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writes:Ok I have a friend and his wife is so skeptictal about every woman that speaks to him they have been together for 13 years she constantly calls she is 33 and he is 44 . She burned right through the deployment money, she traveled to her home town , when he wanted to see relatives he had not seen in years due to a death in the family she replied you know money is short but when thanksgivings rolled aound she literally made him go pick up her mother and father a three hour trip down and back then had to take them back and not only that he took the third car to her families house now he has to spend x-mas there he was He was invited by one of his brothers for thanksgiving dinner he declined he recently had a grandchild his wife refuses to acknowledge any of his other children but he says that he has put her through a lot so can you help my friend anyone.someone
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reader, petina1  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 Your friend needs to be stronger with her and insist that she is fair, whatever she does with her family he has a right to the same treatment with his. He must voice it. It does sound like she is not interested at all in his feelings or his family, she is immune to anything to do with that side, bit selfish really, as long as she is okay then she won't think about that. As a friend you could egg him up a bit and tell him to be strong and even if it means refusing to drive her or her family anywhere that's what he must do. She is using him as a doormat.If he has put her through a lot then maybe she is punishing him, but if she can't show him forgiveness for whatever he's done, she should walk away because her reasons are purely for herself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): whose problem is this? Yours? his? His wife's? His children?
It's not clear. Does this man have a girlfriend on the side? Why is the wife so suspicious? Does she have a reason to be sceptical?
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (12 December 2010):
 How would you like us to help him? His wife is a Biotch. IF he isnt happy with her why is he with her. I cant believe that she wont recognize his other kids. This is partly his fault to. He needs to learn how to say no. To do what he wants.
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