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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Should I give up now or wait and hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 December 2013 (F - Hi everyone, I'm hoping someone can give me some guidance with a problem I have. I have been seeing my partner for a year now and I'd say it's a beautiful relationship. We get along fine and don't have any problems. We have little rows now and the...

Should I buy my boyfriend of 4 months the new Playstation 4?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 December 2013 (F - Hi Dear Cupid, I am in a LDR with a guy I met 4 months ago. We decided to make it official October of this year. Instead of exchanging gifts during Christmas time, it was a mutual decision for us to surprise each other with them in January when ...

On exchange: Should I give up a good school and see him instead?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F - Hi :) He was the most gentlemanly, thoughtful and humourous person I've ever met. We met when he was travelling. At that time, he decided to cancel his next trip to stay longer with me. We had picnics, went biking and visited new places together...

Long distance, who should move where?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F - Hey everyone, I kind of have a question and would like to see what other people think about this or if anyone can give me some advice especially from someone who has been in a long distance relationship. Me and my boyfriend met online have been...

My boyfriend wants to video chat but I'm nervous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 December 2013 (F - I'm in long distance relationship since 1 and half year. I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We talk on phone daily and we have seen each others pic.We are going to meet next year. My boyfriend wants to video chat with me on 31st December. I ...

My married man loves me but can't be with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

27 December 2013 (F - Please bear with this long story. I am unmarried and in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I recently moved to a different country and there I met a guy friend. We both are aware of our situation from the very beginning when we first ...

Should I continue dating someone I know will leave within the year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F - I've been dating for 3 months a guy that i know is leaving in a year. He is military and he is only temporarily stationed here. I love spending time with him and we get along great. But he has told me time and time again that he doesn't believe in ...

Does it sound like she feels more secure in long-distance relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (M - I'm 51 she is 55. The other day, sitting on her couch Very close together side by side. I looked at her and told her for the first time I loved her. Without looking at me, looking forward she said I know.... I asked if she loved me... She turn ...

Is it better for me to forgive my ex or hate him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 December 2013 (F - I was with my ex for 4 years(including 2 years LDR). We're in different countries. We planned to meet after he graduated from graduate school and while we're dating, he gave me commitment and talked about getting married. He dumped me 6 months ago, ...

Am I overreacting to this text message that went wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F - Okay aunts and uncles, I really need help with a text message gone really wrong. Here is a layout of our relationship okay. He lives 4 hours away. We met one time before but we were not alone together remember that. He is coming down to spend a ...

I'm afraid that losing weight will change my personality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F - I am dating this girl through internet about six months officially, but more than a year on total. I am a 18 yr old virgin. I am fatty, never had a "real" relationship. My mom humiliates me all the time saying things like "loose weight you'll n...

Am I just being paranoid about this long distance association?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F - I have a long distance partner who I met on my holidays a while ago. I'm from England and he is from Wales. I really love this guy, he's funny, charming, very attractive and honestly I love spending time with him. The hitch is, I find it really h...

After meeting him once I know he's 'the one'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F - I really like someone that I only met once. I know it is absurd, maybe it's all a big fantasy in my head, but I just can't get him out of my head. I convince myself he's not the one, or force myself to stop thinking about him, but it all just ...

Should I wait to have sex with my long distance boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F - Dear Cupid, For the past 3 1/2 months, I've been involved in a LDR with a man I met at a speed dating event. The type of relationship we've had, has been one of intense passion, adoration, respect and honesty. It definitely wasn't something...

I am sad and he is happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 December 2013 (F - Am in a distance relationship and its been tough he has beat me up insulted me now he's far from me.when am with him I feel good and in my heart I love him so much he doesn't answer me on time when I send him an message and he just posts pictures of ...

Do you think it's okay to wish my ex Happy Christmas next week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

20 December 2013 (M - I dated someone I was really keen on for a couple of months, however she broke up with me because I had to move away. She said an LDR was too hard and she wanted to be friends as she said I was still important to her. I got annoyed and we didn't end ...

How do I ensure our relationship survives this distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 December 2013 (F - I asked a question on here a few weeks back. My boyfriend of only a few month has gone home for 4 weeks over xmas. Hes away so long as his father is ill. In the first two weeks he was in touch all day every day, he was very loving and seemed to be ...

I don't understand why he broke up with me. Will giving him time help me get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (F - I ve been with my ex for 4,5 years...it was long distance relationship but we were seeing each other very often and planning for me to move to his country and start living together next year,once i am done with my faculty. We had really strong r...

I'm so scared that this 4 week break so early on in our relationship is going to ruin us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

12 December 2013 (F - I've been seeing my boyf since the summer and been official for the last 2 months. Everything is going great. So far he seems my perfect man and I'm so happy. But here's the thing, last week he went home for xmas, he'll be gone 3-4 weeks. He's ...

I want to tell my LDR that my best friend is a guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

12 December 2013 (F - Hey everyone ! Well I've been talking to someone for 5 months now and I'm not sure if I should tell him about my best friend which is a guy. I'm wondering if it's too late to let him know or not ? I like this guy "X" a lot and I've never me...

Why didn't I mean enough to him? Why did he stop making an effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (F - After knowing this man for over 8 years and being friends, we decided to take things to another level. He is one of the funniest and likeable people I have ever met. When we made it official, so many of his friends and family reached out to me to...

I just don't feel the love anymore.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

9 December 2013 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Three of those months were spent doing long distance. I'm a freshman in university and he's a senior in high school. At first, we were okay, we were making it work. But recently we've been ...

LDR: Should I just leave things the way that they are until we move to be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F - I've been in this" ldr" with this guy for a year now. We came to a very clear and understandable conclusion as to how things would be from the very beginning. We try our best to try to stay out of each others personal lives to avoid jealousy fits ...

We really connected and now he wants me to visit for New Year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

7 December 2013 (F - Having a little dilemma here... I meet guy at a sports training event about 2 months ago - we didn't talk but made eye contact with each other. A few days later, I saw him at the gym. We started talking - and evenually exchanged numbers. The next ...

This guy seems too good to be true!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

7 December 2013 (? - Okay, First I started talking to a guy just recently through our personal emails. We happen to be on the same site so I left him a message. I didn't think he would respond, but he did. His profile was very long and he wrote a lot things about who he ...

My long distance guy seems distance since he learned I used to date my guy friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F - Hey guys/girls! Well I'm in need of help. So I'm struggling in this LDR. It's a very weird relationship b/c we've only Skyped, texted and rarely talk on the phone. He lives almost 5 hours away from me. So we've been trying to make things work but...

Am I being too clingy? Did we rush into this too soon? I get jealous and possessive and he's often unavailable, to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F - I've been talking to someone for the past 4 months and I met him online. It was a day after my ex blocked me out if his life. I had told this current guy, "X", how distraught I was after what this guy did to me. He complimented me so much about...

Is she just not into me any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 December 2013 (M - I met a girl this summer, she lived right in my neighborhood. Immediately, we connected and hung out a couple of times. I admit I should've been more upfront with her with the fact that I was leaving out of state for grad school but I thought things ...

Been set up with this guy and wonder about his insecurities

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

3 December 2013 (F - How do I know if I really like this guy? So my friend and her husband set me up with their single guy friend. He lives in another country and is only 45mins on the plane. I don't mind it. We've been talking on the phone and Skype se...

He's leaving in two months and I'll never see him again! When should I tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 December 2013 (F - Hi. I've decided to finally let a guy know that I like him. Trouble is, when? Because he's leaving to go study far (600 miles away). In exactly 2 months, then I'll never, ever see him again. I've liked him for over a year now and I was too scared t...

I wanted to be his girlfriend, not his mother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 December 2013 (F - Hello and thank you for any responses in advance, I appreciate all honest opinions. 6 years ago I met a man in the Caribbean, he fell on love with me but I didn't feel the same way, however we became great friends. This year I fell in love with...

I am in love with a Western woman but I'm in doubt about introducing her to my family. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

1 December 2013 (M - I met an American girl when I was visit Dubai like 8 months ago. We spent 15 days together and after I came back we started doing things on net and said " I love you" to each other. I'm 28 and she is 24. My problem is that she keeps asking m...

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