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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

We're both unhappy and we fight. He doesn't want to divorce, so what do we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6959 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - 2 months ago my husband moved out saying he felt trapped and isolated. Since then I have been giving him space, and he has now moved back into the spare room but he says he doesn't love me like he should. He doesn't know why this is. Over the past ...

I'm engaged but have always loved my ex. Now my ex wants to give us another try...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6959 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - Hey me and my boy friend had a lovely time for almost two an a half years, but when the qestion came of marriage, he explained his familial reasons which were stopping him of doing that. He confessed that he loved me very much, but he is helpless...

The responsibilities of caring for our kids are exhausting me, and my husband NEVER helps out...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6941 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - I am bringing this question to you while I am at my lowest of lows. I have just recently had a newborn, before that my husband and I just decided to home school my 7 year old son. I am a stay at home, sleep deprived mom who homeschools and takes ca...

I want to hurry up and marry my fiancee...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - My fiancee wants to marry me but he wants to wait later rather than sooner. How do I speed the process?...

I'm sick with longing for him, but he doesn't know how I feel. Or does he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6965 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I am married but about to separate. My marriage breakup started before I met someone else at work, but this person at work has taken over my thoughts almost 100% of the time too soon really, but we cannot help these things. He is nothing like the ...

We're having another go at counselling, but he's still looking at porn on the web!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 4 years. Three years ago and two years ago I found porn in the house. L told him one more time and I'd throw him out as this really repulses me. We went to marriage counselling and discussed this but I got ...

How do we discuss things without fighting..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6968 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - What is the best thing to do or say after a quarrel in a marriage and how best can arguments be presented without having to fight? My husband has difficulties saying I love you or I am sorry. Does it mean he doesnt love me? How best can I get m...

I'm disgusted and hurt that my husband visited a prostitute, then lied about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6966 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - I found out five weeks ago that my husband visited a prostitute in February. He claimed he couldn't do anything as he wasn't aroused. It now transpires that indeed he was able to climax, as she perfomed a hand job on him !! I feel so disguste...

My husband is away often, and when he's here, he just doesn't listen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6969 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - Please help. I am a newly wed (7 months)and am so unhappy. I love my husband but seem like he does not hear me when I tell him the emotional void I feel. He travels a lot and when he is here...well, he's not. I end up nagging - and he ends up ...

My husband has changed... Everything is about him now and everything I do is wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6970 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - My husband is 20+ years older than I am and just turned 87 this month. This is not my problem. We have been married for 10 years and together for 12 years. My problem is that after his mother died, his life revolves around the couch, 3 news pap...

Our threesome with another woman was a mistake. I can't stop picturing them together...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I am having a hard time getting over the past. My husband and I had a threesome 2 mons before our wedding. I love him very much, but cannot get over the images of the two of them that evening (the other was a woman). It is hard for me to become ...

We're trying to work through his cheating and my needing time on my own, but there's so much pressure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6972 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I just don't know what to do. I've been married to my second husband 13 years. We met when I was married to my first husband at the time. Things happened very fast and we married and had a child all within a year. I never showed him much affectio...

Can I recover from the shock and loss of trust after my husband visited a prostitute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6970 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - My husband (together for a total of 10 years) has just told me he slept with a prostitute and thought he had caught something but had not. We have two young children. He promises it was just the once and would never do it again. We were having ...

My wife is allowing our domestic responsibilities to stand in for a loving relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6974 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - My wife and I have been married now for 6 years. We have a 3 year old son and a daughter who is almost a year old. Starting back when we were expecting our daughter, I noticed us to somewhat drift apart. At the time it was easy to dismiss it as ...

My husband thinks I should be "over" his cheating. But I'm not. Is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6974 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - My husband and I are having some difficulties in our marriage. He thinks that a seperation's an option. He had a relationship with someone much younger 5 months ago and feels I should be over it by now. His reason for the relationship is that she ...

What should I do? I've become used to my husband's moods, but I think I love Dave...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6950 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - I have gotten myself into a very bad situation that is going to hurt my husband beyond belief if I follow through with what I want to do. We have been together since we were 15 (18 years now). I moved from UK to Australia to be with him which left ...

My husband's excessive friendship with a co-worker makes it difficult to trust him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - I have been married for less than a year. My husband and I share the same cell phone invoice. A couple of months ago, I was going over it, and I noticed that several incoming and outgoing calls, some for up to 40 minutes were beeing made to the s...

My husband trusts me not to play around... so why does that bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6978 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I told my husband that my GED teacher said if we are in his area to let him know and he would come have a drink with us. (my husband plays in a band). My husband made a comment like "why would it be with me too?" I said it is the proper thing to ...

The stress of house-hunting is affecting our relationship. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6978 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - Me and my husband are trying to buy a home and the stress is really wearing on our relationship. We have been married for 14 years I just want to know if this is normal and will it get better? I thought the tough years were behind us....

Our one-month separation turned into 3 months. How long do we work on our problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6977 days ago

11 October 2005 (M) - In July of this year I had an argument with my wife of nearly 3 years. Basically this argument resulted in lots of home truths coming to the surface, particularly on my part. I was carrying a lot of baggage which I basically projected on to ...

My husband "has to" attend multiple Christmas parties for his work. The girls are all over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6979 days ago

11 October 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been having issues for the last year re the amount of time he spends at work (most days 10 hours). We have 3 young children and I gave up my career to stay home and look after them. Christmas is coming up and so are all the ...

A woman at my husband's work is coming between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6864 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - This is hard to talk about because I don't even know myself. But me and my husband been together for 15 years and we’ve had our ups and down, but 2 weeks ago he said to me he’s not sure if he loves me or not, or if he just here for with the kids. I...

My wife says she's forgiven me too many times in the past...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6981 days ago

9 October 2005 (M) - Hi all, I am currently going through a seperation with my wife. We just had a daughter together. She left me because we argued a lot and that she felt the trust was no longer there, because of broken promises and stupid lies on my part. So...

Four years with my husband, and suddenly: No sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6983 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I hope this is for real. I'm desperate for advice! My husband and I have been together 4 years and suddenly: "no sex". He never caresses or kisses me. I have tried to ignore it when we do try and he can't keep it up but the last time I felt cheap ...

My husband's affair with a much older woman has been going on for 4 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6984 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I'm 23, my husband is 25. I found out he was having an affair with a 63-year-old woman who lives down the road with us after a friend who worked at a hotel told me he'd seen my husband kissing an old woman in the restaurant. I feel disgusted ...

After my husband's affair, and dealing with my own problems, I'm fed up with my marriage and my kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6987 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - I am married with three kids. I have been married for 15yrs now. I'm 32, yes just 32. I got my parents to give me permission to marry. We have had a hard life with finding ends meet but we have and still are putting up with it. The thing is 2 1/2...

Did I go too far in agreeing to a threesome? What if my husband cheats?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

3 October 2005 (F) - I have been in relationship for 6 years now, have 2 children together. I made a mistake and agreed to have a threesome with a stranger (woman) but he never had intercourse with her. That was over 3 months ago. We thought it would spice up our rela...

My husband is never wrong! Ever!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I've been married for 12 years and have a 9 yr. old son. I am thinking about divorcing my husband. We don't communicate, and he pays no attention to his son. He states in the 12 yrs. of our marriage he has NEVER been wrong about anything. How can ...