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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How does one stop actively looking for a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - How does one stop actively looking for a relationship? I tend be constantly doing so, and looking at many friendships with women as potential relationships. I wish this weren't the case, and I just want to allow more natural developments. It...

Boys are asking me to change! Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hello. here's my question. i have so many guy friends and since we are now teenagers we are now talking about teenage stuff. some of my guy friends ask me to change and be a little more girly becuase they think i am too tomboyish. should i change?...

What do I do about this problem with my friend and her boyfriend and my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I'm 13. My best friend is dating this guy. He tends to get a little "handsy" at times....She asked me if she should break up with him, and i said she should. But here's the problem, my boyfriend is friends with her boyfriend and often defends ...

Is there anyway I can get them to leave me alone? Without telling my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Okay, there's a quite long backstory to this, but I'll try and surmise it for you. I had a six-month long relationship with this boy, which ended very messily with a lot of bad things said. I won't go into a lot of details, in short he got me ...

I don't love him and I don't know how to tell him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - hey, im 13, i woke up this morning and discorved that i had a text from my best friend, who i havent talked to in a month, because i thought i made him mad when he said i love you and i said love is just an illison, so i awake this morning to a love ...

How can I stop my boyfriend giving massages to his girl friends? He should only do that to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Well I need some advice. Currently I've been getting very jealous over things my boyfriend does with his friends that are girls. They aren't new things he's never done before, and I never used to get jealous. At first it bugged me but I got over it, ...

Is it normal for friends to touch each other so much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Recently I've been making many new friends, both male and female. I have never had any male friends before, my contact with guys was limited to small talk with the boys in my class (needless to say I've never had a boyfriend). Lately, I've bec...

My boyfriend lives somewhere else, he says he loves me, does he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I really need help !! My boyfriend lives somewhere else he always calls and sends me messages they are all sweet when we talk on the phone we can talk for hours without getting board I see him around six times a year we Skype a lot. He told me that ...

I'm living with my boyfriend's ex and she hates him, how do I tell her I'm seeing him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have a complicated situation I need help with. A few months ago my mom kicked me out and I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years for a month before we broke up. When we broke up I moved in with a friend who was my boyfriends ex-girlfriend(they ...

My friend texted my ex from my phone and she thinks I did it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hi i'm 15 and i was recently dating a girl but it wasn't working so i ended it. About three weeks later i started dating another girl whom i'm still currently dating, but one day my friend asked me if he could have a look on my phone i said ok ...

How can I date him and keep my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I am in love with my friend 'Adam'. He's not my best friend or anything, but we sit by eachother in a few courses I met him in. He is SUCH a sweetheart to me, is really funny, kind, and cute. I'm pretty sure he's going to ask me out because whenever ...

My co-worker butted her nose in my friendship with a married man, and now I feel very uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been getting to know a man I met through my work (I look after his son). As far as I am concerned, we are just friends. He has been giving me a lift home from work when he comes to pick his boy up because he has to go past my house to...

My best friend hates me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - I have this best friend JP (not a real name of course) andvI'm afraid. I've always been more popular, got the most girls and had the most influential friends. JP is just coming into the world of popularity as a freshman. i feel that he's been ...

My husband and best friend had sex and blame it on the drink!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - SO, in need of some advice- my husband, who've I've been for 6 years and have a son with, has slept with my best friend. After a long night of partying she stayed over at our house. My husband, who was totally drunk, decided to go into her bedroom ...

The unthinkable happened, he just wants to be friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Last night my boyfriend Angel told me he just wants to be friends. It happened all of a sudden and I didn't see it coming. The reason for it is somewhat vague and I haven't fully grasped why yet because Angel was having a hard time expressing ...

My friend usually criticises what she did last night

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I went to a party at a friends house last night and there was alcohol, i'm not much of a drinker, so i hung around with my other friends who just wanted to dance and have fun. The problem is, my close who i used to have respect for got 'drunk' ...

How is this possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - my friend is hiv positive and pregnant but her husband is hiv negative how is it possible?...

My FWB cancelled out with a lame excuse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have this friend with benefits we decided we didnt want a relationship but tonight i called and asked what i was doing i invited him over. he said make sure im awake and dont fall asleep on him, which i always do. two hours later he text me and ...

My girlfriend ends up kissing her best friend whenever we're on a break!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - please i need your opinions , every single one possible , i just do not get what my girlfriend means when she tells me she always had feelings for her best male friend ?.. i know that they kissed and done stuff together but i dont know what to think...

Has he become the guy I dread?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - So there's this boy I really like, let's say A. A and I have known each other for about two years, talking/hanging out a lot since about September, and I fell for him at the beginning of October. A is super sweet, hilarious, kind, and one ...

My neighbor asked me if I would engage in a FWBs with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My neighbour recently approched me online about the idea of friends with benefits. We had been casually talking for a couple weeks. At first I was totally offended he thought that way about me but lately I've really been warming up to the idea. He's ...

My boyfriend's best friend aka his ex, has convinced him to dump me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We've been through so much together, our relationship has been nothing but a crazy roller coaster ride! It all began 4 years ago, at the very beginning of our relationship. At the time I ...

Will he say yes if I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Ok well ive been getting mixed singals from this guy i like. Hes so sweet and considerate and caring. He makes me love him. i havent met him n person cuz i met him on Facebook thru my friend/his ex girlfriend. But hes sent me videos of him on ...

Anyone, can you help my married friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Ok I have a friend and his wife is so skeptictal about every woman that speaks to him they have been together for 13 years she constantly calls she is 33 and he is 44 . She burned right through the deployment money, she traveled to her home town , ...

Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hi eyeryone! Okay so here is my question. My friend told me that she lost her virginity and i asked how did it go and she said it hurt really bad but in the end felt good. so i was wondering. Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt or is that ...

Is it because he feels something more or he thinks that I do???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have been fuck buddies with a guy for quite a while now, but lately things are getting weird but for whatever reason we havent seen each other for a couple of weeks. That's because when one of us plans to chill something always comes up. Now he's ...

Should I continue to do my thing and be myself... or make a change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - I hate how my friend who is dating the girl I care about probably more than he does just acts like she is just another girl. I hate how he talks about how he is trying to get my other friend to hook up with this girls friend. And finally I hate ...

I was thinking about saying something kinda funny that might get a little reaction rather than just a simple happy birthday.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - well its been about a month since the last time I have contacted this girl... we were friends according to her but I always felt we weren't idk why but she wasn't like my other friends who are girls. I use to talk to her 4 or 5 times a week and ...

Help!!! Is he ashamed of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - im 14 and me and this guy have known each other since we started high school and we stared goin out recently and we were out today with all our m8s and theres this 1 boy and he saw us kissin and he called me a s**g and my bf walked away from me an ...

He keeps asking all my other friends out, but he won't ask me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Wow i have alot of problems. Well this one is about this guy Jared. Ive been getting mixed signals and i just wana scream ASK ME OUT ALREADY!! But im afraid. I was texting him today and he made my day:D He asked me what i wanted for my b-day. At ...

Should I just be friends or should I persist and give it more time to see if this turns out to something serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - About 3 weeks ago I met this girl in the school that I'm attending. Were both in the same program and taking the same classes. She has a baby that is 1 year old. We really hit it off from the beginning and the chemistry was great. The second week ...

Troubled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly six months and i am so happy, and i love him to bits! I went out with my friends a couple nights ago and i know this sounds incredibly lame and like i'm making excuses but i had a lot to drink and ended up ...