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writes:I'll try to be brief : he was very interested came on strong said all the right things / I made him wait / so now that we spent a night together and sex // haven't heard anything from him !! It hurts and I need to know how to get past it and how to act when I see him / we share mutual friends etc . So I will see him / unavoidable !! Should I say anything to him or act as I'm unaffected even though I'm very hurt ???? Reply to this Question
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reader, Latti +, writes (4 May 2012):
He pursued you and then after spending the night and having sex, you have not heard from him??? Let me ask you....how long has it been since you two slept together? How long did he pursue you? And have you tried to contact him at all since your night together?
If you have tried to contact him and he is not responding....then the next time you see him, smile politely and talk to everyone else in the room...except him. If he tries to have conversation with you....smile nicely, shake you head like your barely listening, starting looking around the room.....say excuse me and sa-shay away.....nicely! Cold Shoulder...with a smile.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (3 May 2012):
 I would file this incident under "Typical male behaviour - TO BE AVOIDED"...... and hope that it's the only item in that file, now.... and that you don't have to put any more items in that file in the future....
Good luck.... and, P.S. on behalf of those (us) OTHER guys (the nice ones) who populate the world, I apologize for this jerk!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2012): I asked my bf and he said he kept his difference only because everytime he saw me he would be tempted to have sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2012): I would be friendly but keep your distance. Keep your dignity and don't show that you are hurt. But don't get pulled in again by him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2012): How long has it been and have you tried contacting him?
OP maybe he's thinking the same thing you are or that he was crap in bed or something.
Why not just reach out to him?
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (3 May 2012):
It does hurt, however old you are, and however much experience of life you have. Just try to be cool and under no circumstances should you make contact with him.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (3 May 2012):
 When you say you havent heard anything from him... how long has it been? did you msg him and he hasnt responded?
(its not clear and determines how you should behave).
Generally speaking from the info you gave; i'd act as if i am unaffected, why give him the control to hurt your feelings?
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