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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Husband's midlife crisis -- should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3580 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - Hello, I am scared and heart broken. Should I stay or go? I've been married 17 years to a man I love. I have issues of jealousy and separation anxiety and I don't know. My husband is a railroader and a union rep which requires traveling away f...

Do I need to give up wanting to be physically attractive to him? He notices other women but seems to not notice me in the same way anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I really would appreciate some advice from the aunts and uncles here. They say that much of women's libido comes from feeling desired and I would definitely agree. I am a woman into mid 40s and have always taken care of myself and enjoyed doin...

Husband wants oral sex 2-3 times a week but sex only once a month?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - I have been married for for 3 years together for 13. I've been haveing this issue with him for 2 1/2 years. He wants oral sex about 2-3x per week, but no sex. We have sex once every 6months only if I intiate it. I have spoken to him about it ...

We haven't had sex since our baby was born 6 months ago! Is my husband getting sex somewhere else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - My husband and I have not had sex since our 2nd child was born... Almost 6 months ago! Once we were in the clear 6 weeks after I gave birth I was ready. He said he wanted to make sure I was healed before we try. Funny how he didn't seem to be so ...

Who should be her priority, her husband or her adult child?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - I have a question and I desperately need an answer. My wife and I have been married for almost 22 years. She has a son approaching 29 years of age from her first marriage. He lives with his father. Her ex suffered a heart attack a few years ago, a...

Husband continues to swing, refuses to stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Ok long story short... we started swinging about a year into our marriage. He did tell me, prior to our marriage, he was a swinger in his past relationships but led me to believe he could be happy without it. I am an open minded person so I agreed ...

Is my 61-year-old husband fooling around inside the health club? Or am I just paranoid?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - My 61 year-old-husband has a health club membership to use the sauna/shower/steam room. He does not go there to exercise. He is there a few times a week to shower after work before coming home. Is there cause for me to be concerned?? Is it p...

How do I get this girl out my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 11 years and I do love her we have a child together. The last 8 months I have had another women on mind 24.7. I met her through work well she's a client not a co-worker. The girl is beautiful and in her late 20s ...

She had oral sex before we got married and I just found this out! Was she a virgin?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - I am 30 years old and been married for 9 years. I was a virgin when we got married and she told me she was the same. Till after 8 years of marriage and 3 kids later she tells me that she gave out 20 or 30 blowjobs to two guys before me and she said ...

My marriage was broken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3581 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I finally found the courage to leave my abusive husband for the last time.God gave me the strength to open my heart ? eye's and ears to others going through a similar situation in their lives hopefully my heart ? breaking tonight will make at least ...

Its a very delicate subject ......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I have a problem with my mother in law who likes to sit on my husbands lap for photos - not every time but just when she feels like it that is what she does. She just gets up off a chair and sits on their lap and this seems 'normal' to them but not ...

Marriage woes after 2nd baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - Dear People, I would like some advice on some marriage problems I am facing, which have peaked since having my 2nd baby, 3 weeks ago. I am recovering from a brutal c-section - my second - and still in immense pain. Husbamd is generally a goo...

Any advice on how to patiently wait out the engagement period and not rush marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and we are talking very seriously about marriage (AKA he has picked out a ring and I'm waiting patiently for the one year mark to come for a possible proposal). I am beginning my second ...

Help dealing with mentally ill manipulative abusive in-laws

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been married for over 7 years to a wonderful man. Sadly his parents are mentally ill and won't get help. We have distanced ourselves from them by moving across the country. They are emotionally abusive and snarky smart mouths. ...

He talks a lot but never does what he says he will! I have to do all the planning.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I am quite a bit distraught about my husband. We are married for 6 month, were dating for 2 years and then 1 year after proposal. He is a good man, good natured, generally happy. What I worry about is several of his qualities that started t...

I don't trust him with this other woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - I want my prevent my husband from working for a female tennent. My husband is the repairs manager for a local housing authority. One of the female tennents has needed ALOT of repairs done to her home and my husband has visited her for every repair. ...

Should I call his bluff and leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - So, when I met my partner (stanley) he worked as a builder for a bloke (trevor)for £100 cash a week (if he was lucky). I persuaded him to go out and get a full time job so we could move out together and everything was lovely, we were both so happy. ...

How do I get my wife to forgive me for cheating with a coworker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

16 January 2015 (M) - I have been married for 2 1/2 years. 2 months ago, my wife and I welcomed our first child, a girl. Over the last 6 months, however, my wife and I have disconnected. We fought, argued, and argued while fighting consistently during this time. ...

I'm devastated to find out my wife and brother had an affair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

14 January 2015 (M) - after twenty years of marriage i have just found out that my wife had an affair with my brother.this happened several years ago and had been going on for a few years.i love her so much and she says she hates herself for it.she says she's sorr...

Can a single man genuinely love and accept a woman who has children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - I am in the process of reconsidering my marriage due to a lot of mental abuse. I have told my husband about this. A few months ago I made an acquaintance with a man and he knew I was married and have 2 children. The fact that I have children did not ...

Nine year affair and the woman I love decides to have another child with her husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

13 January 2015 (M) - I am a married man with 2 kids who fell in love with a married woman 9 years ago. She was in a "loveless" marriage with 1 child and I was getting bored in mine. She recently "broke" it off with me without any explanation a few months ago and would't ...

Wife wants me to sleep with another girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

13 January 2015 (M) - The other day my wife and me were having an argument about me being extra comfortable with other girls. I'm just friendly and never over friendly with them but she feels otherwise. During this argument she tells me that 'she would really like me to ...

My husband is deleting texts from his ex-wife. How can I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - My husband deletes texts and calls from his ex wife, even after we've had discussions about doing this, and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. Also, I've seen texts where she sends him x's and o's. At one point I even texted her myself to ask her ...

My married boyfriend of two years is torn. He cannot give me up but he cannot leave his marriage. How do I handle this?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - I have deep feelings for a man who has been married for 20 years. I have been with him for almost 2 years. It happened because I suppose we met at the right place and the right time and we had this undeniable connection... right from the very st...

Am I just being selfish that I want a life with this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

1 January 2015 (M) - I have been married for 13 years (22 when married), have two kids of 10-12 years. Very soon we started having problems in our marriage. We were arguing all the time, and at my point of view, she was very negative, making a problem for ever...