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writes:I have this really close best guy friend. We are really close, both of our parents think we are going out. He is bisexual. I kind of confessed to him before that I think of him more than a friend, and he didn't feel the same. He just left me and didn't want to be my friend anymore. After a while, he came back. We became closer than before. I slept over at his house before on the same bed. We are like all over each other dancing. I am pretty sure he didn't like me. He likes a lot of guys too.I am confused. I feel like he is just like this? Has anyone been in this type of situation before? Should I continue to be close friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is not the case. It is like I am falling for him, not he is falling for me. Sometimes I feel insecure in this friendship, only because I think of him as more than a friend. But he thinks of me as a friend or he tells me I am only a friend.
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reader, Thisdizzle +, writes (21 February 2011):
If he wants something more than friends, don't lead him on by doing things that would fall outside of "friendship activities.". Otherwise you're setting him up for disappointment by leading him to believe you may be more than a friend some day. Be clear, be direct.
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reader, Betherly  +, writes (20 February 2011):
Of course you should continue to be close friends! Just take hinge easy, step by step. Ask him what he thinks of you..if he likes you more than a friend then great! But if your just a close friend to him take thnigs slowly, maybe even ask him why you slept in the same bed as him x
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