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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Don't want to be speechless anymore!

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20 December 2010 (F) - I fancy this guy but I get all tongue-tied when I see him. How can I overcome this and get flirting???...

I was his rebound and two years later still think about him... how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Sorry if this is long but I need some help. About 2 years ago I met a guy who I fell really hard for. He was so different to anyone I'd ever met before and he made me feel like I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He's in the military ...

Is this defined as cheating?

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20 December 2010 (F) - I have a friend she has been with her bf for a few months and she started talking to an old friend of hers... She started sending pictures of herself to him in her bra and him pictures of himself with out clothes. i told her that i think its ...

Are we going out? Or just acting like it?

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20 December 2010 (F) - My friend and I have been nonstop texting and flirting, however, we only see each other once or twice a week at church because he lives at his college. He has told me that he really likes me and that he wants to go on a date with me. Last night, h...

Why can't he look at me???

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20 December 2010 (F) - Hi. Just wondering possible reasons? Over a year ago I had what is called an emotional affair at work. HR got involved and others...nevertheless it caused us to not be friendly anymore because of lies and drama..well we have been friendly here and ...

Should I tell her parents?

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20 December 2010 (M) - My best friend and I have been friends for 4 years now. And we both go to the same school. He started dating this girl that we both became really close too, and it came to the point where she fell for me over him. They broke up and we’re dating now. ...

Is this a crush... or not?

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20 December 2010 (F) - So, now i have this MASSIVE problem... I'm 16 years old and dont know if i have a crush on this guy or not.... like i cant realize if its just a simple crush that'll pass in time or just that i really like this guy as a friend... It happened...

Help! Ex boyfriend spread secrets but I still l like him?

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20 December 2010 (F) - Right please answer this. i moved to a new school and a few months in i met this lad and everyone told me to get with him so i did. we went out for 2 weeks i finished it before it got too serious because i am scared of commitment i dont know...

Do you think he's trying to use me until he finds someone he's more interested in?

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20 December 2010 (F) - Can someone please help me figure out what this guy is trying to do with me? So I met this guy about 5 months ago... Been talking mostly on text and instant messenger. Even though, I cancelled our first date, we went out once and had a great ti...

Would a man show up at my place just for friendship or is there any hope he's gonna ask me out eventually?

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20 December 2010 (?) - I'm 30 and there's this colleague of mine I met in Sept whom I really really fancy. Anyways, he's 40 and the other day he asked me for my address saying he'd show up to say hi one day. Tonight he showed up, totally unannounced, with a box of choco...

Why is it her friends can look at me but she can't ?

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20 December 2010 (M) - So theres this girl who once before looked me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, in deep meaningful way, for a prolonged time (5 or 6 secs) but she cant seem to look at me any other ...

I feel his friends are more important to him than I am...

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20 December 2010 (F) - well im 18 yrs old i turned 18 oct 7th and ive been with this guy every since i was 15. i got pregnant and had my son at 16, so he is basically all the men i knew, he is about to be 21 i am very faithful to him, never lie or cheat or nun to him i ...

What exactly is a FWB?

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20 December 2010 (F) - If a guy just wants to be friends with benefits, does that mean that he only finds you physically attractive, or could he possibly care about you too and like your personality, but just not want a serious relationship ?. ...

Should I tell him how sad I am our "friendship" is over or just move on??

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20 December 2010 (F) - Hello to anyone who reads this, your time is greatly appreciated. My best friend has broken my heart. For the past 2 years he has lived his own life, studying on the other side of the country. It has been hard staying in each other’s lives, and I al...

How can I become friends with her for the right reasons??

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20 December 2010 (F) - Hi, so basically I've been in love with this guy that is my ex-bestfriends older brother! When her and I were bestfriends this other girl said stuff about her that wasnt true (which she happens to tell me now) and I got mad at that ex bestfriend an...

Is she out to sabotage my love life??

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20 December 2010 (F) - I have a friend who Ive known since I was 12. Shes one of my bestfriends, love her to death. But lately Ive been feeling a little funny about her. Years ago when I was in highschool, I had a boyfriend. Things were good between us until she came ...

I'm just one of the girls to him, suggestions needed to change that please??

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20 December 2010 (F) - This will seem reminiscent of highschool drama, which is quite immature for a University student, but I need help from you pro’s. Since you’re on this site and reading this intro, you might as well answer, right? Say yes please. Anyway, here g...

Should I tell her now or never, break up with her now or later??

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20 December 2010 (M) - I've been dating a girl for the past several months. I use the term dating loosely because we haven't had any conversations on boundaries yet or monogamy. That's a problem in itself because she is much more in to me than I am in to her. Don't get me ...

..Should I just forget about my superstar love??

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20 December 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm just another average girl, with just another average life. But my problem is that I'm unconditionally and completely in love with this guy, which is kinda normal. But what's not normal is that now he's a super star and if I named him ...

Is it healthy/normal for a man to have so many female friends?

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20 December 2010 (F) - Is it weird for a guy to have a lot of friends that are girls, and whose closest friends are girls? Is there ever a time when this is perfectly healthy and NOT a red flag?? The last two guys I've dated have had mostly female friends. At the...

Does he just like the chase?

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20 December 2010 (F) - I've been talking to this guy online for a while now. He claims he is interested and he cares about me, but lately he has been busy. So, we haven't had the opportunity to talk much. We usually send each other messages on facebook but lately he hasnt ...

I kissed a girl on my course, both in relationships, do I approach the subject?

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20 December 2010 (M) - It was our christmas party at University last night and we all out for drinks afterwards. I ended up spending most of the night hanging out with a girl I get on with on the course. We where both drunk and things where a bit flirtatious between us ...

Should I trust her? Says she she loves me, but dates another.

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20 December 2010 (M) - My ex gf say said she loved, then a guy walks up on us, and turns out she was on a date with that guy that night? we hung out almost every day for a week, then we talk, but don't do see each other, then the next night shes on a date with a guy, ...

Star crossed lovers or friends? What's the best advice to give?

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20 December 2010 (M) - Right so, here is a situation. My friend, who is a girl, has just broken up with her boyfriend of a year and a half. Now, she is an extremely attractive young girl, funny and intelligent. All of that. However, I can't bear to see her upset and gi...

Addicted to my ex's FaceBook, what can I do?

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20 December 2010 (M) - Its been two weeks since I broke up. I have managed to get her to talking terms(though on facebook). Apologised and been forgiven my wrong doing. She told me she doesn't want a come back and I have decided to wait because I love her. She has been ...