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writes:Hello.here's my question. i have so many guy friends and since we are now teenagers we are now talking about teenage stuff. some of my guy friends ask me to change and be a little more girly becuase they think i am too tomboyish. should i change? i like being a tomboy but since i am a girl i want boys to look at me now. what should i do? help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all! Oh and Illithid. You are right! The world needs more tomboys so i am going to stick to my tomboy way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): hii...
don't you DARE change a THING!!! there is absolutely nothing at all wrong with being a tomboy. and changing just because a guy tells you to would open up a whole new can of worms that you most definitely do NOT want to get started on. based on my experiences, once you change one thing for a guy, they're like, "okayy, great!!! now, can you just change (insert some other thing here)?" and so begins a never-ending cycle that leaves you feeling like crap.
you are who you are, and you should never change that for anybody. and you really don't HAVE to change anything just to get boys to look at you. somewhere out there is a guy that is going to love and accept you exactly the way that you are. soo, just keep on being you. ")
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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reader, Illithid +, writes (13 December 2010):
 NOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Don't change! The world needs MORE tomboys, not fewer! Girls in an inch thick layer of makeup, wearing thongs and heavy earrings, walking around in heels and miniskirts are EVERYWHERE! What we NEED are more women that feel comfortable respecting themselves and just having fun with life. (Admittedly, the girls I've dated have all been tomboys, so this may just be my preference.)
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reader, longtimer +, writes (13 December 2010):
no you shouldnt change. if you want boys to like you, they'll like you for who you are, and they wont ever ask you to change.
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (13 December 2010):
 if you feel like thats what you should do then do it.but do it because YOU WANT TO DO IT and not because OTHERS WANT YOU TOO. you will come to find that some boys like tomboys such as yourself. haha i one of them lol i always wanted to date a girl who plays basketball like i do for some reason lol.
anyway i hope i helped
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reader, babsbunny69  +, writes (13 December 2010):
you dont need to fully change yourself who you are on the inside should never change unless on your own account however if you want the boys to start taking notice of you then it is time for change with your appearance there is nothing wrong with looking like a girl taking care of your skin throwing on some make up growing out your hair getting some fake nails and still skate boarding scraping your knees(so long as your not planning on a skirt) and being like the guys chillen out and not being like those preppy girlie girls but keep in mind you are a girl so let her out
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