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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Should I even try to make a long distance relationship work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - I met a guy a couple of years back due to work, but have since moved to another state. I've always liked him, I'm sure he knew after a while, but at the time he was in a relationship. Recently he got in contact with me out of the blue, but sin...

Am I doing the right thing by moving to live with him in his home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm 33, boyfriend is 30 and I have been in a long distance relationship for the last 6 months. We spend the weekends together. The travel has become quite difficult and we would like to move the relationship forward and test we work...

Is this even a long distance relationship? How do I confront him about our complicated situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - BACKGROUND: Ok so there's this guy called E.(2 years older) I met him on a dating app while I'm on an overseas internship. We seem to chat alright online. However when we met, we're both socially awkward and it was hard to get a good co...

I realize we aren't compatible but feel obligated to stay with her. What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - Dear everyone I started to date a girl about 6 months ago and we started a relationship. We both knew it would become long distance but we both accepted it and said we'd give it a go, but we both understood they often don't work out. we accepted...

What can I do? I'm bored with the lifestyle my boyfriend wants to live

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Hi there :) So I've been with my boyfriend for over five years, half of which time he was in the military and we had a long distanced relationship. We both worked hard on our relationship, spending time together when he was home, and our plan was ...

Am I going crazy? Or is he being overly possessive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3335 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Here's a background on my relationship: I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. Currently we are having a long distance relationship (it has been ongoing for half a year and I have made plans to move over to his coun...

Should I have a baby with him? He's married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - I am a 38 year old lady who has been in an unhappy long distance relationship in another city(away from home) for 7years with no assurance from my man that he will marry me any time soon. At the beginning of this year i met a guy same age as me wh...

Fiance wants to leave for a 3-month internship. How do I tell her I can't do a 3 month LDR ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

23 September 2015 (M) - My fiancé is planning on leaving for a 3-month internship next summer. We are both almost 25 years old, I am a real-estate developer and she is working towards her PhD in computer science. We have been living together now for several months, and we ...

LD Crush. Should I consider this guy as a friend and nothing else? Age differences and difference cultures.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - A few years back I used to work with a nice guy. We always got along great and I don't know if the feeling was mutual or not, but I was always attracted to him. At the time he was married (and I knew who is wife was, talked to her on several ...

How do I stop obsessing over a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts. I've been talking to this guy online for the past couple of months. We get along great. Him and I message and call each other. I can tell he likes me. We live really far from each other. But talk on a daily basis. I've star...

I know asking him to move for us to be together is a Big Ask. He wants me to move. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3340 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a long distance relationship with a guy for the past year. It's been going great but we have reached the point where we are both missing each other and seeing each other weekends is not enough. We are looking to move ...

Please give me advice, guidance or reassurance about moving to marry him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3341 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years, 1 of which is long distance. I moved continent (not even country) and we've been trying to make it work ever since. We are very sure we want to get married soon because we love eachothe...

How do I regain her trust from a distance when she already previously had abandonment issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3338 days ago

17 September 2015 (M) - I'm the type of man who is fortunate enough to have rarely had to chase women in the past few years. College has been good to me. So this is a weird predicament for me: I am head over heels for this girl right now. We dated for about 2 months o...

Can my partner be bothered or am I being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

13 September 2015 (F) - hi. am in a LDR of nearly a year. We see each other every other weekend. i am still in the 'in ore' stage and cant my eyes off him etc, but he seems veey settled and it isnt reciprocated. don't get me wrong, he holds my hand, cuddles up...

For a long distance relationship, is this a genuine LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

12 September 2015 (M) - So six years ago, I met this amazing girl through another friend. Ever since, we hve been fclose friends. At the beginning of this year, she broke up with her now ex and I confessed I liked her since we met. Though we are going to schools far apar...

What happened to change his mind ? My LDR broke up with me after we met in person.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

12 September 2015 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for around 10 months but we've known each other for a year. We met on an online game we play. We started as just gaming buddies but then over a couple months we got to know each other, we called and video ...

He said the only thing that works for him is porn and now I don't want to have sex with him either! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I(both 22) started dating a year ago. I think that we both have a rather high sex drive and at the beginning sex was great. Unfortunately we had to go LDR for a few months and he started using antidepressant medication. W...

I learned his native language but I feel underappreciated for my efforts! How do I broach this subject with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - My partner of over a year was born and raised outside the UK, and moved here for work. He is perfectly fluent in English, and we have no problems communicating in it. He took me to meet his friends and family in his home country, saying that I ...

To say goodbye? Should I simply leave now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

9 September 2015 (F) - I had an one night stand two months ago. Fast forward and we have decided to go long distance, as I moved abroad for a semester. He's my worse nightmare. I cannot believe how much I came to like him. I want to be with him long enough to say "I...

Long Distance Blues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3353 days ago

9 September 2015 (F) - I am currently in a long distance relationship with the most wonderful man I've ever met. He is everything I've ever wanted in a partner: kind, supportive, caring, funny, loyal, and trustworthy. He will be back for good in May of this year (we li...

How do I stop this? LDR and uncomfortable with his request.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

8 September 2015 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 1/2 years now. Since we graduated from college, we went back to our home country and we are currently having long distance relationship now since he's from another state in the country. Recently, he's ...

Craig's list. Should I trust his explanations? Or is he talking BS?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

6 September 2015 (F) - I'm going to provide a lot of background to this, but my questions are ultimately: - Is what my ex said all just BS? - How common is this problem? - Have non-married couples recovered from this successfully? - Is this issue really related to por...

Her father chooses to have no contact. What can I do that will not negatively affect our daughter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

5 September 2015 (F) - I'm so annoyed my ex hasn't seen his child in 6 years. He pays maintenance but it's hush money. Recently he's neen all over the tv and papers saying how much he misses home as he's a solider. He talks about his family but doesn't once men...

The relationship with my b/f cooled faster than I expected, and I'm attracted to a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - I've only let a couple of my close friends know about the situation I'm going through right now, and I felt I really needed some outside advice. I'm a female that's been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. In the beginning, i...

Do I take the ex back? Or move on to a guy who is sincere with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3360 days ago

1 September 2015 (F) - i have been dating this guy from past 5 years and have been in long distance relationship. in last one year we have been through rough patch and had broken up and we hadn't even met in last one year. The reason for breakup was because things w...