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Online dating: Help and advice

I am still hung up on a guy on a dating site

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

31 July 2013 (?) - I went back on the dating site a few days ago. It seems like things are still the same. The guy I liked is still on there. It's really weird because just before I closed out my account the order of the guys that viewed me was different when I got ...

He's gone distant and I'm unsure what to do. He seemed like such a good guy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Ok ,I'm totally confused here .I will try and cut a long story short .I net a guy online ,we totally hit it off and I didn't jump into bed with him straight away .I'm very impulsive so it was hard for me .we had a great time and he's always asking ...

I met a guy on Facebook, we spoke and he seemed really interested, now he seems to have gone cold

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I met a guy in Facebook two weeks ago. I sent him a friend request and he accepted me. he sent me a message after he accepted my request." Hello I just want to say hi you are beautiful" and I responded to him saying hi and we kept chatting. after we ...

I like this guy and would like to date him but he lives far away and I'm afraid I'll blow it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

29 July 2013 (?) - I like this guy but he lives far away. He said that he would date me if he lived closer to me. I asked him if he would visit me and he said yes. He asked me the same and I said yes. We seem to both like music and we had a good conversation. He has ...

Whichever answer I give is the wrong answer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

27 July 2013 (M) - Whenever I meet American girl on dating site and we get along well, I get confused when she asks me would like to travel to US? If I say yes, they suspect me approaching her for getting to US. When I answer no, then they thing I don't want to meet ...

How can I make a long distance relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - I met my now boyfriend online about 4 years ago and we have talked pretty consistently. Going back through our earlier messages, he told me multiple times that he liked me but only recently have I shared my feelings with him too. The catch? He'...

We haven't meet yet. I want to tell him I like him but I'm nervous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - Hello, I sent this guy a friend request on Facebook and he accepted me. A day after he accepted me he liked my photo and he messaged me saying that he wanted to say hello cause I am beautiful. We chatted for a little bit and he said he had to go ...

Boyfriend of 4 weeks slept with me, but he's still using dating sites!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - Help, what do I do? I have been dating my boyfriend about 4 weeks last night we slept together. I was under the understanding we were exclusive as he said but then I went to delete my dating account only to be horrified that he is still activily ...

Was this online guy playing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Ok so here goes, i had met this gent of a guy on a dating site. And we exchanged a few emails and numbers. So for the first couple of days things were going really well, and we talked a lot about the future, what we were looking for in partners. And ...

I really like this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

16 July 2013 (M) - Hi everyone, I was talking to this girl on a dating site and we had been talking for nearly a month. We were getting on really well and we had similar interests, she even admired that she really liked me and I liked her a lot too but I feel really ...

I thought we were in love but he seems to have time for a lot of women 'friends'. Am I overreacting?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - I met a man on Facebook and we fell in love. At least I thought we did. He was the first to say it, and for a while we were just crazy about each other. We even managed to Skype from time to time even though he lives in another country. I found it a ...

He has nothing about us on any of his social media sites, he hinted today on a post then took it down. I quietly took down anything associated with him and now he's upset. Am I wrong? What would you do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4146 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - Long story short I have talked to my boyfriend about how uncomfortable it makes me feel that he does not have anything on any social media websites that say he has a girlfriend. No pictures, no statuses, his relationship status on FB is blank. He ...

My online guy is giving me the silent treatment

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

11 July 2013 (F) - Hi, Guy’s I hope you can help. I met a guy online. We have been talking for two months now. He asked me if we could become exclusive since we got along so well. I said yes. We haven’t met yet because he lives long distance. I have asked hi...

Should I continue this long distance relationship or try to cut it off to avoid heartbreak?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - About five years ago I met a guy, along with a handful of other people from all over the world, while playing an online game. I've kept in good contact with many of these people throughout the years. This guy in particular has been a great fri...

Is it normal for a guy to keep a booty call around for 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - Okay, so 2 years ago I moved back home and decided to try out the internet dating deal. I met a few nice guys but nothing really went anywhere, except with one guy, sort of. We met a month or so after talking and seemed to hit it off. We always had ...

Me, the socially anxious goof accidentally sends friend request… do I contact him and explain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - So this is probably going to sound like the dorkiest thing ever, but I need some help. I started college last fall and it was a real struggle for me to leave home and adjust. There were a lot of things that went wrong my first few weeks at school ...

Does he miss me and want to get back together but is too scared to make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I met on a dating site. We hit it off immediately and throughout our 6-month relationship he’d text/call everyday. He was still occasionally on the dating site where we met but I didn't say anything. We live in different cities ...

Confused, we were getting along so well, but he lost his job and now doesn't want to continue, and we haven't had our first date yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I have used this site previously however I haven't been online in a very long time. I am just looking for some advice on something that may seem small to others but it is a huge deal to me, so here goes. For the last 4 months I h...

Just discovered my live-in boyfriend of two years is checking out match.com profiles

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - I am not sure how to react to all of this. I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for 2 years. We have lived together for over a year now. He has been a great guy and I never suspected he would cheat on me or betray me. I was married for 13 years ...

Does it matter that I'm not that physically attracted to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - hi. Im just looking for advice on dating someone ur not sexually attracted to?! iv met this lovely man, his nearly 17 yrs older than me but that isn't a problem for us. we get on rather well and i feel ifwe get together as an actual couple he would ...

Five dates and his profile's still active? Should I move on?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - I met this guy online on an online dating site. After writing to each other for two days, we decided to meet. I really like him and we went on our fifth date last weekend. It has been four weeks since we started meeting each other. He has ne...

We are not dating but his level of interest has dropped! I like him alot. How should I proceed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

5 July 2013 (M) - I am so lost right now, and it seems like I can anticipate the type of advice I will receive, but I think I will ask it anyway. I really have no where to turn to. So there was a phone app, and this guy that lives about a six hour drive contacted me. ...

I just feel like this guy is messing me around. Am I just being paranoid? What's he playing at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

3 July 2013 (F) - It started out with a drunken facebook hack. I was on the way back from a night out with my friend, and I used her phone to send a message to a guy she knows, telling him that I thought he was good-looking. He replied by asking her if she'd been ...