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writes:i am a female also......if a woman made a special effort to do a complete 360 turn around while she was busy with customers just to say hi to you and give you the biggest cheesest smile showing all 32 teeth, how would take that? there were 15 folks behind you and she didnt speak to them.....is she being friendly aka doing her job, or she likes ME? would you proceed to take it a step further ? i was in another lane when she did that, there were other customers behind me and she didn't say anything to anyone else..... she did walk over to the lane i was in and she kept smiling at me and glancing here and there....acting shy the other day i seen her and she acted odd azz hell, she wouldnt look at me, but she did slightly glance at me and then she got up left a line full of customers and went to the back for some strange reason and got some water . she acted as if she was embarrased or nervous about something....that is something shes NEVER done before, she came back to her register and kept her head down and smiled slightly but wouldnt look up at me.....when it was my turn she said hi softly but kept her head down..... i do like her so i went out on a limb and wrote her a note it said the following.... "im going to get straight to the point, I want to get to know you better, you seem like a laid back cool female I wouldn't mind getting to know you outside of work, so if you are interested call me or text me ..." the girl smiled at me with a big cheesy grin and said thank you but hasn't contacted me yet ........ do you think she'll call me or text me? my friend told me to ask her for her number......cuz obviously there is a crush here and she is extremely shy i went to the store 4/7/2013 and she was happy as hell when she seen me she spoke smiling, i went back again on 4/8/2013 and she was in the ilse with the district manager and boy when she seen me she was EXTRA HAPPY SHE waved at me with both hands, palms upward and fingers curled inward just cheesing and waving and showin all 32 teeth, ......i dunno if I should just be more upfront and ask her for her number or leave it alone ....is she just EXTREMELY SHY? am i reading this all wrong and shes just being friendly and is doing her job or does she has a HUGE crush on me....since she doesnt have the guts to call me but her actions say I LIKE YOU i was thinking maybe she wants me to ask her for her number. i just found out that shes a pastors daughter...so i think that may be whats holding her back...oh btw way im a female also and my brother likes her also but he hasnt been as blunt as me nor does he get as much attention as i do from her" he thinks she werid all around but she could be gay does she like me n shes just takin her time, i dunno if I should just be more upfront or leave it alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2013): I'm sorry but this girl sounds a little goofy. She grins all over herself and steps across isles to say hi? Then when approached, she's all coy and shy? I can't say she's gay, but she's definitely fruity! I'm gay, I can get away with that.First off, she's a pastor's daughter who hasn't come out yet; even if(WITH A BIG IF) she is gay. If she lives with her family, you can forget any big welcome. Your hands will be full trying to establish any type of relationship with someone in her situation.I suggest you might try to meet her "after" work. Don't approach people while they're working. Her friendliness looks like she's just being courteous to a shopper; but if you start hanging around, it looks like she's handling personal business when she should be working. You're also putting her in a corner, and she has no choice but to be nice to a customer.If you want to find out if she is gay and interested. Let your brother ask her out first; and tag along. That way, no suspicions on the part of the pastor and his wife, and she can be more herself. Then you can establish the friendship that you want, and more; if she is interested in the gay way.I don't mean to take the wind out of your sails; but I think she may have mistaken you for someone else, and she's too embarrassed and shy to admit it. Then you started passing her notes, and put her on the spot. She may not know exactly how to handle this, if you misread it from the beginning. Now she has a lesbian asking her out, she's a pastor's daughter, and she doesn't know exactly what to do and not cause a scene on her job.Just a thought.
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