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Was this a missed financial opportunity and should I have consulted with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

31 August 2017 (F) - I'd like opinions from everyone about communication and responsibility within a relationship. To briefly summarize, my boyfriend and I live in my childhood home. We get by w/ our jobs and friends/tenants helping out on the monthly expenses. B/c my ...

Do I tell potential dates from the start that I have acne on my butt and thighs?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

30 August 2017 (F) - I just got out of a 11 year relationship. I have body acne bad like on my butt and inner thighs. I feel gross...like no one will ever be with me because of the acne down there....would you be with someone who had acne there? Do I tell people about ...

He waits for me to leave and then mastubates!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

29 August 2017 (F) - Sometimes (often enough) my husband masturbates as soon as i leave the house. I dont care that he masturbates but this really annoys me. I know because he leaves evidence on my computer. I know most of the time its stress and he does it to calm ...

My friend drunkenly ranted into my voicemail. Do I call him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - So last night I was sat alone minding my own business when I received two phone calls , both left voicemails from a good friend of mine. He has helped me through a lot of relationship problems, he has made it clear he fancies me but he knows th...

Anal sex embarrassment!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - I had anal sex last night and thought I was clean, when he went really deep I had a big accident and it literally went everywhere was so embarrassing my boyfriend was really good about it we had a shower and he has just shrugged it off but I am so ...

Is it ever ok for your boyfriend to insinuate that you're fat? Feeling hurt and ashamed, how do I react?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - Hey guys :-) I was just hoping for some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and I think of myself as a really good girlfriend to him. When we first got together we were both in very good shape. However over the years we've both put w...

How do I fix this verbally abusive relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

25 August 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm really am confused by my relationship. I am 27 and my boyfriends 29. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. It's not been an easy four years tbh. When we met I just finished university. He was living with his parents, getting...

I started bleeding after sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

24 August 2017 (F) - Hi this is a question for the women. I've been in a relationship for 4 years and last night about 2/3 hours after sex I started bleeding. I had just finished my period 2 days before. anyone else experienced anything like this and is it anything t...

I've just completed cancer treatment and now my toxic ex wants to come back

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

24 August 2017 (F) - Hi aunts, I've just completed a years worth of cancer treatment and luckily I might be OK, but my ex partner who was abusive to me during our three year relationship has got in touch saying he might want to get back together with me. He was with ...

I'm grateful for the advice, but I feel I will be single forever. How do I come to terms with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2652 days ago

23 August 2017 (M) - First off, I'd like to say thank you to everyone who has advised me so far on this forum. I've gotten some great responses from some of you (WiseOwlE, BrownWolf, thanks for being so active in my posts and listening to me complain as much as I did). ...

I like her a lot, she's gone cold, what can I do that wont mess it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2653 days ago

22 August 2017 (M) - Met this awesome girl online, we hit it off immediately, we had a ton in common, both artists, both geeks, and into the same games. I asked her out and we had a great time at an arcade. we did a ton of art collabs together, played games together and ...

I feel directionless, as if my life is the same thing, over and over.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

21 August 2017 (F) - This is sort of relationship question. Relationship with oneself. I feel stupid for feeling so low and for needing advice on how to find happiness after 40. I just never thought I'd feel this bad. Age and looks were never the problem for me. I...

Should I be concerned about my erratic behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2653 days ago

21 August 2017 (F) - Should I be concerned about my erratic behavior? A little brief background I am 32 and most of my life I have battled just depression and going to these deep waves of misery. I must admit through therapy and for the first time trying to LISTEN I am ...

Is it right to ask for help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

17 August 2017 (F) - Should a person who is sick or not feeling well ask for help? Like: A lift home from a doctor's appointment or from hospital? Or for a friend to drop and check they are OK? This is if they have no family nearby or live alone. If you were havin...

Could our relationship be salvaged?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2659 days ago

16 August 2017 (M) - So this past Monday my girlfriend of 6 months split up with me. She's just got back from a week away with her sister and the day she went away told me she had been thinking about it because of how I react to things and how she's constantly worrying ...

What is the point of this relationship? Unbiased advice requested!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

16 August 2017 (F) - I am so angry and upset. I am honestly considering if the better option is to just walk away from my five year relationship. I am really sorry but this is going to be quite long. I need some advice, or just pointed in the right direction. I wis...

How do I curb his frantic sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

16 August 2017 (F) - I currently started dating this new guy and everything is going great only problem is that he is insatiable. We have only been on two dates and we have spent both nights together however the first night we just made out and I spent the night th...

Help me end my loneliness

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

15 August 2017 (F) - Has anyone else ever felt completely alone? I feel like my friends are drifting away from me. I also feel like I will never find someone who will actually treat me the way I deserve. I guess my question is have you ever felt alone? And what did you ...

I'm annoyed about his contradictory comments about not wanting children but not using birth control with his exes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

15 August 2017 (?) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for three months and in general we get on well. But one thing that keeps cropping up is his exes. The other evening the subject of children were brought up (he hasn't got any). He told me that he had not used ...

My girlfriend is waiting after a fight for me to says its all my fault. I'm not going to do that again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2660 days ago

15 August 2017 (F) - Hey all, My partner of five years and I had a fight two days ago and we haven't spoken since and I miss her a lot. Usually I am always the one that goes running back and gets us to make up but I'm just tired of her never making that effort. ...

How do I overcome this fear of rejection and anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2659 days ago

14 August 2017 (M) - I am 27 years old and I get anxiety when I approach a woman. I'm a heavy set guy, but more athletic than fat. I've been in relationships before but at this point in my life I would just love to settle down and start a meaningful relationship. I just ...

I cant break up with her because she threatens self harm.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

13 August 2017 (F) - Hi, So I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years total now with some time in between here and there. I've been on the fence about breaking up with her for the entirety of this summer but I haven't been able to act on it because she is s...

Things were perfect then he began to change. Should I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

11 August 2017 (F) - My relationship was perfect with my boyfriend.and then things began to change..he doesnt go down on me when we have sex and making excuses saying the odour coming from my vagina smells terible when we have sex and thats the reason he cant.and ...

Need to pee blocks my climax

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

10 August 2017 (F) - I am having a personal issue with my husband and I feel like I'm loosing my mind. Every time things get "frisky" I want to finish, I feel like I need to, but I always get an overwhelming urge to pee; even though i use the bathroom right before we ...

When its good its great but right now its bad.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

9 August 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for roughly four months. It's long distance so things have gotten intense pretty quickly! We were planning to move in together but I felt it was too soon so I told him how I felt. Since then things have not been ...

My love interest is ill .... is it worth waiting for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

7 August 2017 (F) - I am in my 30s and my love interest is in his 40s but we are just friends. I haven't seen him in a long time and have seen recently that his health is bad. He struggles to walk, has asthma and drinks. He randomly said to me he would not be able to ...

How do I fix things and apologize in order to reconcile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

7 August 2017 (M) - My ex who I broke up with about 5 months ago asked me if I wanted to hang out yesterday with her and her kids and we spent the whole day together playing in the pool and stuff at the house and cooking dinner. We have been good friends the last ...