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36-40,
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writes:Hi I've been talking to this guy for over a month now, we have skyped a lot, I feel like we know each other very well, we have met up once it was very good, everything went so well, we tried to meet up again and he pulled out at the last minute, we have carried on talking but he has given me very mixed signals as he has not made any effort to want to see me again? But he seems very into me at the time, I have tried to talk to him about it but he always avoids the subject completely. I'm very confused in what to do next as we are not going anywhere and as I am young I don't want to be waiting forever, but on the other hand I really like him? What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 February 2014):
 If you are serious about finding a long term mate this guy is NOT A CANDIDATE...
I'd vote for "thank you for a lovely date, clearly we want different things, NEXT" and move on.
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reader, Keeley345 +, writes (24 February 2014):
I agree with Khurram. Take the bull by the horns and tell him you like him and would like to see things progress onto a second date. If he again brushes you off or give mixed signals, then you'll have to cut your losses and end things with him. You're right about being young and wasting your time on someone who's blowing hot and cold.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2014): Watch out for any late texts asking you what you're doing! I hate blokes who are inconsistent.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (23 February 2014):
 Don't spend much time and/or mental energy on a guy who keeps sending you "mixed signals."
You will find that guys who REALLY like you aren't like that....
Good luck...
P.S. Guys who want to keep you available for occasional sex ARE "like that"!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2014): make a move yourself. don't wait. be straight . if u think he is Mr. Right. Go for him.
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