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writes:So me and this girl have been talking for quite a while now. I didn't want to rush into anything and we like eachother lots but I don't know i'm confused about it.I really like her but on the other hand, I feel like i'm not good enough for her. I'm afraid of hurting her and did a while ago. I was curious and asked her why she likes me out of all the guys who hit on her but she ignores. I'm just nothing special, I don't have the best looks and i'm honestly stuck in a shithole of depression. My question in general is sort of basic. What shoukd i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 December 2017):
 What did you do to hurt her in the past? Has she forgiven you for that?
You need to not put yourself down, if she tells you that she likes you then believe her. If you feel you are struggling with depression then go to your doctor to get checked out.
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reader, PJ Roy  +, writes (24 November 2017):
I don't know why, your post reminds me of...Do you happen by any chance to listen to LP's 'Lost on You' kind of music?If tomorrow she suddenly stopped speaking to you, would you ask her "Why did you suddenly stop speaking to me?"...Would you be surprised if her answer came back "Did you ever wonder if there was any reason at all why I spoke to you in the first place?"Buddy, if enjoying what you do have means acting confused, building a shithole of depression for yourself, and asking 13-year-old's questions to people who talk to you... by all means, give yourself time, and be a 13-year-old.One thing I'm sure you're old enough to understand, and are ready for: when one day you're truly out there in the arena, remember that The Only Constant Is Change.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (24 November 2017):
 First work on your depression. Get exercise and medical help if it is serious. It could be that you aren't depressed, just sad or a bit unhappy. Teenage years can be like that.
Next, work on your looks. Be clean, tidy and wear clothes you feel good in.
Ask her if she would like to join you for a coffee or perhaps a pizza st a local restaurant = nothing too grand.
And have a few things to chat about. Ask about her interests and talk about yours too. You do have some don't you?
Finally walk her home and ask her if she would like to do it again soon. Simples!
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reader, Miss.Cupid +, writes (24 November 2017):
 Hello, I hope you understand that when someone likes you its not just because of your looks. Maybe she likes spending time with you, the conversations you guys have, you guys share the same interests, etc. Im not saying you're not good looking, I'm sure you are, you're just being hard on yourself. As far as the whole confused part? I'm not really understanding what you're confused about. If she likes you and you like her I don't see why not continue talking and hanging out and seeing where it goes.
Good luck.
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