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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Diagnosed with bipolar disorder. How do I break the news to my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - I've known I had some form of depression since high school, but it wasn't that bad, so I didn't seek treatment. I discussed it with my husband before we got married, although he comes from a background where mental illnesses are sort of brushed ...

Chat room Addiction. Please help! :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - dear cupid this is not about relationships. its about my chat addiction. i got into a chatroom several years back. now i seem not to be able to get off it. i have some friends and some people i hate there. i seem to be always focused on going to...

I cursed her out, we broke up, I want her back, but she's moved on.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - I never felt this bad in my life. This is the first time I ever truly loved a girl and the first time I've been genuinely heartbroken. We broke up because I felt she was being cold to me, plus I had no job and I guess the sex wasn't great and I ...

I want to study and have a career but I am scared of the changes I have to make!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I have this guy in my life i feel for, he is really a nice guy and lives overseas we have met a couple of times, We talk on phone and he likes me too. I want to marry him but he is unstable financially so he wants me to get independent earn on my ...

I consider her a friend, yet she says I'm using her. Any advice on how to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I met this girl at an AA meeting and she was really cute and flirty at first. We started talking, went to a midnight meeting and I took her back to my apartment and we made snacks. She ended up spending the night and we made out and when we got t...

I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...

Tiny sand-like scabs in my bed after sleeping with a guy...what is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - I've been sleeping with this guy for a while, and tonight he came over to visit me before he goes on a trip for 6 weeks. So we slept together. But after he left, I noticed my bed was full of what looked like sand at first. I picked up one of the ...

How can I boost my confidence?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Hi. I am after some advice/help on how to be more confident and care free, and less self conscious in public. I've always been quiet and I do care what people think of me, up to a point, but I wish I had the confidence to be more my natural self ...

He thinks of me as something that I'm not and I can't stand the thought of seeing disappointment on his face

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - I have met a great guy and we have been dating for a while now. The next step on the cards for us is sex but im terrified of him seeing me naked. See I used to be extremely over weight and I lost it all naturally a few years ago but my body still ...

I've never experienced intimacy with a person and don't know how to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

22 November 2013 (M) - Hello My problem is I’ve been rejected by girls sooooo many times in my life that I’m no longer able to be attracted to them. I literally don’t like people anymore and I don’t know what to do. And if someone shows interest in me I shun them or give ...

What can I do really quickly to improve my skin? I am attending a wedding and I have too many pimples and other issues.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - Hi friends. My problem may sound really silly but I really need some help please. I have a marriage ceremony to attend day after tomorrow and I have soooo many pimples on my forehead. I understand that having pimples is normal but it’s too much and...

Three days ago I suffered a miscarriage. Do I tell my ex bf/good friend I miscarried his baby?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I are 11 years a part, Im 18. We dated secretly to avoid the scandel as we knew he was moving away in december. Last week he ended it early and we are still on really good terms. Its tricky when we both are attracted to eac...

Is this likely to be true? Will I end up alone as a cat woman, with no one who ever wants me? How do I find someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I can't say this to anybody I know because it really does sounds so pathetic and I know it shouldn't bother me this much.. So I am 18 years old, and I have never had a proper boyfriend (I.e someone I can connect to ect.). And it is starting...

Mom found out I'm no longer a virgin and all hell has broken loose! I don't regard myself as a sl*t, but she now certainly makes me feel like one.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I'm a 27yr female, a doctor in her fellowship in Mexico. I was virgin till I turned 25, I decided to have sex with my then 6month boyfriend who's still withe me (three years now). We are in a steady and serious relationship, even considering ...

Things have changed so much because of her illness -- can we get back to where we were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I need advice as am completely stuck. I'm in a long term lesbian relationship that for the past year has been incredibly difficult. When I first met my partner she was my ideal woman. Literally the moment I met her I fancied her. She was li...

Why is my fiancée's mother bribing me with gas cards?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

21 November 2013 (M) - Why is my fiancee's mother bribing me with gas cards, when I've put on 6300 miles in the last two months? My fiancee can't drive because of her seizure disorder (though it has been getting more under control recently). We currently live 45 minutes ...

Did I overreact to comments about my weight?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I think I might have over reacted. I was texting back and forwards with this guy I had not dated yet. Everything was going well until he made this comment ~i don't usually date girls like you, but you look decent~ when i asked him what did he mean ...

Questions on sex and HIV...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - I've just read the stats about HIV and I'm shocked as too how many people were diagnosed in 2012. I have a few questions.. 1. How does a man get HIV off a woman? It seems there wouldn't be enough fluid exchanging. 2. How common is it to ge...

How do I deal with my mother's illness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

20 November 2013 (M) - My mother recently fell ill un-expectedly 3months ago and it has all just hit me all at once in the last few days and I feel really low at the moment and don't know how to deal with it. Any ideas? Thanks for reading. ...

Were you ugly as a teen then become a good looking adult?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

19 November 2013 (M) - In high school were you ugly and then get good looking when you became an adult? I was a cute kid/preteen until I hit the age of 15. At 15 I got a weird facial structure, acne, dry frizzy hair, and am SO socially awkward. I'm 19 and still have all ...

Boyfriend tells me I'd look better if I lost weight then regrets it and tells me I look fine! What's going on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We're in a really happy relationship except for one thing. On occasion he has told me that I'd look better if I lost half a stone. He also tells me frequently (in a jokey way but I see a serious ...

Pregnancy test negative so why 2 missed periods and terrible cramps?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - This isn't exactly a relationship question but maybe someone could help? I've been having cramps off and on for a month now- sometimes just a mild cramp and sometimes to the point where I'm doubled over in pain and have missed 2 periods- after the ...

Married 41 years. Any tips to spice up our sex lives please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 41 years, i'm 65 and she's 64. We used to have a great sex life but we haven't had sex for a couple of years now and it can get frustrating. Has anyone got any tips to spice up our sex lives? Thanks...

He deceived and cheated. I have regrets. Do you have any tips on how I can forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - About 6 months ago, I discovered a man I was seeing was not all he said he was. He was cheating on me with multiple women and deceived me on a level I never imagined possible. He broke my spirit and my heart. I had never felt so low. With lots...

Just diagnosed with herpes who gave it to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - So i have just been diagnosed with genital herpes ! Very shocking too as im female and have just turned 22 However im in a slight dilema i am with my partner for nearly five months we never used protection he never mentioned anything about holding ...

Do I break-up and run? My BF engages in self destructive behaviour and I think I deserve better.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - I have posted here before and your advice has always helped me make it through bad times. My boyfriend of a year has driven drunk for most of his adult life he exhibits other self destructive behaviors. Says he likes risk. I have spoken t...

Don't want drama. Have not talked to FWB since condom broke. So how do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - Soo I feel really stupid here but I don't know what to do.... I was in this FWB things for a couple months we used condoms but had an incident when one broke and 9 weeks later here I am pregnant. Problem is I haven't talked to him since the condom b...

Does reading books improve personality and boost confidence? Which books should I read?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

13 November 2013 (M) - hey i am 17 and i am from india and i am a college student well i told you all previously that i am shy and feel nervous to talk to girls and i don't have confidence . So basically my brother is opposite of me he is smart he has confidence and girls ...

My ex is dating my friend's sister and treating her like gold!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - I dated a man for about six months last year. Things proceeded slowly (I was fine with that). I actually really liked him - I had sworn off dating after coming off a 14 year relationship. I liked him - and I truly feel like it was mutual. How...

A beauty you fancy turned out to have had major plastic surgery done. Would it bother you?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

13 November 2013 (M) - Right so this is a toughie. I'm hoping you guys can help me...cause I really need it!! I met a girl several weeks ago at a club. A real stunner. Beautiful green eyes, blonde hair, lovely figure, very high cheekbones, full lips. She was chatting...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Is it wrong of me to feel like he shouldn't expect me to chip in for the cost of his vasectomy reversal? Things have been getting serious with my boyfriend, we've talked about marriage/kids/etc. He had a vasectomy about 8 years ago. I've read t...

Should I tell a new boyfriend about my fake teeth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Ok here goes, when I was younger I got best by my bf at the time and he messed my teeth up really bad. It was to the point where they couldn't be fixed so I had to get dentures. Don't get me wrong I love my dentures and ppl that doesn't know me ...

I ended it so it should be easy, right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - Hi all I have been with my ex for a very long time (5 years 1 month 2 days) We split 2 days ago. Its been LDR the whole time, spending weekends and holidays together. We probably average 2-3 days/week together We have both been in our j...

We are rarely intimate anymore but he keeps watching porn! I don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has been watching an excessive amount of porn, at least 5 times a week.. i have personally caught him with his hands in his pants online early in the morning, normally i sleep in but its been becoming a bigger and bigger problem. we are ...

All I want is someone to love me! I need some advice!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - Here we go, I am going to try and do this without breaking down into tears . I have only been divorced since May of 2012 however my husband left in 2008 I met this man and started seeing him and at the time i didnt know he was married because he ...

I can't manage to have sex for 2 hours, should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - I do like having sex with my boyfriend bt i am facing the problem, he is sex rider n make me be on the mood with no doupts. My problem is he takes 2hours 2 make one round bt only if he use condom, when we sex without condom he takes 20-30 min then i ...

What should I do? I have realised that I deserve better than how she treats me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

10 November 2013 (M) - Hi all, I have an issue which has many facets so I will try to summaries it as best as I can. - Been with girlfriend for 6 years (she is in mid twenties) - She has a minor disability and I look after her every need.. probably too much! - L...

Can't orgasm with women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 November 2013 (M) - I've had trouble coming to an orgasm with women. I've been sexually active with two girls.. One we just did oral and the other I've had sex with. When the first girl gave me oral I had trouble reaching orgasm and finally after having to take control ...

Been off the pill 5 months ago but still can't get pregnant.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I was just wondering if people could share their experiences to help me see what's "normal'. my husband and I are trying for a baby. I came off the pill 5 months ago and we have been trying since then but no luck. How long did it take your or ...

Please help me figure it out because I don't understand his behavior!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - My husband flirts with EVERY pretty woman. Even on our honey moon he did invite woman to go out,and he would ask me to go with him too. He is a nice,charming,and smooth voice type.Was handsome but now his is getting fat belly,bald,but still smooth o...

I found a HIV-test. Did she cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 November 2013 (M) - I have a steady girlfriend from past 2 years. Before I came in her life she had around 5-6 men in her life. But I am sure that from past 2 years it's been just me. I moved to another town close by - 2 hour drive from my current place for a work ...

My boyfriend slapped me across the face, was it my fault?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend slapped me across the face, was it my fault? My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. He drinks a lot sometimes, and this annoys me, whether he is being annoying when he is drunk or not. Sometimes, he is hyper and happy when he is drunk...

Plumpy fat or tall with muscles?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

9 November 2013 (M) - Girls/ladies i have a question for you! Please what does a lady prefer? A guy that is plumpy/fat or a tall guy that got muscles/workout? O.p I fall into later option...

Due to my past experience with acne, I am worried that my boyfriend is trying to tell me something. What do you all think?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I am someone who went through a severe bout of acne when I was younger. I have been left with scars (no acne now) and have been seeing a dermatologist regularly to get filler and laser to deal with it. Its better, but I do still have scars. Anyh...

I can't get over my husband cheating with this awful woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - I had marital problems last year, long story short my husband was cheating on me with an actual whore and when I mean who're I mean this nasty person cheated on her x-husband for the 17 years of Thier marriage she found my husband and found him to ...

How do I work this out? He shows no emotion at all. And in his own words is broken.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months last night told me he doesn't love me anymore. I basically dragged it out of him. We have had loads of fights. Maybe everyday. But we are trying to work on this relationship. Both of his parents have cancer. (May contrib...

Why do abusive men see me as a target to be mistreated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I was once in love with my Ex we went our own ways because he turned out to be very abusive mentally and physically I left him. As time went on I ran into another guy who treated me like a queen everyday of my life then he turned out to...

I got away from a controlling guy and got my life back, but am suffering acute anxiety. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - Dear All, Please help - any insight would be most helpful. I have just recently got out of a really toxic relationship.( around 3 - 4 weeks ago) for good and have cut all contact. I was seeng a cruel and controlling man for around 3 years. I got ...

Why do I experience such bad pain during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

7 November 2013 (F) - I'm 27 and I've been sexually active for the last 10 years but I can't explain this. Sex hurts on and off for me. This recent guy I've been seeing it hurts like a knife is going through my vagina sometimes before he even full enters me and other ...

Any kind words or bits of advice on surviving this breakup?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

6 November 2013 (F) - Hey guys. I'm an regular aunt on this page. I'm in need of some help and kind words myself at this moment. My gf broke up with me a couple of days ago and I'm hurting really badly. She has serious anxiety and has difficulty separating one is...