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writes:Okay im having boy issues. Im thirteen years old and the boy im in love with is 16. Last summer i told him that i had a crush on him and it turned out he had a crush on me too. He told me that he liked me coz her had a dream about me n him getting maried. We were on it with eachother for about two weeks. This boy is a very close family friend and i see him once a week at this martial arts class we both happen to take. After a few weeks he told me that he didnt like me anymore but whenever i saw him he kept giving me mixed messages like staring at me or trying to have a conversation. We didnt really want a lot of people to find out but they did and he really didnt want his best mate to find out but he did in the end to. Then a few weeks later he told his best friend to tell me that he was only pretending to like me beofre because he didnt wana hurt me. I told his sis everything and he texted me saying sorry about it all and we said wed go back to being friend again. His sister siad that he did like me a little bit coz he coulldnt of faked all those feelings. I see him ever week and ive like him for quitwe a long time and itsd always really awkward when we see eachother. Like he smiles at me ALOT and whenever i laugh he smiles at me. I keep getting this strong feeling that were meant to be together coz hes really vlose to the family and i keep feeling this strong connection betweeen me and him. My friends notice it too and they also notice him staring at me alot. Im totally in love with him but hes too religous to go out with me now but later on in life he will. I really love himn alot and in just really confused. Like i duno if he still likes me....and like i just love him a lot. Please help me as this is giving me alot of grief and is taking over most of my life because all i do is think about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow thanks. Capri2.....well i must say im religous too but hes more religous than me. Ive been in love with him for almost a year and when we were together he said things like "we can go out later on in life" and like the staring is really confusing me about him. All my friends think he still likes me but they all try to persuade me that hes a "player" and my older sister keeps telling me to forget him n that hes a idiot. I try to talk to him but he seems really nervous and innocent when i do and i always get mixed up with my words. He probably thinks im a freak....who knows
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reader, TrustInYou  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Dear you,
Hey! What do you know! I'm 13 and have had a crush on my brother's friend for years. If I've learned anything from your story and my experience, it's that he likes you, but he feels about the age. Try bringing it up wit him. But be sweet about it so he doesn't get chased away.
~ The only me,
TrustInYou
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Look, both of you are very young and only just starting to experiment with being friends of the opposite sex. He probably DOES like you, but at his young age its hard for a boy deal with his feelings. He might even feel uncomfortable in front of his friend.
You have a crush on him, and while its fine to like him, it would be good if you can lighten up a little and not be so obssessed and thinking about him constantly.
Better to concentrate on your schoolwork and getting good grades!
Take care
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (21 February 2011):
Whether he likes you or not, you will have to find out. But I guess he really likes you and for a reason (that we don't know) he went back and now is trying to make you think nothing of this was real. You have to know what that reason is and where did it come from.
If he is that religious and you are not. I don't reckon that dating him in the future will be a good idea. Specially if in the meantime you date other boys.
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reader, Betherly +, writes (20 February 2011):
Ofcourse he didn't fake all of tthat! Like you said he didn't want his bast mate finding out and when he did he lied to try and hide it- it's a typical boy thing. Especially how he's 3 years older than you, just be careful. Confront him that you like him and ask him what he thinks of you. Maybe you can tell him that you think you two have strong bonds and that your mention to be xx
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