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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I lost weight but I'm still not fully happy. How can I gain confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - Hey everybody, i am 17 years old and did weigh 16 stone. i was a size 18/20 clothes and had glasses. i felt fat and ugly. i got bullied all the way through school every day i would get a comment "fat bitch" "errr look its blobby" "haha fatty bum ...

I get compliments all the time but not from lads I'm interested in. Why don't I have a bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - why am i the only person that is still single!!! all my friends are in relationships of 9/10/11/12/13 monnths n even longer and i am still the one that's never had a bf. all people say is "oh dont worry mr right will come along one day." but hes ...

Tips on what to do when my gf is doing her extra work at home, ways to make her feel more relaxed? I'm 26.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Hi i'm 26 i just want to know what i can do to help really. My gf has been through a tough time at the moment and has got a bit behind with some work, She seems to be quite stressed, so how do i help her to calm down and unwind a bit, maybe some ...

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

I've been shaving my pubic hair, and it's gotten itchy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hey. I've been shaving my pubic hair for a while now, but I always get red and itchy parts when I do. Also I can never seem to completely shave off all the hair, there is always little stubs still visable. I was wondering how to solve this problem ...

Do women remember the size of their former lover's penis?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - I have been bombarded with penis enlargement emails lately. Something like 100+ a day. Hopefully I am not the only one. :) Obviously these are SPAM I know, however there are lots of products claiming to work for those less endowed. One of the ...

My left breast is larger than the right. I get teased and it puts me down. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Im 24 years old and my left breast is considerably larger than my right one - about 2 cup sizes larger. I have read on the internet, and from other girls with the same problem, that this is totally normal but it does not look normal and has dented ...

Losing erection just when I have to wear the condom. Any solution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Hi ive got a bit of a problem. Whenever me and my new girlfriend go for sex I can not get it up when about to use a condom, it will not work for me. If we do it without one im perfectly fine and I easily get one up fastly. Any solution ???...

People tell me that I am beautiful, smart, have a shining personality, but guys never want to date me because of my weight? Why don't guys date big girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I am 20 years old. I have had one serious relationship and a few boyfriends. I think it has been because I am overweight. I never thought it mattered. I love myself and i have more confidence than most people. People tell me that I am beautiful, ...

Please tell me what you would do if in my situation. I really need your advice!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Can someone tell me what the hell they would do in my situation? I'm 23 years old and live with my parents. I am completely independent and fully pay my way - EXCEPT that if I happen to get home from work and my parents have made some dinner...

He abuses me and loves me? I love him, is he ever going to change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - ok. so here is the deal. i've been with this kidd for one year nd he's always lieing to me, he is so jealous, he hit me before, mentally abuse me, hurt me verbelly and physically but i know that he's crazy about me. he's in love with me and he would ...

I am a kind person, matured early. When people I know die I don't feel sad, when they marry I don't care. I want to care, show affection. How to solve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Issues moving forward with relationships and other things... During the past few years, I have had nostalgic feelings and feelings of regret about my life prior to becoming an adult. At the age of 20, I really want to move forward and start accomp...

We've been going out for 3 years and just moved in together - and he never wants to have sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - me and my b/f have been going out for 3 yrs just moved in together but he never wants to have sex i'm 21 and hes 35 what should i do...

These medical conditions that make me want a completely new appearance. Is it possible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i need a new face. seriously its not just your average 15 year old "im bored of looking like me" thing. i have medical conditions and was born with a few things that have messed my face up such as a cleft lip. theres this girl that i wanna loo...

I'm fed up with people presuming I'm happy when I'm so down. They wouldn't understand me if I told them how I felt. Help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Im fed up with people presuming im happy when im so down. I know this is my fault because i put on a smiley face and pretend im fine but deep down i feel depressed. I have a great supportive family but if i say anything they would laugh it off and ...

How can I help and show her that no matter how much work needs to be done I'm still with her and that I don't mind that shes having to do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - My wife is a teacher and she loves it. Just oen problem this time of the year is always the most stressful for her. I think shes been over working herself and getting herself upset for no reason, shes not at the stage where she starts crying but i ...

She tells me she has an std, and then blames me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Dear cupid, I have been married for a month now my wife came to me and said she had caught an std and the way she said it was like she was blaming me i have not been with any other women and she claims she hasn't been with any other men i think she'...

My son has been diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorder. How do I solve his problem of not wanting to use the toilet except for urine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - hi readers. i found out last year that my son has been diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorder. its not very well known of and some people dont even know it exists. My problem is, he has just started primary school and he is confident enough to ...

When to be used and treated badly in a relation is a "need."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - The last 5 boyfriends I've had have all been lovely, charming, romantic gentleman. Three of them have told me that they love me. But i am SICK of KNOWING that I'm the one thats going to have to end it. Im not the kind of girl who sits pining after a ...

I think I am depressed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I think I am depressed.. I get upset over the littlest things, always crying about anything n everything... when I get upset I either eat loads(and I have gained loads weight) or eat nothing (terrible stretch marks from putting weight on n off)...

Is it safe to use anything else apart from a vibrator? If so what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - is it safe to anything else other than a vibrator or dildo as a self pleasuring measure - if so what? i haven't got a bf at the mo and am a really horny!! any advice would be great. anonymous...

My ex assulted me. How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) - hi there my ex partner assulted me 2 weeks ago and when i mean assulted he has been admitted to crown court for abh charges. its just that i feel like he is haunting me, he has already put me on that many sites and filled in profiles on me. im on s...

I may be pregnant with my boyfriend of 1 year's baby...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I'm 21 years old and might me pregnant with my boyfriend of 1 year's baby. I told him there is a chance. I am going to the doctors today to find out. He said that he hopes it is not that. He hopes that it is something completely different but non ...

Can you check for STD's with a simple blood test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - my girlfriend has had a past relationship and is wondering.. can you check for STI's with a simple blood test? thank you...

I asked him to leave home, but how do I go on without knowing where he is, while our children are confused and hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I am writing this to you to ask for advise regarding my relationship with my husband, my husband and i have had a rough go of it and more recently i had asked him to leave our home. he left our home about a month ago, five weeks ago, he has ...

Cellulite: I have it, I hate it. Will it put him off?? And how can I get rid of it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Cellulite... I have it, I hate it. I know that most women have it a little bit but I still can't get over how disgusting my legs look in certain lights! It's not terrible but it's there!! Anyway, I always have sex with the lights off for this ...

After I got him off, I used antibacterial lotion on my hands - could I still get pregnant from touching myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I am on the pill and last week I was on my period. I wacked my boyfriend off and then my hands off and used an antibacterial lotion. Later, I ended up touching myself when I took a shower. Am I possibly pregnant?...

I have a large 'hanging' labia lip... Will this put him off oral which he says he's up for?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi!, me n my boyfrined were talking n he mentioned that he's always like to go down on me and im totally up for it, and tbh i'd like to too! only problem is, that i have large 'hanging' labia lips n im worried he will find this wierd! is this a...

Should we have a baby? I'm 19, he's 28

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I think I want a baby, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. we get on well some of the time and we have discussed it before. how do I know if its right or not? Im nearly 19 and he is 28. ...

Can aids be passed on through my mouth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Stupid question, Can you get aids from kissing and getting blow jobs, and from someone swallowing your cum?...

I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm stil...

He's been texting another woman b/c he's depressed. He said they've never met, but I feel cheated! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I recently found text messages on my hubbies phone from some one called D, they were signed with a x. I confronted him and he admitted it was from another woman. He is being treated for bad depression and said he only did it to feel good. He sai...

Does my period cycle indicate that the pill is not working for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - hi, i have been on the pill for about half a year now and for the last 3months or so my period has been coming the week before it is indicated it should happen. does this mean it isn't working?...

After the trampoline injury, my knee has been acting funny. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - hi if anyone has ever broken off their cartlidge off their knee cap please tell me because i think i have done it to mine. when i move it it clicks and it feels like things are moving. I injured it on the trampoline a few weeks back and after a day ...

Large breasts, should I get a reduction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - hi, im a 27 year old from canada. im just like every other girl except that i have extremely large breasts. im a 48 eee and im not fat im only 140 pounds, and every time i go out i get stared to death by guys. at first i like it but after a while it ...

I'm on the pill, but am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Please someone tell me what is going on. I have been on birth conrtol pills for about a year now. My period has always been on time, never early never late. Well lately my guy and I have been having a lot more sex than usual, yes he does ejaculate ...

How do I interpret pregnancy tests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - hi - was wondering if someone could help me please?! my period is nearly two weeks late, i have done two pregnancy tests - one about a week ago, the other yesterday and they are both negative. (the most recent of which said on the box it is the ...

I have period problems - can anyone give me some advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - hi everyone! i didnt have my period for about 2 months, so when it came, i had them for more than 2 weeks. that's "really" annoying, because it takes a long time before it ends and when i go to school it gets more annoying! arhgh! help! ps: do ...

My period is iregular, delayed, long. Any advice except for the pills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - hi everyone! i didnt have my period for about 2 months, so when it came, i had them for more than 2 weeks. that's REALLY annoying, because it takes a long time before it ends and when i go to school it gets more annoying! arhgh! help! ps: do ...

Am I not falling pregnant because I've been on the pill for a long time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Hello I am a 28 year old lady who has been in a relationship for 8 years with my fiance.For the last 6 years I've been using bith control pills known as Triphasil.Last year we decided to make a baby so I stopped using the pill.Since then we've be...

Since my last question, things have gotten worse! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - The situation has just got a whole lot worse!! Hi some of you may rememeber me i wrote this question about 2 days ago, heres the link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-very-good-at-what-to-say.html anyway read that for more info, basically...

I'm addicted to shopping! It's so hard not to spend money - what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - It's really hard for me to save money - *really* hard. All I want to do is buy things! And they're not even things for me - I love to buy *other* people things, just because I like to make people happy. I know that I don't *have* to buy people ...

He climaxed during the bj...but was it urine?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I want some advice on whether the following is normal. I was performing oral sex on my boyfriend the other day and when he came there was masses of the stuff! His orgasm seemed to last a real long time (which obviously we both enjoyed!), but the ...

Is it weird that I climaxed during my first time? Is it normal to be sore for days afterwards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - i recently lost my virginity and people say you never have an orgasm on the first time. Am i weird because i did?? and Is it natural to be sore for a couple of days afterwards?? ...

I'm 14 and have very little pubic hair, should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - i am fourteen and i have very little pubic hair should i be concerned?...

My teeth are yellow and this puts down my confidence...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - I have had yellow teeth for as long as I can remember. I don't know why, I hardly ever eat chocolate or drink coffee/tea or smoke or do much that would stain them. It really affects the way I talk and act around boys. I don't think they're nat...

I feel so alone, and tired of people not treating me properly...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - i dont know what to do, i feel really depressed. the bloke i loved dumped me by ignoring my calls. my last 3 relationships ended by my partners hand. i'm finding my new job really hard my boss doesnt seem to like me. other people have picked up on ...

He seems to be losing his patience with me, and I don't want our relationship to be a burden for him! I'm getting depressed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - Hi DearCupid. For the past few months, I have been getting more and more depressed. I have just started my final year of A-levels, and already I feel like I'm getting lost in it all. I can't concentrate any more. My home life is volatile, with my ...

My wife became depressed after having our first child. She has now met new male friends over the internet. Is there a cause for concern here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married three years and we've had a great relationship. She was recently depressed after having our first child and turned to the internet to find happiness. She has new male friends, should I be concerned? She told me she ...

Sooo many problems that I need to sort out. I feel like a nobody. Please, please help me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

21 September 2007 (?) - can anybody help a looser?? i feel like a complete nobody at the minute. i am so depressed and yes i know its my fault but i dont know what to do about it. i am a 15, female and live in the uk. have a mum, no dad, no grandparents and no other fa...