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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I'm confused after this kiss with another girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - Wer do I start I have this mate who I went to college with ! Every now and then we meet up to keep in touch! Through her I met her friend from the first time I saw her I thought she was pretty and felt unnerved by her! Maybe a year later I seen her ...

Am I gay, bi or straight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 September 2013 (M) - is it gay to have a thoughts about a guy but also think abot girls all the time to or am i just looking to experiment. i feel a connection with him we even cuddle every time were alone. but on the flip side girls always shoot me down and friend zone ...

I just want to tell him I have a crush on him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

29 September 2013 (M) - Hey guys, so i've had a crush on this guy at school (im also a guy and i am gay) but the problem is i've never had an actual conversation with him. Im also pretty sure hes straight even though he hasn't had a girlfriend. My problem is that im sure ...

She flaked on me then said she was sick. I haven't heard from her for 2 days.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Ok, so I am friends with this woman, we have been acquaintances for a while but really only got to know one another out of work the past 6 months or so. I'm the mean time she's gone through a break up with her ex and a lot of stuff - fair dos. ...

Am I crazy is he cheating and taking me for a fool?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 September 2013 (M) - Hi Guys and Girls A question about strange behaviour from my partner of 4 years. We live together and have done for 3 years. However I am always suspicious of him and keep checking his texts and Facebook messages. I like to go to bed early...

I think he's gay but he has a girlfriend. I want to tell him I am gay.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - Hello there. I have a problem. recently I've really started to like this guy at work but hes going of to uni till December. The problem is I'm gay and I and lots of other people think he is but he has a girl friend. I'm ok with that because...

I'm seeing another side to my boyfriend after moving in together. Should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - Hello, so I have been dating this guy since January and we really hit it off well, never fight, never argue, and always have a good time. We always say things like we'll spend the rest of our lives together as well, so I am extremely invested in ...

What's a woman with all this new-found time on her hands to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - I suppose this isn't really a relationship question but more a guidance of career choices. I am unsure of what to do, however, so please read. Thank you. I've been in a loving, committed relationship with my partner for 15 years. She is the hard ...

Should I tell them that I am also dating other people because at the moment I am not looking for a relationship, I am just enjoying myself as I am not sure what I am looking for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - hey, just some quick advice really... I have been dating 2 girls, one girl I have been on a few dates with over the past few months and another girl I have dated a couple of times. Should I tell them that I am also dating other people because ...

My girlfriend has contact with her ex and lies to me about it. How do I talk to her about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - I dont feel hurt by her actions, just disappointed that shes lieing to my face and not telling the whole truth. I told my girlfriend that if she had contact with her ex it would break us up and its not that i cant or dont trust her its how he b...

People think we're crazy...do you think this will work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

15 September 2013 (M) - Ok, I met someone online and talked to them for about a month. I got him a job working out of town with me (he Skyped with the HR person and was hired). Since this job is 2 hours out of the city, the staff live on site. So "Charlie" came out and we ...

My ex is taking time out to work on herself as she's severely depressed, should I wait for her or move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - I'm super torn up about a break up. My ex girlfriend is having major mental illness issues and can't hold down a functioning relationship anymore. we had been together for over a year, and she'd always battled with severe anxiety and depression, but ...

Straight guy with gay porn addiction!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

13 September 2013 (M) - Straight guy with gay porn addiction. i seem to always want to fap off to hot pictures of guys. Usually its the jock type with the amazing bodies. I actually feel not much sexual attraction to them and the thought of gay sec doesn't really do much ...

I know I need to let her go because of how she treats me, but I'm in love with her and scared to be without her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - This past week and a half my girlfriend hasn't been acting the same and shes done nothing more than push me away, she picks fights for no reason and no matter what i say i'm a monster, there is no making her happy anymore and when i ask her whats ...

My partner's low libido is killing my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - Hi there, Myself and my girlfriend have been together almost a year. Since December last year my partner hasn't really initiated any sexual intimacy at all- once or twice when shes been drunk, after an argument etc. Majority of the time I h...

I'm trying no contact with my Gf. But she is anxious and acting up. How do I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - Need some advice. I am doing this program where I don't have any contact with my ex for 30 days. I am on my 20th day of NC; Well I would've been on my 28 but I decided to extend it longer. My ex has been sending me random ex, like Do I don't ex...

I thought I was bi, but could I be a lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

9 September 2013 (F) - Ever since a young age I have always believed that I was bisexual but after having my first few sexual encounters with men, the tables were completely turned. I felt absolutely nothing, I wasn't turned on in the slighted way. I was even imagining in ...

I don't feel comfortable meeting my boyfriend's family because I'm bisexual

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

9 September 2013 (F) - I have always known I was bisexual since my early teens, and I have had two relationship with women. My parent's and I fell out due to this, so I haven't spoken to them in five year's. I'm currently seeing a really nice guy who I'm falling ...

I'm not sure if this woman I work with is interested in me or if she's even gay. She seemed to be wearing my hairband on her wrist, could there be some hidden meaning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I work with someone who I'm not sure if she knows I'm interested and if she's gay or not. I've come across a photo a colleague showed me of this woman at work what looked to be wearing my hair band on her wrist..bearing in mind the person I'm ...

Can I assume every guy going to a gay bar is gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

7 September 2013 (M) - I'm 26, and have recently tried to go to a gay bar alone, but don't spend too long there, because I'm not very confident going there, but I suppose it's the only real way to meet other gay people in my semi-rural area. Where I live there isn't much ...

Why is my ex waging a war against me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4093 days ago

6 September 2013 (F) - First things first, I'm lesbian. My ex and I broke up around February 2013, I met another woman who was my rebound for 3mos to help me cope. That ended with the police being involved out of the arms of one psycho into the arms of another psycho. ...

Are my friends right and I'm in denial?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I'm usually giving advice on this site, but some of the posts here had me rethink my dating behavior and my good friends recently hint that I might be in denial of something, so here's my story. Throughout my youth, I felt li...

I am a male and hate that I get emotionally (but not sexually) attracted to other men. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

2 September 2013 (M) - I am 23, and I've started finding myself getting emotionally attracted to men and I HATE it. I don't feel sexually attracted to them, only emotionally, sure there are some physically attractive men, but it only goes as far as looks and emotional ...