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writes:Ok well ive been getting mixed singals from this guy i like. Hes so sweet and considerate and caring. He makes me love him. i havent met him n person cuz i met him on Facebook thru my friend/his ex girlfriend. But hes sent me videos of him on Youtube, we text, we talk on the phone, and he goes to a local school. Well he told my friend that he would probaly date me but when i askd him he said that ya he would but he doesnt want to break the friendship. But he always calls me beautiful, and says he loves me. He cares and i really like him. Do u think if i ask him out he'll say yess? or do u think he likes me. Plz tell me wat u think.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 So let me get this straight, this guy is your friend's ex?
If that is correct, then regardless of how you both feel it is very WRONG to ask him out. This girl is supposed to be your friend, why do you want to hurt her by dating her ex? Friends should always come before boys because your friends will be there for you forever, but boys come and go.
If you really feel very strongly about each other and really are sure that you want to have a relationship - then talk to your friend before you do anything. You never know, if you go to her first she might appreciate that and may not mind if you date him. But then again she might say that she would not be ok with it - in that case you will just have to let him go.
So either ask your friend if she would be ok with you dating, THEN ask him out. Or just leave him alone. I dont think he will date you until he knows that your friend (his ex) is ok with it - so if you want him to say yes then you are going to have to ask her first. Or decide that your friendship is more important and not worth risking, therefore you will just have to leave him alone and move on.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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