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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So basically my ex gf and I are off and on with talking, We're always picking fights with each other. But we haven't talked in 2 weeks, because she thinks i'm disprespectful , but than again my attitude is based on how she treats me. Anyway, i was walking, and out of the blue she say "Where's my Gf" and go in this class room. 1. I get that we not togther so she can date whoever she want but 2. she acting like she have a gf, when she doesn't. And it's getting to me, and i just miss her a lot also. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2014): She's playing mind-games, and that's pretty mean and immature.
You need to stop concentrating on her so much; she likes playing with your feelings to keep you confused and upset.
That is really a cruel thing to do to someone who cares about you.
You are going to have to start being more grownup. Cut it out with always doting and fussing over her. She's basically making fun of you. She picks a fight when she is tired of your clinging and neediness. That's how she gets her space when you're smothering her.
You are going to have learn when it is time to just walk away and move on, when people treat you badly. It's not smart to keep coming back for more, then complaining about it.
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