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writes:I'm 23 and have been single for 4 months now. I've been getting on quite well with a guy who used to work with me, we kept in touch when he was made redundant but I'm not sure where things will go. He has been single for 4-5 months too, he had a bad time with his ex, so I'm not sure whether he's just being extra cautious or whether he's jus being polite. Colleagues have commented that they think he likes me but doesnt quite know what to do about it, and another coleague always refers to him as "your boyfriend" whenever he mentiones him.I asked him if he wanted to meet for lunch last week when he was in the office for his appeal meeting and he text me the following day to confirm a time, then put x on the end of his message, which he's never done before, but he has hardly replied to my messages since then! I'm just confused by him because he added me on Facebook and was asking colleagues about me before I told anyone I liked him, and now he seems to be playing games with me. Should I just ask him outright how he feels, I dont want to scare him off but I can't keep trying to second guess how he feels.What do you suggest? This is all new to me, I got with my ex when I was 17 and it was all so easy, no games no playing hard to get, no risk of getting things wrong. Part of me wants to just say "oh for heavens sake shall we get together or what?!" HELP! Thanks
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 December 2009):
Best thing to do is ask him. He might be very shy and not really know what to do. So yes, sit him down and ask him where he sees all this going. Good luck.
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