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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - So im 14, I HAVE ALWAYS ALWAYS liked boys. I have many pictures of male celebs on my wall and phone. I have always made sure i looked good when a hot boy has walked past. Tried to impress boys make them like me. Started friendships and formed ...

Why will he not tell me the truth? Is my husband gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I've been with my husband for 12 years. In the beginning of our relationship he put a porn video on to see if I'd be willing to watch it with him. Just a few seconds on there was a shemale on the screen. He quickly turned it off and said he didn'...

I love him. Is he a shy lover or a player? He's sent me mixed messages and is now avoiding me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - My best friend isn’t gay but I am. He was sending me mixed messages. He send me a text. We hadn’t hung out in like 6 months. I always liked him and came over to spend the night and I was climbing up my bunk bed and slipped. He caught me. I would’ve...

I don't want to break up. What can I do? She wants to tell everyone we are dating and I am not there yet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I am in a very complicated situation. I've been dating this girl for a couples of months now. I had never dated a women before and before I met her I always considered myself straight 100%. I don't like women, I just like her. I have actuall...

I don't want to hurt someone in the process of finding out who I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - So I'm a little confused. About my sexuality. I've always considered myself straight until now, now I'm just confused. Basically, I have a crush on a guy. He's brilliant and I like him a lot. I might even go as far as to say I love him. I have al...

I think I'm gay because I'm crushing on a female teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Hello, I think I'm gay. I have had three boyfriends and broke up with all of them because I just didn't have any feelings for them (more than friendly feelings). I have had a few minor crushes on a some of my friends and one bigger one for this ...

Feel uncomfortable and insecure around my bi step-sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Hi do just recently I found out my stepsister is coming down for summer . She has only told me and a couple friends that she is bi ( but more like lesbian if you ask me ) not to be crude . Any ways so she I'ma one month older than me. I just think ...

Is she trying to make me mad or jealous? We're always picking fights. But I miss her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3909 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - So basically my ex gf and I are off and on with talking, We're always picking fights with each other. But we haven't talked in 2 weeks, because she thinks i'm disprespectful , but than again my attitude is based on how she treats me. Anyway, i...

My friend decided to move to Spain this June from here in the US. I have feelings for him. Should I confess that before he moves, and I lose contact with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - We're 2 guys. Weird as it seems. Both of us are also in high school. We've been friends since school started last year, in September. Funny thing is, I'm gay--if you asked me on the street, it's what I say (truthfully, I don't label myself--bu...

I'm the first guy he has seriously pursued -- how can I be sure about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

19 April 2013 (M) - Me: 24 y/o gay male, ended a 2 year relationship last August. Law school student. I started dating my new boyfriend Feb. 27 of this year. Boyfriend: 23 y/o gay male. This is his first serious relationship. Graduated from ******** Universi...

He says he's straight but I think he might be bi-curious

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

18 April 2013 (M) - I'm a bi guy and I like this other guy who says he is straight, but I think he is a little bi-curious. The reason for me saying that is when we used to text each other he would always request gay porn pics to help him masturbate. We even have...

I feel threatened that my g/f has a new best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now, and it's been a roller coaster at times. We're at the point where we're arguing a lot... way too much actually due to my sensitivity, her oversensitivity and my insecurities. She ...

I`m bisexual and married and am deceiving a good hearted lesbian.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - I`m a bisexual married woman and have fallen in love with a woman who`s a lesbian. She doesn`t know I`m bisexual or married. She`s fallen in love with me as well because she tells me all the time. The thing is I`ve never told her I`m in love with ...

What's the best solution? My LDR who lives in another country? Or the new guy who wants to see me again later this year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - i have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend (A) is in one country and I am in another country, One time, I met my past puppy Love,(B) and we felt the love between us again. I'm realy in love with him. And I can feel that he is too much in ...

She hurt me, I love her but should I just live with a broken heart and no violence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - Hello. I am 21 and I am gay. My girlfriend and I got into an agrument one night at her house, so I grabbed all my stuff and told her I was leaving. I was actually leaving her for good, and she fought it. Thst's nice, but I needed to go home to cool ...

My supervisor flirts with me but I just found out he is gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - I have a supervisor at my job who always seems like he is flirting, I mean he will come stand me and starts singing songs, asking me dumb questions, and trying to joke with me like guys normally would do if they are trying to get a girls attention. ...

So I went out on a limb with my crush and did the following

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 April 2013 (F) - i am a female also......if a woman made a special effort to do a complete 360 turn around while she was busy with customers just to say hi to you and give you the biggest cheesest smile showing all 32 teeth, how would take that? there were 15 folks ...

I don't know if my beautiful friend would be into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4275 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - I have a friend that is really beautiful and funny. she's one if the closet people to me and I trust her with everything.sometimes when I'm with her I think about doing sexual things with her like eating her or letting her screw me. I have never ...

My family don't accept my gay relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4275 days ago

8 April 2013 (M) - Is it so hard for my parents to beleive i have a boyfriend. They deny me every chance they get. No i am not just fighting them i am gay and i have a boyfriend. They just don't see us that way. We have done much more then just kiss and cuddle,Y...

Bi male and attracted to my straight male best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

6 April 2013 (M) - I'm a 20-year bi male and my straight best friend is also 20. He doesn't know I'm bi. We are close, have been best buds for almost 10 years now. I hate to say this, but I am sorta attracted to him and he is quite attractive. He also has a girlf...

Girlfriend fantasizes about intimacy with girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

2 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend has recently been fantasizing about having sex with other girls. She has told me that she never has been with another woman or even likes the idea. Then all of a sudden she is having all these fantasies about being intimate with other ...

I like watching lesbians, does that mean I am one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - I enjoy watching lesbians, but I love boys and think they are so sexy, I only want to be with boys but sometimes when I'm watching the lesbians I want to be in that situation for just a second but when I think about it again when I'm not watching it ...

What can or should I do? I am in love with my best friend. BUT she has a boyfriend. Should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

2 April 2013 (M) - i am in love with my bestfriend but she has a boyfriend we had been close friends since we were in college when we are in our first yr she said to me that she loved me but at that time i cant love her back because i have already have a girlfrien...

Do I hope for too much too soon? Sick of being "the other one". I know it may sound dramatic, but I need any form of guidance or help. Please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

2 April 2013 (M) - I have a huge dilemma, I thought I could get text one of my friends for help. Alas, I feel so helpless and I didn't know where to turn from here. So I met this guy on a phone app not a hooking up app, he hit me up first. We quickly started ...

Should I be direct and straight to the point in asking her out on a real date, or should I take things as slow as they've been going so far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - I met a girl a few months ago, and instantly felt some chemistry. We've been talking continuously ever since, but nothing happened between us yet. This has a couple of reasons, which I would like to discuss here to see if I should keep pursuing. ...