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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

I don't want a FWB relationship with the father of my 2 children. How do I make him understand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Is it worth trying again. I split up with the father of my 2 children several months ago. He left as I asked him to. There were commitment issues. He didn't.want to be tied down by us. Our relationship had become.stale and we were rarely intimate. ...

I already have a partner but have a friend who wants a friends with benefits relationship with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. i need some help. I am a mother of two, in a great relationship with a guy i adore. we have been together 8 years, and the kids are from a previous relationship. so heres where my problem begins, we have a mutual friend and recent...

Friends with benefits or something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - About a month ago I went out with friends after work and ended up hitting it off with a coworker. We went back to his place and had a few too many and one thing led to another. We talked about it the next morning when we woke up and he said he ...

Can friends with benefits work ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Can Friends with benefits with an ex work ? Me and my ex started seeing each other last november. We did alot for the 2 months we was together. Met his family his friends he met mine. We all got along. He suffered with migraines and had ...

I am feeling guilty over my friend with benefits!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Hi I just need some advice on this please have I been unfair in this situation I was in a fwb for 14 months which I wasn't happy with as I was left feeling so used all the time then I found out by three people that knew him that he was married he ...

How do I turn my FWB relationship into a real relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - i have a fuck buddy who i have been shagging for a year, we started seeing each other few years ago then he said i dont want a relationship. we have mutual friends that do not know we are fb weve have known each other 9yrs and always ask our mutual ...

FWB with my best friend. Is this going anywhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm getting into a situation and i need your advice! Like so many other before me, i'm sleeping with my guy best friend. We are very close and this happened once and we said it shouldn't happen again. Long story short, we sleep ...

Can being friends with benefits bring us back together? Or is it wishful thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

18 May 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up several months ago after her mother was ill and passed away. At first I was there for her 1000% and we agreed to remain friends. After all she's my best friend. We were together for 6 years by the way. She told me a ...

Will I be more than just a hook up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

17 May 2012 (F) - I have fallen for my sometimes hook up. We see each other only a few times a month. We chat every other day or so. He is not into having a relationship. I knew this and was ok but something about him is so amazing other than sex. I tried to break ...

Is it up to me to keep his morals in check?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

15 May 2012 (F) - Hey! I am predominantly lesbian, and slept with my first man last year at the age of 27. I didn't have any sort of romantic interest in him, it was just a lust thing. Anyway, he's okay, and we became sort of friends-with-benefits - hard, because ...

Turns out my FWB was married and lying to me! He doesn't know I know. What now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

15 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I have just founf out my fwb is married with children and now I feel so guilty I have ended this with him but still see him every day as we live in the same place I know what fwbs all about but I had fallen in love with him and now I ...

Am I stupid for letting him use me just because I miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

15 May 2012 (F) - i had a boyfriend for about 2 years, on and off. when we were 'going out with each other' we were friends with benefits. the last time we split up we both said some really hurtful things to each other and never spoke again, i still used to see him ...

How often do you see or speak to your FWB?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

12 May 2012 (F) - Hi thank you for reading this I am in a fwb arrangement I was just wondering how often you see or speak to your fwb as I only see mine once a month if that sometimes even though we live very close to each other I have asked him if he still wants to ...

How do I move on? It's always him who's in my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

12 May 2012 (F) - I feel pathetic. I'm 33 years old and I should be past all this by now. I met a guy almost 4 years ago. It was a night out that I wasn't even going to go on. I met this guy in a bar who turned out to be a friend of a friend of a friend. ...

Should I contact this guy and say I'm interested in just casual sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

12 May 2012 (F) - So there's this guy that I dated (we went out for a total of about 7 times). He stopped contacting me about a month and a half ago for some reason which I don't know why. I was really really attracted to him and since my last relationship of about ...

Am I stupid for being jealous of her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - I'm not really sure where to start and no matter what i write i'm still going to sound like a bad person but trust me i'm not. Very long story short, me and this guy from school got back in touch via Facebook. We met up and after meeting up a few ...

Anyone out there in a FWB relationship that works?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - Dear aunts, I have started a fbw relationship with my ex. We meet up every three weeks or so and spend two days together. We have gone on two hotel mini breaks and are planning another. Things have been really good. The pressure of being in a rel...

Could friends with benefits work better than a long-distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - so for nearly a year i've know this guy. we have similar interests, and we message each other and talk constantly. we try and meet up every week (if not more often) to just chat, and he has become one of my closest friends. to this point our ...

We're friends with benefits but I think I'd like to be in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4570 days ago

9 May 2012 (M) - Im 16 ad male, she is 16 as well! One night we were at a party and she told me that she had given up on relationships because so many of hers had failed. I said to her that i k ew what she meant! She then told me that she wanted a friend with ...

What makes a man want a FWB and not a relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone just a quick question all the guys I meet only want a fwb, what makes a man want a fwb with you but not actually a proper relationship? thank you ...

I know I am the only woman he is seeing but I cant stand his online flirting! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - What do I do been with this guy for 16 months friends with benefits, I have feelings for him but not in love with him, I cannot get him to show affection, he wants a relationship wants me to act as a normal friend should and wants no committal, he ...

She has a boyfriend, are we friends with benefits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

8 May 2012 (M) - I met this girl at a resort on february.She was definitely made from heaven.I asked her out but she was not interested and told me to be her friend instead.Since then,we've been having fun,going out for dinner and she visit me almost everyday.She ...

My FWB doesn't want a relationship but he gets jealous if I'm interested in another guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

6 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I'm not sure what to do about this situation I have been in a fwb for 14 months I have three men asking for a date with me I met one last weekend which seems really nice but the trouble is I don't want any of these only my fwb he does ...

I have let a 19 year old chat me up, and now I'm wondering, what's the harm?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - Been a silly girl I know. But have let a 19 yr old chat me up, he's obviously only after one thing, trouble is, I am 40. We're both single. But... Anyway, I have been single 4 yrs now, and working non stop, I keep thinking so what! Bit of fun? All...

Does it seem like I have too much baggage to begin dating again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - Hi all. I am considering dating a man who is about 15 years older than me. But I have a few reservations. 1.)The age gap of course. 2.)I am still in the process of a LONG divorce, which should be finalized this month. 3.) I have a strong EM...

Short term relationships: What does porn and experience do to girls' perceptions of sex and penis size?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

4 May 2012 (M) - I get the impression here that this site is mostly about longer term relationships, but I would like to ask something about the purely sexual side of things because I'm certain that a large percentage of girls LOVE sex and will have sex (sex buddy, ...

How do I address this question with my FWB without making him jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

3 May 2012 (F) - Hi I am in a bit of a difficult situation and would really appreciate any advice you people can offer I am in a fwb I thought we were together properly for a few months but he told me he didn't want a girlfriend so I evetually got my head around ...

He spent the night and had sex with me. Now nothing! How should I act when I see him next?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

3 May 2012 (F) - I'll try to be brief : he was very interested came on strong said all the right things / I made him wait / so now that we spent a night together and sex // haven't heard anything from him !! It hurts and I need to know how to get past it and how ...

Is he asking me if I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

2 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I was wondering what this means sometimes when I am in bed with my fwb if I tell him I love him doing whatever he is doing he looks at me and asks me what else I love n then grins at me what do you think he means by this thank you ...

We had sex, and do these signs mean anything?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

2 May 2012 (F) - Hi, so im 18. I liked this guy which is also my friend... He used to be a womenizer but he changed,he kissed,but he said once he is more for a combination. My friends think he probaly likes me. So anyway we had sex. He slept before with this...

Does this guy have more feelings for me, and isn't letting me know about it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

2 May 2012 (F) - There's this guy who said he wanted to be friends with benefits with me at first, but i didn't want that, so he said he would just be my friend. I have a boyfriend now though, and he knows this, as he spoke to us both once when we bumped into him ...

My friends with benefits is jealous, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

1 May 2012 (F) - Hi I could really do with some good honest answers regarding this I have been sleeping with a man for a few months now we are not together as a couple I told him I would like us to be but he said he didn't want a relationship I went out at the ...

How should I interpret our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

1 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I was just wondering what you people think of this I met a man 14 months ago we have slept together ever since we have agreed not to sleep with anyone else me or him which we are both happy with we see each other a couple of times ...

Moving To The Next Level: Understanding The Hierarchy of Relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

1 May 2012 (M) - Moving To The Next Level Understanding The Hierarchy of Relationships By Frank Kermit, Relationships One of the biggest mistakes people make in relationships is to promote someone up the hierarchy of commitment that has not really earned it. I...