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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

How do I leave this abusive relationship? He always finds me when I do leave.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - How do I even begin to leave an abusive realationship?? My partner has became very abusive in the last 9 months ( I know what your going to think .. why am I still with him after that amount of time) the answer is I'm sacred!!) what can I do?! ...

Am I being too demanding? His excuse is, ''yes, but just not yet.''

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for several years. We do not live together. He wants me to move in with him, but I won't, because his ex-wife still has a key, and he refuses to change the locks. I don't feel safe leaving my things in his house ...

Why does my wife lie about her sexual past? I overheard a convo she had with a friend. Should I tell her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

29 April 2017 (M) - I have been married for many years my wife had a couple of sex partners before we met. She always said that when she was with the them that they didn't have a lot of sex which would not have bothered me if she did. My problem came up as we talked ...

My husband wants to move to another country. I don't

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - My husband wants to move overseas to expand his business. He already has a team abroad but wants to be there in person. Long story short it makes sense for the business I, however, want to stay here. I'm not fond of the country he wants to move to...

How would men feel if they joked about something sexual and their partner said yes?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

27 April 2017 (F) - Before I start, let me just say, I am not a woman of the world. I didn't lose my virginity until my wedding night, aged 24. Me and my husband have been married 12 years now and are still very much in love. The problem is our sex life. It is very ...

Married with kids and a husband I don't love.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I'm married with 2 kids, there isn't any real issues with my marriage nor my husband. For some time now I have felt like I don't love my husband anymore, it been over a year now, I don't enjoy his company, he doesn't interest me and I really str...

Should I ask my husband about his scratch? Could he be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - Could a small scratch on your husband's ear - behind the ear lobe - mean he cheated? I just noticed it today. He was not clean shaven. He had stubble on his cheeks. So it could not be a razor cut. Should I confront him or leave it be?...

We are having an affair. Should my sister in law and I just run away together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, So my sister in law and I, ended up exchanging flirty messages and then it became wide open that we both wanted it. One thing led into another, before you know it we were having full on sex and everything in short order. It has be...

He seems irritated, miserable and annoyed. Could smoking weed be affecting his moods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I've just been on holiday with my partner and children and we've come home and argued. I don't know what to say to him and I hope you could give me some advice. The first two days away he was smiling and laughing but then the third day he sai...

I am at the end of desperation with my relationship problem.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - I am a married man and I got involved with this super nice girl at work. I love her slightly more than my wife but I can't leave my marriage because of my children. I wanted to leave my wife until my children confronted me and I had no choice. When ...

Married to my FWB guy but sex life is terrible and husband isn't 'up for it'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2767 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - Hi all, we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary and my husband doesn't feel like having sex much. I m lucky if I get it once a week. And he gets erection after a lot of trying. I will give u some?background info. So basically we started as FWB a...

Why 25 later after an affair with my wife does this ex friend want to get together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

22 April 2017 (M) - My wife had a intense two year long affair with a single friend of ours back 25 years ago...we had tried a threesome with him,after a nite of drinking, and I found out rather quickly that I wasnt into it, but as it worked out my wife and this other ...

I don't want to cheat but how can I recover from my infatuation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - I'm a married woman with 2 children in my mid thirties, I've been in a long term relationship with my husband before we eventually got married (been together over 10 years). What I'm about to say is something I had never dared to share, please be...

Why was all the porn my husband watched incest related? He says its just a coincidence

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - I found my husbands browser history and all of the porn he had watched was incest porn, mostly step sister and step mom. He claims he didn't look at the titles. He just clicked on a few that looked good from the picture and waited to see which one ...

My husband says he's getting something from a couple we've been involved with. Something that he doesn't get from me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2760 days ago

20 April 2017 (F) - My husband and I are having a foursome with another couple. The wife used to be a friend of mine that I thought I could trust. We all set boundaries that we didn't want to cross. But she has crossed all the boundaries that my husband and I set. My ...

Painful sex for wife is causing serious problems in our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

20 April 2017 (M) - Hi. I am married to a woman who is wonderful other than the fact that intercourse is very difficult for her. We don't have kids, she is working and so do I. We were both virgins before we met and there was some problems in the intimacy department, ...

We've been married a year and are in a rut! I need some advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - Lately, our marriage has been on the rocks. We have been together for 5 years and we are days away from our 1 year wedding anniversary and there has been so much tension and hate lately. I feel like I can't do anything right. We had an argument not ...

My husband pays far too much attention to his brother's chesty girlfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - My husbands younger brother has this girlfriend she's quite pretty and has a large chest and everyone loves her and all the rest of it bla bla bla. My husband openly stares at her in front of everybody it's like he doesn't even try to hide it even ...

Can a man look at hundreds of porn images and NOT be disappointed at his wife's imperfect body?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2771 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - Can men just look at hundreds of women hotter than their wives in porn each week and not feel disappointed that their wives don't look as good as the girls in porn. Even if the wives are fit , how does the husband help but not feel let down that she ...

I think he could be chatting to women online, but my husband says his account was hacked. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

17 April 2017 (F) - I've been with my husband for a long time (15 years) over the years we had some difficulties but recently I found him chatting with this girl. He done this awhile ago with someone he works with but he always say that nothing is going on. Now i di...

I compared my husband's penis to my ex's and my husband can't get over it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 780 days ago

16 April 2017 (F) - I know the backlash I'm in for... My husband and I have been together over 10 years. Early on, I compared his penis to my exes unfavorably. I don't remember, but it's seared into his memory; I did it multiple times. He tells me that I was passiona...

Is it time I left?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - I have posted lots before. I am at a stage I don't know whether to call it a day on my relationship or not. My husband of 8 months are both in second relationships with kids me three him two. We have had loads of problems as he has favoured his and ...

Money is tight. Lots of financial pressure. How do I get him to see that he doesn't have enough money to attend the car race ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

15 April 2017 (F) - Been with my fiance for 3 years. Currently We are BROKE. Had to cancel wedding (was meant to be next month) can't even elope cause we have no money for that. I had celebrant asking when we are putting deposit down and my fiance said "we need to ...

Husband comes home drunk with his underwear inside out and stained. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - Yesterday my husband came late from work again. This time it was far worst than the last time ... He works at a restaurant , he is a waiter. Three weeks ago he came home 6 hours later after leaving the workplace, He doesn't use a cellphone since he ...

I love my husband but don't know how long I can keep carrying everything on my back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

14 April 2017 (F) - Not sure if this is really a question or just needing to vent but I could use some advice. I'm just feeling very worthless in my marriage. I feel like he's always mad at me and my kids and nothing we do is ever good enough. Like I go shopping after ...

The father of my children is unwell. What strategies might help me cope with his behaviour, actions and his stalking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - Relationship stArted 7-8 years ago sent peaches and cream but the first couple months were beautiful. I met him at a time of my life i was hurting and separated from my husband. Anyway I been recalling thinking heavy on our relationship. We...

Toxic, controlling, abusive and violent relationship. But I do love him. Plus I recently cheated. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

13 April 2017 (F) - I met my current partner 3 years ago, we were dating and then I moved into his place and sub letted my place to my sister as she had moved to London. At the time, three years ago, when I met my partner, my grandad had just passed away and my dad w...

Large wedding or an intimate wedding that we can afford? How can this be resolved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

12 April 2017 (F) - “Dan” and I are both 27, living together, and recently engaged and married. We plan to have our wedding in 10 months time however have different approaches on costs and guest list, so we are brainstorming having two celebrations. I prefer an in...

Can intercourse make a woman tighter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

9 April 2017 (M) - Ok my wife is usually is avrage tigjt like not too tight but no loose. We has sex this morning and she was tight. She has cheated in the past amd she a lier for sure. If u have sex with someone can it cause ur vigina to be tighter ...

I want to confront this guy. Should I do this? Or should I just let sleeping dogs lie?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

8 April 2017 (M) - I have been with my wife approaching 14 years now and married for three. Four years ago my wife confessed to me that she had kissed another man that delivers to her work. She said she felt terrible about it immediately after, she quit her job and...

How to love my husband like I used to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

8 April 2017 (F) - I'm 22 married and I need help. I recently had our first baby 5 weeks ago. Me and my husband were always best Friends never fought that much and always cared about each others feelings . Lately with tour new baby we are tired and can be snappy at ...

How can I stop him from needing my attention when I'm busy with friends, son or volunteer work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - My partner and I have a fun filled life we have a boy of 10yrs , we do lots of things as a family and also as a couple however my partner works so I often fill my time with my friends or going out with my son which I get so much joy out off Yet 9 ...

My husband wants us to stays friends with the woman he cheated with!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

7 April 2017 (F) - My husband cheated on me years ago. He hid it and never told me. When I found out he lied and said it was before we met and I should have asked him about her. But it wasn't. So he lied about his lie. He kept her as part of our friendship circle, but ...

Worried my husband doesn't think I'm attractive

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

5 April 2017 (F) - Am I wrong to be upset that I don't think my husband finds me physically attractive? I think he married me for reasons other than appearance like that we get on and that we have similar values, wanting a family and same financial goals etc. He often ...

I want some good old attention from my husband!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - Is it wrong of me to want some good old fashioned sexual attention . My husband barely notices me . I dress up , get my hair and nails done regularly . Plan trips away . Yet all he is interested in is his girly sites online . I'm happy in my life ...

How do I end things without hurting him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

4 April 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 45 year old woman married for 18 years . The marriage has been more of a business relation tand there has been no sex or romance...there were a lot of family issues....i never thought of a divorce since i had basically accepted...

Married man says he's in a loveless marriage and likes me insanely but won't get in touch with me till I contact him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

2 April 2017 (F) - Good day dear aunts and uncles. I met a charming man on a conference I was heading. We exchanged few words and couldn't stop looking at each other. 2 months later I bumped into him on another business venture and we felt the connection. Then we ...