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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He chose my friend over me but now I think he likes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

29 November 2017 (F) - Me and this boy went out for about a month then broke up,he then turned for me for help cos he liked my friend.I got jealousy missed him and told him I love him.whilst he was making up his mind we were making out at mine.he then decided know and ...

I want to have fun but it leaves me feeling guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

29 November 2017 (F) - Im on my first twennies, basically my parents are pretty strict. I've always been the good girl that never hides anything from her parents. I've never lied to them about anyhting or done anything that they dont approve with. I moved from australia ...

Back in touch after 6 months but still confused where I stand with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

29 November 2017 (F) - Hey all - this is a long one so please bear with me. About 6 months ago, a guy I knew started flirting with me and I told him I liked him and he replied that he thought I was fit but just wanted "laughter". There came a point where he wanted to do ...

How do we choose which couple to ask To join us on the cruise?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - My husband and I used to be very close with 2 other couples. It was always the 6 of us doing stuff together. We never made plans without including both coupled and vice versa. Well the 2 couples had a very serious falling out and are no longer ...

He cheated on his boyfriend, do I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

25 November 2017 (M) - I used to fancy a friend of mine, he knows but clearly has no interest I’m coping with that. Now his started going out with a guy 10 years younger than him, he told me they were fun buddies cause he couldn’t go out with someone younger than him...

I'm tired of trying to avoid him ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

25 November 2017 (F) - Okay so this is a really weird situation. I liked this lad since my first year of high school, we had flirty banta untill he left in 2016. After showing up on the bus on my way to the first day of college a few months ago, it bought old feelings up. ...

Does she want my help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

24 November 2017 (M) - Hi guys... Well, there's this girl. I see her almost every day at NA meetings. NA stands for Narcotics Anonymous. Yes, both of us are recovering addicts... We're doing really fine, she's been clean for a year and a half now and myself for about...

I love her, but can't say it out loud!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

23 November 2017 (M) - i knew this girl for 3 months now and we are getting along so well, i love everything about her and i feel like home when i'm with her. we match to each other and have the same frequency. i'm a great listener and i love to listen to her speak. ...

I like her but I'm confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

23 November 2017 (M) - So me and this girl have been talking for quite a while now. I didn't want to rush into anything and we like eachother lots but I don't know i'm confused about it.I really like her but on the other hand, I feel like i'm not good enough for her. I'm ...

Does he even like me? Or is it all in my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

23 November 2017 (F) - So I met a guy a year ago at my mothers work and he and I got along very well we had an instant connection. We grew our friendship for a while and then he left for college about 2 hours away. When he left his mom asked me to plan him a graduation ...

Am I missing something here? He asked for my number but never called!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 22 y/o female from Memphis, TN .. ? I recently got close with this guy that I work with .. We talk, laugh, and joke .. He even gave me a little cute nickname. At first I wasn't really into it, but then I started to really enjoy th...

I've reconnected with an old boyfriend but don't want to hurt my most recent ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hi I've recently met an old boyfriend from years ago ,we still like each other ,I've been in a relationship over a number of years ,but split 3 years ago but are still friends ,it was a violent relationship that's why it ended but I still have ...

I am getting weird vibes from my girlfriend in regards to her friend but I don't want to tell her to stop talking to her friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - So my girlfriend had this mate that they've meet on tinder. She calls my girlfriend everyday and texts her. Practically any social media she can contact my gf. Just a couple of days ago my gf said that they've kissed. I've meet the friend and all I ...

Triangle friendship double cross!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2114 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - Ive been friends with my friend (Samantha) for 5 years and its really had its ups and downs throughout the years but things started to get worse, the competitiveness, the jealousy etc. We love each other very much but there is a lot negativity and ...

Sick of being ignored, what do I have to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - I think I give off a “don’t be my friend” vibe, though I say hi and am polite? All my life people have avoided me, socially and socially at work and in group or social events, like I have A flashing sign “avoid her” I was bullied and social...

We had plans, should I keep him as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for a year now and we have recently gotten pretty close. se seemed like a really easy going person and cool guy to hang out with. He really opens up about his life and we have many deep conversations. Well this past ...

Is this the right person to hang out with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - Should I go back to hanging out with this friends - I had a friend that stopped talking to me because I called her out on her actions. One of my colleagues and I started having out and became friends - it’s a new friendship and within three months ...

My boyfriend has hooked up with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2541 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - I've been dating this guy, and we are crazy about each other. The only thing I'm a little uncomfortable with is the fact that his best friend is someone he's had strong feelings for and hooked up with in the past. plot twist: she is a lesbian. I ...

How can I explain to parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - Hi all :) I’ll share a little details about myself and family before diving into my question. I’m 18 turning 19 soon and just started university and my parents are quite what our generation would say a little “old-fashioned”? I come from a Chinese ...

My housemate keeps having sex in our shared spaces and I don't like it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - My housemate keeps having sex/foreplay with her boyfriend in our shared living spaces, like the living room etc. She tells me and laughs about it, but I actually find it so disrespectful and it makes me quite angry how she disregards my comfort ...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

My best friend is faking he is straight even though we had sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

10 November 2017 (M) - I'm a bi man and in the last year I've had intimate moments with my best friend, for whom I have always had doubts regarding his orientation. It's true that we have both enjoyed it but recently he seems to distance himself from situations where ...

I've always been a people pleaser ... how can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - I can’t stop worrying about what people will think of me - I have always been a people pleaser and have followed the “rules of life” to the T. I got two degreees and got a corporate jobs followe the path. Lately I have fallen in a financial hardship ...

I've worshipped this girl since I was 16! Do I tell her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

8 November 2017 (M) - Basically, I've reconnected with a girl I had a relationship with in school. I was 16, she was 15 and we went out for about a year. She was my first love and in the end we mutually broke up for a number of reasons but it was not on bad or bitter ...

I feel keeping me a secret makes me disposable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I am seeing (dating?) a guy, though problem is, he is my ex's friend. I knew the guy first, and my ex knows we spend time together because we've been friends for years, but my ex is somewhat of a ring leader and if he doesn't like something or ...

My friend refuses to leave her abusive fiance. I want to help her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

7 November 2017 (F) - My gf is in trouble and she won't do anything about it as she's scared of her fiance. My gf has been with her fiance for approx 2 years now and ever since their relationship began, my gf has openly admitted to me that he's been abusing her verb...

What is so "personal" that he can't tell his long term girlfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2558 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - Hi! I've been seeing my bf for about 15 months and things have been mostly good. We have a very loving, affectionate relationship where we share most things and get on well. Except he has this female best friend that he's close to and the thing is I ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend in the hope that he matures at some point, or do I let him go and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

6 November 2017 (F) - Should I stay with my boyfriend in the hope that he matures at some point, or do I let him go and move on? We're both at university (we're both 21) and have been going out for 2 years. We've been having problems lately because he wasn't spending ...

How do I tell them I'm moving out without making it worse for myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

4 November 2017 (F) - So I have a friendship question here. I am currently in uni and live in a uni house with three girls, however it is a bit icy between some of us at the moment. Now, a bit of background, for the past few days/weeks I have felt like I am almost...

Friend sponges off everyone. How do I deal with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - Hi, I have a friend who's used to living off other people. She's funny, smart and she still takes money from her parents (she's 39 years old!), "borrows" money and promises to pay back at some point. Goes out for drinks, meals and almost never...

How do I save this friendship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

2 November 2017 (F) - My best friend and I had a fallout and we both missed each other and agreed to figure out our differences but I don't think she understands that I hate to be lectured. I do not want to sound pompous or like I know everything, because I don't,...

He duped me! How do I learn the red flags and move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

1 November 2017 (F) - I had seen this guy in a walking group over the past 5 months. We were friends a few years ago but lost touch. Over the months he has dropped hints that he likes me, has cuddled and held me for long periods of time and kissed my cheek in a loving ...