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Archived questions from: July, 2017 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

What does can,t say Goodbye so i,ll say Goodnight mean ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2659 days ago

31 July 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and i split up 3 months ago , the last time, and the last thing she said was , can,t say Goodbye so i,ll say Goodnight , Which one is it ? If she was too upset to say Goodbye, and did not want to say Goodbye ,BUT ...

Is this man a touchy feely person or is he trying to be more than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - So there is this man I have been friends with for a few months. We started out just getting to know each other, small talk, being coordial. Recently, I can tell he has gotten more comfortable with me, which is great. He is not a touchy person with a ...

Is this woman after my husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

29 July 2017 (F) - Does it sound like this woman is after my spouse? My husband started a new job and seemed to become friendly and close to a woman I will call Kathy. They would discuss their personal issues ( our martial) ( her relationship issues). She would ca...

My husband is trying to bully, control, manipulate and isolate me! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

28 July 2017 (F) - I have recently got married again and gradully my husband is imposing boundaries and when i challenge these he becomes incredibly angry to the point of screaming, telling me i'm stupin and running down my friends and family. He is now tell8ng me my ...

Tired of my freinds' boasting about their conquests

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

28 July 2017 (F) - My friends are all in relationships, all very serious, one just got engaged. I'm happy for all of them, really I am, but here's the thing, the last time I had any sort of relationship was when I was 15, and I clearly wasn't enough for him because he ...

I have feelings for two guys, and they're best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2665 days ago

27 July 2017 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I am in a bit of a unique situation which is causing me a lot of stress. My ex, (let's call him M) and I broke up in March after he said he didn't really know what he wanted and he said, "this doesn't mean we can't get back ...

Does she want space or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

27 July 2017 (M) - Six months ago I re-established contact with a girl who I had a thing for when we were young. She is in a relationship but unhappy. I was coming out of a break-up and she was a pillar of support for me when I needed it most. We'd text each other ...

Any suggestions on how to get someone that's been your best friend to see you as more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

25 July 2017 (F) - I'm 15 and I like a guy that's 17 and turning 18 in a few months. I am slightly concerned about the age difference. If we don't *do anything*, there wouldn't be anything from keeping us together, right? I've liked him for years now haha! Any ...

My friend just featured in my dream and I wonder if that means anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2667 days ago

25 July 2017 (F) - Hi! So I once had a dream about watching sunset in the middle of the sea (it's really weird but all my dreams are like that) with a guy but he had no face, and in my dream I think we are in a relationship (because we are doing sweet acts with each ...

I was falling for him and had to end it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - One of the hardest things I've done is ending an opposite sex friendship because we were getting closer than platonic admitted to having feelings for each other. There's a reason we can't be together, which I will not go into. We chatted almost d...

What now? We were hanging out together a lot and I got her free lift tickets and helped her get gear!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

24 July 2017 (M) - I have been hanging out with a girl for 6 months. I moved to town a year ago and was looking to meet new people.. so I come along and offer to take her skiing. Help her get gear, free tickets and we go. Skied a couple of times hang out and life is ...

Have I missed my chance to find a man, settle down and have a family?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

23 July 2017 (F) - What do you do if you want to find someone to share your life with and get married so much that your heart hurts, but you are in your thirties and feel like you missed your chance? I've had lousy luck with guys all of my life. All I want is to...

He asked and asked me so many times for pictures of me. Finally I sent one. I feel so scared that I did this. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

23 July 2017 (F) - So I'm 13. One day my best guy friend asked for pictures of me in a sports bra. Well I told him no and he asked and asked and kept asking. I've took pictures like that before (Not sexual) making sure not to show anything. Well It was 2:30 am and ...

Friend will not take any ownership for problems in our friendship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - Good morning This is such a neat site and I get answers from around the world which is cool. My issue involves a ten year old friendship. I have had bumps in the road with this friendship in the past but we have worked it out but as of late the c...

Should I let him go? or see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2670 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - I met this guy last year while I was drunk eating pizza after clubbing with my friend (typical party girl scene) now I never took this guy seriously I'd always ignore his texts, or keep conversations small, sometimes he'd ask to hang out but I'd ...

I'm feeling more alone being left out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2671 days ago

20 July 2017 (F) - Some people may find this petty but my feeling are being hurt. Theres a close group of 4 of us. Its very hard to get together at the same time due to commitments. 3 of my friends meet up more often and leave me out even tho im free. I dont mind ...

My friend is too clingy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2671 days ago

20 July 2017 (F) - I have a guy friend (JUST A FRIEND). The problem is, though he is nice, he is rather clingy. He always wants to hang out with me. I find it rather awkward. I want to pursue other friendships too and hanging out with him makes it seem like we're ...

He flirts with me when his girlfriend isn't around.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

19 July 2017 (F) - I'm not sure if my male friend is flirting with me or just being friendly. Its starting to make me uncomfortable. So in a nut shell, I've known and been friends with him for over a year now, I'm 18 and he's 23. When we first met I must admit I had...

8 years of trust,broken! Can we make it back?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2673 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - Hi all thanks for your help first of all I have a horrible problem I need help with. Sorry about the lengh. I went on a holiday with 4 of my friends one of them is my boyfriends brothers girlfriend Side note: I've been with my bf 8 years been ...

Can you stay friends after having a one night stand?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2667 days ago

17 July 2017 (F) - About a month ago, I met a guy on a dating site. We would talk from night to morning every day. I kind of like him, but he rarely talked about himself. I was curious about him; therefore, I checked on him on Facebook and found out that he has a ...

How do I find out if he's in contact with my colleagues?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2675 days ago

16 July 2017 (F) - I used to work with a bloke and have texted him a few times, he doesn't respond and yet I sense that he is in contact with other people he worked with but not me. Before he left he made out that he wanted to keep in touch but instead ignores me ...

Should we try to rekindle our friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2676 days ago

16 July 2017 (F) - So this might not be a typical relationship, however, more of a friendship thing. So me and two girls used to be very close friends - call them A and N so it's easier. Me and A fell out with N over silly arguments and ended up hating each othe...

think they are way too secretive and just honestly don't want them anywhere near each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2667 days ago

16 July 2017 (F) - Okay so before me and my bf were dating he had a crush on my best friend but nothing ever happened because he was actually dating someone else. We winded up dating about a yr later. We were kind of like a trio before our romance started but as time...

BF's BFF in love with him and purposely interfering...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2674 days ago

14 July 2017 (F) - Hi All. So one of my boyfriend's best friends is a female. He has only platonic feelings for her and they have known each other for many years. I was excited to meet her and then after I did, every idea I had about thinking we would get along would ...

My friend doesn't have enough to do. How do I tell her to back off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2676 days ago

14 July 2017 (F) - Im a single mum of a teenager i have full time as my ex didnt want to know. I also work so aswell as that i have housework on top. my child helps a lot too which im proud to say i dont have to harass him to help. I have a friend who doesnt work due ...

My boyfriend is a good guy but I'm not in love with him anymore. There's also a new man on the scene but he's in a relationship. I'm clueless about what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

13 July 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm posting this here because I have always had good advice here before and I have no one I can speak to about this. I feel like such an awful person for what I am about to write but I can't go on keeping it in my head. It's ...

Is it that bad I really feel down about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2681 days ago

10 July 2017 (F) - This is so silly but Ive been feeling really down about my friends accomplishments. One being; I've been learning to drive for a good while now and not booked a date for my practical test. My friend has just started (well not long started) and she...

Should I tell my co-worker of my feelings for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2681 days ago

10 July 2017 (M) - Ive fallen quite deeply for someone I work with. He is single and has been for over a year, older than me but not by much. He has not identified his sexuality openly and when I told him I was bi he wasn't bothered by this in fact he said nothing ...

What does all this interaction with him mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2676 days ago

8 July 2017 (F) - Hello, in recent months I have become close to a male friend of whom I knew in grade in junior high in 2002. He added me on FB which was a surprise, as I rejected him in junior high when he showed interest in me. He ended up moving to another state ...

My friend seems keen for me to have sex with his wife

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2676 days ago

8 July 2017 (M) - I am single guy....... A friend of mine and his wife who I have both known for years,went over my apartment last night, after drinking at a local bar,and we ended up having a threesome, after he encouraged her... afterwards it was a little...

Have you ever lied to someone about your feelings for them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2676 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, I'd like to know if anyone has ever lied to a friend of the opposite sex about whether or not you have feelings for them? If so, what was the reason? Did you feel you had to lie because of circumstance? I have a male friend, we talk ...

Should I back of and give her time to deal with things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2684 days ago

7 July 2017 (M) - So for the past month or so I've been sleeping with this girl I know through mutual friends. We always have a lot of fun together when we hang out. She's just getting out of a seven year relationship and is currently in the process of moving out of ...

Online dating. He's not just chatting to me. Should I start chatting to others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2685 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - Online dating. I've had both good and bad experiences doing this . I've been chatting with a guy for a couple of week and we are meeting in a few days for our first date . He's told me the lines how he's hoping i'm the one and what he hopes will h...

I've forgotten how to meet people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2686 days ago

5 July 2017 (F) - Ok I need advice, I'm a widow of 7 yrs, I was married for 27. I have forgotten how to meet people. seems the ones I do just want sex, Im not saying sex is a bad thing. but I want a relationship. Can anyone refresh me on how to meet people. ...

Why is everyone sceptical about a 'friends with benefits' arrangement?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2685 days ago

5 July 2017 (M) - So a while back me and my friend had sex a couple of times. We actually live in a shared house with other people, although they don't know that anything happened between us. We had known each other for about a year before this happened, and had ...

How do I comfort a friend who learned he has herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2685 days ago

3 July 2017 (F) - One of my really close friends got genital herpes and I'm so in shock. He and I have had an on and off fling for a while, but never even kissed cause he's super all over the place. He's practically in love with me, I guess, but anyways that's ...

Why can't I let go of somebody who had let go before it even started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2689 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - I'm so confused with myself and am hoping the advice from unbiased people will help my heart a bit. Last April I started dating someone who was an acquitance for 10 years before that. I fell head over heels and really thought we would work out. ...

I feel like I am a mistake and that everybody knows it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2685 days ago

2 July 2017 (M) - Am i stupid, or just living in the past. I am gay and i don't think i have ever said that before. i have always been scared and think of other peoples feelings rather then my own. I avoid social situations and even family stuff because everybody is ...

I'm keeping him at a distance so I wont fall in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - Does everyone really maybe not know where things will go when you start hanging out with someone you like??? I mean right now of course we like each other and he says a connection is there he just dont know what it is yet.... So yea we had good ...

My LDR girlfriend gets obsessive when I am with my family or friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - So long story short ive been in this relationship and it started off perfectly fine until she got obsessively clingy. Everytime i go out with my parents/friends/family and I'm too busy to respond (I should include this is a long distance ...

What is the point in just sending a message saying "good morning"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

1 July 2017 (F) - I have a male friend who I've been having frequent contact with lately, almost daily at all hours. Sometimes mundane conversation, other times he's talking to me about past relationships, perils of dating online etc). I'm a bit confused though ...