I liked him before my friend called "keeps" on him

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My friend has a guy that she always hangs out with. He is technically her "boyfriend". But she isn't allowed to date. He hangs out with us because he is a mutual friend, equally my friend. But the real problem. I like him!! I don't know what to do to and I feel terrible about it. Iv liked him, now that I think about It, before I knew that my friend had called "keeps" on him. We met in my science class hatter I started swimming my my gym class he would make fun at how I would always run into class right before he bell rang sopping wet (no time to change lol). Well after two weeks swing was over but we kept joking around and became good friends. I started to like him! Some time after that I found that one of my best friends was sorta with him, they don't kiss or anything but I guess they still are together? Anyway he would end up being there when I would hang out with her in the halls before and after school. Iv told my self many times that I don't like him and that he is simple a close friend but it's starting to not work. I don't know what I would do if she found out I liked him. I don't even want to like him, iv gone through one heart break this year and I'm still not over that guy yet. But anyway I don't what to feel this way about this guy but I don't want to stop being his friend. How do I just get this down and just get over him and be happy for them?

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