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writes:I get the impression here that this site is mostly about longer term relationships, but I would like to ask something about the purely sexual side of things because I'm certain that a large percentage of girls LOVE sex and will have sex (sex buddy, one night stands) just for the fun of it...1) Since a lot of girls watch porn, do all those massive penises condition them to want BIG penises (as long as they still fit comfortably enough)?2) What happens to most girls' size desire after they've had a bigger penis that didn't hurt? Is it true that they DON'T lust for a significantly smaller one there on after?
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reader, Odds  +, writes (4 May 2012):
 1) The visuals in porn have a larger effect on men than they do in women. A girl's ability to be satisfied with a guy is much more likely to be negatively affected by Hollywood depictions of reckless, angsty, perfect alpha males than it is by porn.
2) Working with just what I've overheard, and what I've put together from clues (having a lot of female friends can be a blessing and a curse), most girls don't seem to go for really big penises, but from one relationship to the next, they do not want a decrease in size. Basically, the next one in line has to be the same size or slightly larger. Maybe that changes over time; the age group I'm drawing this conclusion from is mostly in their mid to late twenties. Still, most of a woman's orgasm comes from her brain; if you're an exciting enough guy, she'll get off.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (4 May 2012):
 If porn makes you so insecure, why do you watch it? I'm not sure how much you're watching, but in the real world most women don't enjoy casual sex. Not because women don't like sex, but because in the vast majority of cases women don't even have an orgasm from it and then they often get called sluts for it.
1) No porn doesn't make women want big penises, porn-sized penises hurt. Also only 1/3 of women watch with any sort of regularity. So it's not really that many.
2) I've never heard of a woman becoming conditioned to giant penises since it often hurts.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 May 2012):
 I watch porn and have since LONG BEFORE you were born....
I don't lust after big penises. I don't lust from porn at all
to be honest most women I know do NOT want casual sex...
and given a choice most women I know prefer a man with a talented tongue over a large dick...
give me a nice average sized penis on a man who has mad skills with lovemaking (NOT just FUCKING) and i"m happy.
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (4 May 2012):
Two things. I think you see women as more similar to men then they really are. Most women are not as into casual sexual encounters as men, and most women do not watch anywhere near as much porn as men.
I agree that if they are honest, woman would rather have a man with a big penis than a tiny one, but all the things that women hold dear come much further up the list.
Those things are: being treated with respect, having warm loving sexual experiences and having a lover who makes love to them with more than just his penis. And these things can rarely be gained from one night stands, which is why women mostly see the light and go off casual sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): 1)Well, everyone's different but I can tell you I've really explored the porn world and as I believe many girls that are more experienced tend to dig into more hardcore stuff, and yes expect more but not exactly in penis size.
2) I'm a girl and for me, never liked big neither huge porn penises, yes it hurts and doesn't turn me on. I guess the best turn on is a hard, hard, ROCK HARD dick. I'm pretty sure that when a girl has a bigger penis that doesn't hurt of course she'll get that high standard and do not lust for a significantly smaller one. It's really ovious.
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