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*mmamay
writes:So I met a guy a year ago at my mothers work and he and I got along very well we had an instant connection. We grew our friendship for a while and then he left for college about 2 hours away. When he left his mom asked me to plan him a graduation party so I did so I was so excited to do it and get to see him again. The day of his party he came into town with a few of his friends that I had never met and as I was setting everything up I received a random text saying “ I think we should date” I didn’t respond because I wasn’t paying attention to my phone but as I saw the message 30 minuets later I got another text saying sorry that wasn’t him so I ignored it but he ignored me the whole party witch was unusual. Well after that he apologized and said he was embarrassed of his friends and didn’t want them saying anything dumb in front of me. Every time I was in his town we would get together and do things and he just last weekend came down for my brothers birthday party and stayed the night and as we where watching a movie he laid right next to me and put my head on his chest and played with my hair for a whole 2 movies. I feel like he might like me and I like him but I’m not sure because i get so many mixed signals and i don’t want to start developing feelings for him if there’s no chance they will be reciprocated. Do you think he likes me? What should my next step be?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 December 2017):
 Yeah it sounds like this guy likes you as much as you like him. He probably doesn't want to be rejected by you. Would you feel comfortable asking him out? You could make it quite easy and just simply ask him would he like to go on a date with you to see what it would be like. Just play it casual and see how it goes.
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reader, PJ Roy  +, writes (24 November 2017):
I agree with A_Simple_Girl and Carmine's baby 123, if you've got that girl in you then you could straight out ask him, otherwise, just be yourself or work on finding out who you are.
I'm sure though that had it been me, after the "I think we should date", "sorry that wasn't me" nonesense, any girl worth her salt I've met had already marked me off as "now, what are you? a 5 year old infant?!"
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reader, A_Simple_Girl  +, writes (24 November 2017):
I think he likes you. Just straight out ask him. Say "What do you think it would be like if we dated? Would you like that?" and then you'll have your answer. Boys usually tell the truth about stuff like that, just be serious about it. Look him in the eyes and be patient till you get the answer and when you do, don't be weird about it, just act normal.
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