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*aksi567
writes:Hi everyone, I was talking to this girl on a dating site and we had been talking for nearly a month. We were getting on really well and we had similar interests, she even admired that she really liked me and I liked her a lot too but I feel really gutted. For some reason, in the last couple of days she has been complaining about her hormones playing up. Which I don't really understand and then mentioned about quitting the site. I told her not to because I really want to meet her and get to know her better. But for some reason she don't want to because she works seven days a week as a doctor and doesn't seem to think if things progressed then we would not be able to spend time together. So why be on a dating site, if you are not looking for love or is it something else, I'm confused. It as if she wanted to meet me but something is holding her back. Of course, only a couple of hours ago I decided to delete my account out of frustration but I feel really gutted and upset, I stared to really like her. She does have my e-mail address but I don't think I will ever hear from get again. It's a shame she was exactly like me similar interests in or and lived quite local as well. She was 25 years old. Reply to this Question
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reader, oaksi567 +, writes (17 July 2013):
oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI actually have started talking to her again but we have agreed to be friends. So it's good enough for me and I can try to chat to other girls also.
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (17 July 2013):
 Hi,
I wouldn't try to think about what she said and any of her reasons. Maybe she is genuine, maybe not. Don't bother now.
You don't need a 7 day a week person. Go back on the site and start making friendships with other people. They do come along and right this one off.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 July 2013):
 She works 7 days a week as a doctor at age 25? IF she is telling you this, then there may be other things she exaggerates.
here in the states let's say a person graduates from high school at age 18, then it's 4 years of college so we are at age 22, then there is 4 years of medical school so we are at age 26 for initial graduation. But they are still have to do internship and residency programs both at least 1 or 2 years so age 28 or 29 is the usual age for entry level doctors...
In addition if you have NOT met her in person, then, maybe she's a guy... or married.
folks go on dating sites (especially free ones) for all sorts of reasons including fun and games to pass the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2013): REBOUND!!haha, I've been this type of girl before, it's most likely someone who was sad after a break up or sad and lonely for some reason and randomly decided to try a internet site.and like most rash decisions, it crashes and burns out... now she's realizing it won't just be fun flirting online, u want to get serious, she doesn't want to.ALSOshe's probably talking to 20 other guys on the site no matter what she tells you... maybe she just doesnt wanna let you know that she's seeing one of those instead, and saving you for a rainy day
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2013): I suggest not using dating sites they only bring heart break. I have used them and find out the person is not how they acted online. Remember online people can be anyone. google he tv show Catfish on MTV. And try meeting people not online . Take care and good luck
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