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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well a few days I completely ruined my friendship with a guy who goes to my college and we are or were pretty close. Since December we have been texting and talking an awful lot and grew pretty close and we have so much in common, stupid me started to fall for him! Mainly because I stupidly thought he liked me too. Well I poured my heart out to him and told him how I felt and we kissed, which probably was a big mistake. It turned out that the feeling was not mutual, however he did tell me that he has thought about it, thought about me and him. But When we kissed it really meant something to me, it was so different to any kiss I have ever had before. Even though he rejected me after we kissed my feelings for him have grown stronger. Should I remain friends with the him? even though it will be awkward and seeing him at college and remaining friends while I still have these feelings for him! What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): I feel you. I had this guy friend who is really close to me as well. Everyone thinks we are together (friends and parents). He led me on (or I think he did) and the feelings were not mutual as well. He basically won't be friends with me anymore and for around 2 months we didn't talk.Later, he came back to being my friend again. Umm..its hard to not have ANY feelings at all when some situations are physically close. But my advice would be keep being friends with him. It is sad to not gain a lover and lose a friend at the same time. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): Well I could go all sciectist on you or I can give you the simple awswer,A.tesetormone,it makes the human mind feel in a sensual way AKA love,B.you might need time to take in his feelings along with your own. :D hoped this helped
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