it  +, writes (1 February 2014):
 He's obviously decided that having a career isn't all there is to life or he wouldn't be putting himself out there, going on dates and actively trying to find someone. Maybe that someone is you!
If you felt a connection there's no reason not to accept his offer of a second date. Take things slow and enjoy getting to know each other.
Good luck and best wishes :)
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2014): HiDid you choose the title of your question yourself or did the moderators choose it for you? I only ask because nowhere in your question do you refer to your guy as a career guy who has "put his career first for years" - you really only ask whether we think he likes enough to keep dating you?As with all "does he/she like me" questions, it's very difficult to say but it certainly sounds like it from what you write. It sounds very encouragingSo I guess only time will tell. If he maintains some form of contact with you while he's away and once he's back contacts you within a few days to make arrangements for the date then that's even more encouraging.If he doesn't maintain contact with you or becomes very vague about when this next date is going to be - then that's a bad sign and it's probably time to move on. Unfortunately some guys do keep in sporadic contact with ex-dates just so they've got someone to turn to whenever they're at a loose end on the off-chance. Good luck. I hope it turns out for the best[moderator note: the original poster chose the title of the post herself].
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