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writes:I hate how my friend who is dating the girl I care about probably more than he does just acts like she is just another girl. I hate how he talks about how he is trying to get my other friend to hook up with this girls friend. And finally I hate that they both know I like her and keep talking about her in front of me. They know I am trying my best to end contact with her and I have been good for about a month but it makes it hard when I heard her name almost every class Im in. I don't have a problem with anyone its not my business but people need to know when enough is enough and when I ask them to NOT talk about her around me they give me so much crap for it like its not alright for me to be friends with her even know I knew her before they did and I think she is something special even know they don't necessarily. I hate that I am a gal pal and don't have a girlfriend. I hate that I want to be there for everyone regardless of what is going on in my personal life. I hate that it seems like what ever I do is not good enough, I hate seeing my friends who don't have to try at all get a girl to date them that could be an angle when they aren't in good shape and are short. Im 6'4 about 170 lbs. They are like 6 foot 190 lbs and not cut up at all. I hate that I have red hair. I hate everything bad that happens to my family isn't to me I would take a bullet for anyone in my family to protect them but it seems like they are the ones always getting hurt. I hate that my mothers cancer came back. I hate that my brother is going off to college next year. I hate that my life is going by fast already and Im only 17. I hate that I can get girls to like me at parties or at a concert but thats only for one night and I want something longer than that. my question is should I just continue to do my thing be myself not push for anything or should I make a change? Im tired of seeing people that treat a girl like she is any other girl get a girlfriend. There was a girl at my old school who said she got smacked by her boyfriend a few times and I said he is a coward she thought that was sweet but she still dated him. its like what the hell. thanks for the help
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): i dont think its you, i think the girls that are getting passed around those guys arent good enough for you. and although these girls might claim that they want a serious relationship, they apparently dont know how to have one, this is a girls way of finding what they do/dont want, so they're probably not ready for what you are. i feel that if you want one serious relationship with one person, and you dont want to be in them guy's mix of girl drama, then the one girl will be worth waiting for. but until then you should probley do you and enjoy being single, dont view it so miserabley, once you settle down alot changes for most men, and this is a chance for you to figure out what you'd expect from a girl. note the girl your talking to has a boyfriend.
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