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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Is my cheating any worse than the abuse he inflicts or threatens me with, regularly? Is getting help as impossible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3156 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 8 years.I'm cheating on him. My husband has been abusing me for the last 3 years.Apart from the physical abuse which he exercises every day he abuses me verbally as well. He calls me all the names under the ...

What else has he lied about? It's upsetting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3158 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Okay. So I've been with my husband since my junior (his senior) year of high school. Lately, we've fallen on hard times and I've taken a fair amount of emotional abuse. I know that it's not him but the stress of his job. He's taking that stress o...

When is it the right time to leave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

27 April 2016 (M) - Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...

I'm considering divorce but can I find someone at my age? How do I believe in myself again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - I'm 43 year old woman considering a divorce. Overall, I've been told that I have a great personality, I'm easy to get along with, intelligent, and fun. I also look and dress younger. I have a career and make decent money. My main problem, however...

He’s been chatting with women online and now has booked a solo trip to a country where one lives! I need opinions on this!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3145 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, Me and hubby have been together 7yrs and married for 3. We have a 4 yr old daughter..He has been talking to women who he has friended from social media. He doesn't know any of them. But to some he will start talking in a way...

How can someone who claims to love you be so unfeeling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - I got pretty sick this past week. I was bed ridden for days had no energy throwing up. My husband had it the week before so naturally I was concerned for him took care of his every need and made sure he felt loved and taken care of. Fast forw...

Can I ever encourage this man to come back? He broke up with me after finding I was once engaged to another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I met this guy one (Mr. X) and half years ago but we started dating about eight months ago. before him, I was previously engaged to another man, who called off the wedding just one week before. We had had engagement ceremony, as is custom in my c...

I need a virtual shake to get back to reality and stop chatting online with men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I'm worried about some behaviours I have started to develop and want to ask advice. I've been in a happy relationship for 6 years with a kind and successful man. We moved away from our home last year for his work and I gave up my job to move. I'...

Should I continue with this relationship? Or break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts! I'm not sure if I'm in the right relationship. My bf and I have been dating for two years now. Sometimes I feel I love him very much while sometimes I feel I don't love him that much to get married to him. I broke up with him about a ...

I feel a lot of resentment for my husband because of the way he has behaved this entire pregnancy and made me feel lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Hello , I'm a 30year old female expecting my first child . It has been a roller coaster ride the last few years . Me and my husband had trouble conceiving and took treatment for 4 yrs . Last year I also suffered an accident and had to have surgery ...

What can I do? Why does my husband choose to associate with this bad company of friends? I'm feeling uncomfortable with this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - My husband's friends makes me feel uncomfortable. We just hit our 1yr anniversary and it seems throughout it all our major disagreement has been about the company he keeps. Majority of his friends are into fraud and bad business. I have checked...

I now feel like a spare part in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

18 April 2016 (M) - Hi everyone, I hope you will be able to offer me some advice to stop my marriage sliding towards problems. I am a 51 year old man. Re-married after a divorce and have been happily married for the last 4 years. We have a lovely son together (2...

Should I still visit my husband after he hung up on me from jail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - Hi. This is a bit of a complex question, or maybe it just feels that way. But here it goes. I'm a 27F married with 3 young children. My husband was arrested and is currently in jail because he made a STUPID decision to help a friend and got wrap...

Should he expect me to leave skype on 24/7, so he can conact me, while he is away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - My husband has gone on vacation to see his family, When he is at home with me he neglects me and is all day on Skype to his family particularly mother. And I'm not exaggerating. Mother comes first for everything. But he does not like me to see ...

How can I best support my fiance suffering panic attacks due to stress he is feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3172 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - My Fiance suffers from anxiety, it has gotten worse and worse in the last while am not sure if the wedding is making it worse. The wedding is not until next year but already he is worrying about it, its affecting work as he is taking panic attacks ...

I think he is asking for too much, but he says he isn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - I've been married for six months and we've been struggling. I had never lives on my own before, so I really had no idea about all the housework that needs to be done.I've gotten a little better, but there's no pleasing my husband. I cooked and ...

Husband lied for four years about sleeping with my friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - I have been with my husband for seven years this year, married for two. We have three children together. Two girls and a boy. 7, 4 and 9 months. I have a friend, we will call her Lee, and we started becoming friends about two years ago when she foun...

I told my married ex lover I had a boyfriend and he burst into tears.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for 10 years and he said that we could be together properly once the children were off his hands,but we split up due to me being bored with the situation....anyway I met someone else and although I don't love him I ...

I'm stuck in a loveless marriage but I have a child and another on the way. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - I apologise in advance. Married 8 years.. 4 yr old daughter and currently 27 weeks pregnant.. But it's a loveless emotionless marriage. I feel so lonely and neglected. But when I discuss with husband he gets defensive and puts blame back on me. He ...

My husband has had an affair. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

12 April 2016 (F) - My husband has had affair. We have been married 30 years?. He had affair 16 years ago. Our two kids know about it. What should I do?...

Do I say anything to this man or just wait until my life is straightened out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

9 April 2016 (F) - This is a complicated story but I will try to make it as simple as I can. I have been married but things haven't been working out due to many reasons. We have been to therapy, try working on our marriage and eventually got to the point where my...

Is there hope or is this marriage doomed???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

8 April 2016 (F) - Hello, I have been with my husband for almost 7 years and we only got married in about 5 months ago. He doesn't engage in sex and shows no interest and I am always the on instigating it. He jumps when I try to touch him and he comes up with ex...

How do I cope when he goes away?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3181 days ago

4 April 2016 (F) - Hello My husband an I are middle aged, he is in his early 60s and still works full time in a factory. Conditions are not good there but he wants to stay there until retirement. We have been on vacations to Cuba but I don't really enjoy it there m...

My wife duped me into marrying her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

3 April 2016 (M) - dear cupid, ok here goes. i have been married to a great woman for 5 years, problem is i was duped by her, while i was a virgin when i married her she wasnt, she clearly lied to me when i asked her about her sexual past. i found a sextape of her ...

I am scared to leave him. What do I need to consider?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

2 April 2016 (F) - I'm scared to leave my husband...I know it's the right thing to do but I just don't know what will happen. I'm scared of the outcome. He's in the army to we live far away from anyone. I've got nowhere to go I have my 6 year old who has had to move ...

Do you think he and his wife think they'll get back together? what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

1 April 2016 (F) - I have been seeing a man who's 6 yrs younger than me and he's married with 2 kids but they are not living together. This is the second time they seperated. When I first met him he said he wasn't sure what was going on between them yet. They have t...