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writes:I have been friends with this guy since 4th grade and I've liked him for a while. We are in high school now and he has a girlfriend. He doesn't really like her anymore but doesnt' want to hurt her. People have told me that he likes me, but I don't know if I should say something to him or not?? I really like him but I don't want to break he and his girlfriend up. Has anyone ever had a similar situation or suggestions on what I should do? Please help. Thanks.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Don't offer to help him end things with his girlfriend. Not unless you want her to hate you.
Also, don't tell him you've heard rumors that he likes you.
Just act friendly when you see him, and say nothing. If he chooses to break up with her then that has to be HIS decision, and not influenced by you.
Perhaps he will, and then will become your bf.......
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reader, Betherly  +, writes (20 February 2011):
Confront him about the whole situation when his girlfriend isn't around. Just say that you've heard certain rumours that he likes you, if her does like you, then great! Tell him that you like him. But if he says he doesn't but you no he doesn't like his girlfriend tell him that you like him or even suggest helping him end it with her x
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