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writes:Ok I need advice, I'm a widow of 7 yrs, I was married for 27. I have forgotten how to meet people. seems the ones I do just want sex, Im not saying sex is a bad thing. but I want a relationship. Can anyone refresh me on how to meet people. Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 July 2017):
 I would suggest you join a club of some sort, maybe for card games or dance or something else that you enjoy. Start with that. Then go online on dating sites. That is another excellent way to meet people these days. Very easy, simple, and you can do it from the comfort of your own couch.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (6 July 2017):
 Get involved in volunteering, evening classes, charities - things like that. The object is then something other than hooking up, if you excuse the phrase. Joining a choir is also a popular pursuit and they are of all different standards and vocal abilities.
Find out what is available in your region. Meet people naturally not because you have been thrown together by a computer programme.
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reader, judgedick  +, writes (6 July 2017):
 I am about the same age and with my wife the same amount of time, and we have said from time to time to eachother that we would not like to be going through all the date game again now , everything looks to have changed , in our day we had no internet so no facebook no dating sites no texting something I could never do, thank god it is said to be on the way out on this side of the pond,
What I find is that there is dating experts out therethat can give you help from what way to dress and how to make small talk, I think I don't have to tell you what way to talk to people when you meet that comes or even just follow the flow,
The hardest part is putting your self out there on the market sort of speak, As I don't know whaer you live I can't say go down to the golf club or to x, so all I can say from here is to give facebook a try join some of their dating groups, one for older people unless you want to get a chap that likes older women, it is free or just join a dating site, you have to keep your eyes open for the guys that have a wife at home,
The good news is you're in the best age of your life, why you have experiences of life on your side, this gives you so much to draw on when you get to meet a person and men also know that you have no plans of making babies, A confident woman in her fifties is ten times better than a belle twenty year old that has none, and your "your own woman" so your not out looking for a sugar daddy.
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